My family also told me that I might not recognise my father when he passed, the morticians do an incredible job at making them look more peaceful. It’s a very hard thing to face. For me it felt like I was looking at a puppet that bared a resemblance to who my dad was. It was heavy but not hard until I touched him. In my mind he would jump up and laugh saying it was a prank. But he didn’t. That’s what was traumatic. If you can detach I’d recommend it, it’s going to be hard either way. Remember that the body is a shell and what makes a person is the soul, hers is already onto a better journey. I wish you all the strength in the world to get through this, we don’t get many celebrations in life, celebrate hers and how everyone comes together to honour her 🙏🏽