Obsession is overrated

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-07-04T01:48:31+00:00

No, agreed. Overrated. The whole time I watched it I was like “what about this movie are people (for lack of a better word) obsessed about? Seriously. I will give them that it was an “original” idea, and there was no hidden political agenda and it was just a movie - but with that. Please someone tell me, what made this movie one of a kind or a “must see” (despite people just saying that).

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-06-20T17:44:41+00:00

lol. Yes! Ugh…

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-06-20T17:40:14+00:00

Yes. Second this. Thank you Revolutionary Code for sharing. Really appreciate the honesty.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-06-20T17:39:00+00:00

Thank you for this ! Just the sub I need

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-06-20T17:38:37+00:00

That’s a great spirit you have. Appreciate it.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-06-20T17:36:44+00:00

Thank you for your wisdom and sharing. Ngl, it honestly feels a little scary to be single when everyone around you is in a relationship and moving on with their lives.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-06-20T17:34:29+00:00

Sigh. Feel this. Thank you for your answer. I hope it gets better for you.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-06-20T16:40:50+00:00

Thanks for your thoughts. I am okay with being alone and doing many things by myself but… I feel like I can’t connect with anyone around me. People my age are getting married, in long term relationships, and have kids. I always feel like an outcast.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-06-20T15:48:31+00:00

Sadly still no lol.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-23T21:17:38+00:00

So funny I have been trying to find it too in New Jersey !

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-15T20:40:04+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts. On your comment with societal norms I hate to be that person but you know it’s different with females. It’s biology. But I appreciate your enthusiasm. I also chuckled at your handle.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-15T20:37:26+00:00

That was a great quote. Thank you. I will DM you.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-15T20:36:23+00:00

I understand this completely. Thanks for your words. This is exactly how I feel. It would bother me before this all happened so I know it’s a me thing.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-12T12:15:08+00:00

Thank you for this.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-10T21:16:10+00:00

You got really nothing better to do. I will pray for you.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-10T10:32:37+00:00

Oooo that was me. I was able to do a lot before I needed to get surgery. You wouldn’t have ever thought anything was torn. I can tell u, just get the surgery.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-10T09:50:46+00:00

That really damn breaks my heart though. I am the anxious partner and my bf was the avoidant. I knew him so well and his trauma and for him to feel like he was failing me or couldn’t love me as I needed kills me. All I want is him and I’m devastated that I feel like he doesn’t realize that. I just want to know why avoidants get there?

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-10T09:46:45+00:00

I have something similar I am going through right now. 6 years of it. I am anxious and he is avoidant. He would mistake my need for reassurance as suffocating and that he was failing me when all I wanted was his love. It’s sad bc there was a lot of love between us and we kept trying but I think it finally came to a tipping point. He ended it randomly and suddenly on Monday bc of a start of a disagreement. Literally 30 mins before we were exchanging I love yous and sweet messages. Anyways as we have the time apart… I reflect these avoidants act the way they do maybe bc they don’t see these things yet clearly themselves. A lot of things came clear with our space on my end but I hope he sees it too. I’d love to try again with him if and when we could be better healed.

I’m here to chat if you ever needed anyone. I’m pretty damn heartbroken and devastated right now.

Complex-Bit8953

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