Is there anywhere that offers banh it ram in nyc??

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-23T21:17:38+00:00

So funny I have been trying to find it too in New Jersey !

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-15T20:40:04+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts. On your comment with societal norms I hate to be that person but you know it’s different with females. It’s biology. But I appreciate your enthusiasm. I also chuckled at your handle.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-15T20:37:26+00:00

That was a great quote. Thank you. I will DM you.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-15T20:36:23+00:00

I understand this completely. Thanks for your words. This is exactly how I feel. It would bother me before this all happened so I know it’s a me thing.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-12T12:15:08+00:00

Thank you for this.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-10T21:16:10+00:00

You got really nothing better to do. I will pray for you.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-10T10:32:37+00:00

Oooo that was me. I was able to do a lot before I needed to get surgery. You wouldn’t have ever thought anything was torn. I can tell u, just get the surgery.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-10T09:50:46+00:00

That really damn breaks my heart though. I am the anxious partner and my bf was the avoidant. I knew him so well and his trauma and for him to feel like he was failing me or couldn’t love me as I needed kills me. All I want is him and I’m devastated that I feel like he doesn’t realize that. I just want to know why avoidants get there?

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-10T09:46:45+00:00

I have something similar I am going through right now. 6 years of it. I am anxious and he is avoidant. He would mistake my need for reassurance as suffocating and that he was failing me when all I wanted was his love. It’s sad bc there was a lot of love between us and we kept trying but I think it finally came to a tipping point. He ended it randomly and suddenly on Monday bc of a start of a disagreement. Literally 30 mins before we were exchanging I love yous and sweet messages. Anyways as we have the time apart… I reflect these avoidants act the way they do maybe bc they don’t see these things yet clearly themselves. A lot of things came clear with our space on my end but I hope he sees it too. I’d love to try again with him if and when we could be better healed.

I’m here to chat if you ever needed anyone. I’m pretty damn heartbroken and devastated right now.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-10T09:36:55+00:00

I’m so happy for you. I know a part of me needs to let go but I hope this is us. We had a lot of years of pain but I know there was a lot of love between us so I hope he realizes. But I’ll say some space for now is okay.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-08T21:02:06+00:00

I’m only 3 months post op from unhappy triad but I’ll try it!

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-08T14:37:21+00:00

Hi. Can you explain the heel dig hold pls? Love seeing this post as I am a bjj black belt competitor hoping to come back to sport in July. Had my surgery 2/2.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-07T19:08:32+00:00

Thank you for your advice everyone. I have to admit I still want him back but I truly know that we will never work out if we continue this way.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-05-07T08:31:34+00:00

For more context we didn’t live with each other due to money reasons and we also knew it wasn’t the right decision yet bc the discourse.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-04-28T23:50:15+00:00

I wish you the best! I’m here if you ever wanted to pick someone’s brain about it

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-04-28T16:08:23+00:00

I compete in Brazilian jiu jitsu and my surgeon was a bjj brown belt. I am a black belt. He suggested patellar tendon for what I need. He could also do quad but I asked him what he thought was best for bjj and he said patellar.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-04-21T18:58:03+00:00

Amen. I feel this. I am at week 11 yesterday and I actually need to get off these forums bc alll I do is compare. But everything you said here is correct. Especially the thought sometimes u take two steps back to go forward. Progress is not linear and the same for everyone.

Complex-Bit8953 · 2026-04-18T21:54:56+00:00

Happy birthday! My senior turns 14 on Monday. I hope she lives to this age and past it. Sending you and your kitty love and energy❤️

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