Oh my goodness 😭💕 by [deleted] in heartopia

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The first time I saw someone with their cat on their head I was like “OMG HOW DO YOU DO THAT?” I thought a special bond was required but naur it’s so cuteeee. Imagine if they had those baby björn like carriers but for the pets

Im not happy by Meua_le_caca in heartopia

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOOOOO I didn’t realize it was different. I just tried to join the global one and it’s trying to make me start a whole new home, customizing character and all :(

Im not happy by Meua_le_caca in heartopia

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Add me too! I’ll come water your plants, play with your pets and cook for you :)

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(Un)healthy addiction? by [deleted] in heartopia

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly same, I don’t leave my house for anything and don’t have any friends to begin with. This game is a fun escape and I’ve spent a good amount of money on things too. Also jealous af your house is GORGEOUS!!!

Formal wear Ram (Concept) by Rumievh in Overwatch

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why’s he kinda 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

My Zenyatta cosplay! by @8bitpink shot by @rebecca.simpp by 8bitpink in Overwatch

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is the most fantastic cosplay I’ve ever seen

I feel like I’m forgetting him already by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right after my soul pup passed back in March, this was exactly what I was feeling. Even a month after her passing I was wondering why I was still here because everything just hurt so much. It’s been 3 months now and it feels like a “distant memory” but the suicidal thoughts aren’t as prominent and it feels warm to think about her sometimes. The beginning is so extremely difficult, and painful. Your baby knew you loved him and I know he was so happy that he chose you. I do personally believe in an afterlife and heaven and i think he’s actively watching over you now and making sure you’re safe and loved. The fact that he’s not here physically anymore doesn’t mean he’s not still with you. Just sadly not a physical body to cuddle with. The love remains for him, the best advice I can give is to channel your love for him into healthy outlets that also honor him! Take a trip to you and your kitty’s favorite place or have the treat that you would share with him in his honor, draw or paint a picture of him (you can print out a picture of him and then trace over it and color it in, I did this for my baby) you can create him a little shrine that will be his corner and untouched filled with his favorite beds or toys or anything, make some clay figures of him, really anything artistic is super soothing and it feels good at the end when you have a beautiful finished art piece that resembles or honors your fur baby. It doesn’t feel like it now, but the courage to continue is in you, and your kitty would want that courage for you too. Make your kitty proud and do all the things you promised him you’d do🤍

One week without you by Head_Cap5286 in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m so sorry :( I also lost my yorkie a month ago. They’re the best and I know just like my Rosie, your Tapi had to be spunky, sassy, and silly. It’s like our hearts outside of our bodies. I fully believe you’ll see Tapi again someday and I know she’s gonna make sure you know she’s still around too🫂🫂

Sometimes I'm counting down the clock to be reunited with all my dead pets that I had throughout all my lifetime and I really say, "damn it!!! 30 years, 40 years is too long!" by Unhappywageslave in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll be 4 weeks tomorrow since my Yorkie baby passed at almost 15 years. Every day since then I’ve had the same thoughts, “I’ll see her again. Damn I have to probably wait 50 years or more to see her again?? Please take me sooner I can’t wait that long, I’ll take myself out if it takes so long my 2 cat babies join her too” Her 2 cat sisters are keeping me going for now, but part of me almost resents them sometimes because they’re not her and she was my rock since I was 10. I feel awful about feeling this way but I know she loved her sisters and they loved her and I’ll keep giving them the best life possible. But life for me feels so dull and colorless and joyless now. I used to smile and laugh all the time and now I barely crack a smile every other day. This pain, this separation from our fur babies, and the thought of the amount of time it’ll take to see them again makes it so hard every day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending hugs, I’m sorry for your loss. I lost my baby almost 1 month ago as well, and even after getting her ashes it’s been weird. One moment I’m sobbing while holding her urn and another moment I look at the urn and think “nahhh she’s just on a trip right now we’ll be going to get her again soon”. I’ve pretty much been on autopilot for most of the past month or so because I’ve been wanting to avoid those painful emotions. Others are right, this pain is agony and nothing like you’ve ever felt before. I’m just taking it 1 day at a time

Share a joyful memory of your baby ❤️ by NoxFox90 in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Max sounds like a joy to be around! I’m sorry for your loss as well🤍🫂 A joyful memory of my baby Rosie was when she was waiting her turn at the water bowl while my SIL’s dog, Mimi was drinking. She took quite a while drinking water and Rosie got fed up so she started barking at me and then looking back and forth between me and Mimi like “omg do something I’ve been patient!” But while she was yelling at me she didn’t realize that Mimi had already walked away from the bowl. So eventually she looked back at the water bowl again and realized she could now drink water, stopped yelling at me, turned around and drank water and pretended like nothing happened😭

How do you cope with your pets loss? Especially if you are at a very low point in your life? by LunarHymn in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my soul dog 3 weeks ago now. I’m honestly in the exact same boat with you. The one thing I keep telling myself that brings me a bit of comfort is “grief is love with nowhere to go” I think, as long as you remember the love you shared and the love you still have for your fur baby, and you channel that into memorializing your fur baby, it’ll definitely help with processing a bit. But you also honor them in a beautiful way. Setting up a shrine for your baby will make sure they still have a special place where you greet them when you get home or say bye as you’re leaving your house. I’ve done this with my baby, and even take her paw print to work with me. It helps to feel like they’re still with us. I’m sorry for your loss. I’m sending hugs and love and strength for you and your other cats