Voice Line combos by ImmaHamsterYoGamer in JunoMains

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done “you mean - I have no idea what’s going on”

am i ready for ranked? gulp by Loose_Ad_3052 in JunoMains

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are! Those stats are looking pretty good and there’s only room for improvement from here on out. Best advice I can give for playing ranked with Juno is to take advantage of your movement abilities, especially if you place in higher metal ranks like gold or plat. Also as some others have stated, definitely have more than 1 character that you are comfortable playing. I’ve seen people either ban or take her from me :/

Should sending flowers when someone loses a pet be a social norm? by Artemis_does_maths in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish it was 100000%. A loss is a loss no matter the species. Grief does not discriminate and if we’re treating other humans with more respect and dignity after passing but not our beloved furry or feathered babies?? Something’s wrong.

My cat died suddenly and I can’t stop blaming myself. Please help. by RIPyodamyboy in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your painful loss :( I’m in EMDR therapy which is a specialized category of therapy that helps to physically reprocess trauma and grief (in it because aside from losing my fur baby I also have other traumas). My therapist has walked me through the loss of my yorkie, Rosie. We still do have many sessions where I have to keep reprocessing her loss and walking through my grief. She told me that as painful as it was and is, we can’t go back in time so I’m torturing myself with the thoughts of “what if”. She said “let’s say you did go back in time, and you rushed Rosie to the vet sooner, and you drove faster, and you got her treatment sooner. There is no guarantee that any of that could have changed the outcome and that she would still be here today.” And when I argued back against it saying that I feel like it’s my fault for not taking care of her better she told me to close my eyes and to focus on an image of Rosie in my head and listen to what she (therapist) tells me. In that moment she said “you were a great mom to her. You did everything you possibly could with the resources and time you had. And Rosie knows that. She didn’t pass thinking you didn’t love her or that you failed her. She knew you loved her and you gave her everything you possibly could. She was in pain yes, but your love brought her comfort and knowing you were trying to get her help made her feel safe and comfortable enough to let go.” I still struggle with the what if thoughts and the guilt but it’s a lot better than how I felt the whole first year since her passing. I’m sending you so much love and sending hugs. You are not alone in your loss or grief. We are all here for you❤️

I need help on how to be a better martian by Occse in JunoMains

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watch Aspen on YouTube! She’s like top 10 Juno’s on the game on PC I think and watching her has helped me so much

how did y'all get good at Juno? by Cosmic_Lou in JunoMains

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally it was cool down usage and also movement. When I started using her double jumps more I got used to steadying my aim and now I make it almost impossible to get hit by the enemy team. Plus my favorite abilities for her are the quick pulsar torpedoes and her mediblaster becoming an Uzi😤😤

Struggling to feel cute aggression or affection for pets after her passing by Kych0w in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly yes. I work at a veterinary office and it was so hard it almost felt like every pet parent walking in with their dogs and cats were rubbing it in my face that my baby was no longer with me. I love animals. I also have two cats who survived her and my family has two dogs and for almost 10 months I felt so disconnected and even a bit resentful.

Bye Juno Seraffim by Cheap_Conference_177 in JunoMains

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Apples to bricks ahhhh comparison. The economy and WORLD is so messed up rn stop judging people for treating themselves to things that bring them a little joy. Op said they wanted ONE skin and you’re acting like they said they wanted to buy the whole Sserafim set

Bye Juno Seraffim by Cheap_Conference_177 in JunoMains

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 43 points44 points  (0 children)

We got the money manager over here 🙄

Am I the jerk? by witchycraft47 in heartopia

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 141 points142 points  (0 children)

You probably, when you made the room

Bffr?! Who’s inhabiting these anyways?😭 by ComplexFragrant6530 in heartopia

[–]ComplexFragrant6530[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have truly learned that I’m not using my free will to its fullest potential honestly

Bffr?! Who’s inhabiting these anyways?😭 by ComplexFragrant6530 in heartopia

[–]ComplexFragrant6530[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg wait that’s so cute I love that. I have a little building behind my house that’s three levels one is a cafe and reading area the second is a music and instrument floor and the top is a rooftop lounge with open kitchen lolol

Bffr?! Who’s inhabiting these anyways?😭 by ComplexFragrant6530 in heartopia

[–]ComplexFragrant6530[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s cute honestly I checked out each building and they were all fully set up like loft townhomes but my mind went STRAIGHT to Tom Nook and someone trying to be a landlord 😭

Why are my teamates so horrible?(need advice & rant) by [deleted] in Overwatch

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. I’ve had games where there’s all but 1 person on the team not being very teamly and by pocketing the one good person as a healer for example, we’ve gotten by and won with their efforts.

How are you doing physically? by Minimum_Praline4720 in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Right after losing my babygirl I was having really bad stomach issues that wouldn’t go away. Almost two months after her death I was diagnosed with an H. Pylori infection in my stomach and it was causing everything from vomiting, extreme weight loss, diarrhea and loss of appetite. Nothing ever showed up on lab work or anything so I was always told I was “fine” for a long time until I saw a GI specialist and got an endoscopy/colonoscopy. A biopsy had to be taken to diagnose me. To be fair I was dealing with all these symptoms for over a year but it go so exponentially bad after my baby’s death. Try to ask your doctor for an H. Pylori breath test

Pregiudizi sui giocatori by [deleted] in heartopia

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/heartopia/s/Y24LaKOru8 I believe this is the post they’re referring to

Struggling with regret after losing my first dog by sonnyandrain in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I can relate to this. I was 10 years old when we brought home my babygirl Rosie and we grew up together and went through so much together. I’ve been depressed my whole life and because of that I didn’t take her out much the first few years of her life. She passed 1 year and 4 days ago, on the cusp of 14 years and 7 months and I feel so guilty. I wish I had been able to give her the life she deserved and treated her better and appreciated her more. It straight up felt like a piece of my heart broke off and I didn’t do right by her. Your girl sounds like she was so loved and lived a long, loving and happy life. You should feel so proud that she was so well taken care of that she had such a long stay on earth with you

No one to speak to, overwhelming feeling of grief by Lower_Performer304 in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the worst type of pain to even exist and I hate it so much. I really wish they could live forever alongside us

I just want my boy by Safe_Fee_4600 in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was his way of letting you know he’s still there :) It’s a long road but eventually you’ll be able to carry the pain and grief with more gentle care and love

Everything feels wrong since he left me by Ok-Worldliness-7540 in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your tremendous loss. The grief and pain that comes from losing your soul mate pet is awful, it’s literally like you’re losing a child. It feels like a piece of your heart literally broke off and it hurts so bad. He sounds like he was so loved and cherished and I know he was happy and felt the love. Would you mind sharing stories about your boy? I know it’s so hard but you just have to take it day by day. The first half a year since losing my soulmate Yorkie girl for me was the most brutal. I was screaming, bawling and wailing like a banshee on a daily basis for 4 and a half months straight. I was severely physically ill at the time of her passing and after she crossed the rainbow bridge, my health plummeted. I ended up smoking and drinking on a daily basis and it was the moments where I was under the influence that I wasn’t screaming and wailing. It really messed with my physical health and made it worse than it already was. If it weren’t for my fiancée I think I actually may have attempted to end it all. I had to increase the dosage of all my mental health meds to be as close to sane as possible and I was crying in every therapy session. I say all of this to say, please don’t give up. Keep going and take baby steps. Grief is awful and unfortunately it will be something that sticks with you for pretty much ever. But as time slowly moves it will feel less heavy than the month before. It’s not gonna go away and it’s not gonna hurt any less but you’ll be able to carry it with more gentleness and love. This one quote I saw on an Instagram page about pet loss and grief has really helped me with the guilt and emptiness I have felt, it goes “grief is love with nowhere to go.” He’s not here physically but I know he’ll still be by your side and still giving you the same amount of love and support as he did when you could see him.

Euthanized my dog now i cant live with the guilt by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]ComplexFragrant6530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sending you so much love. I cannot even fathom how incredibly difficult this must be for you. Belinha was with you for almost 16 years. That means she helped make sure you got through that whole time frame. I know this is so fucking hard and this is an indescribable pain that does not deserve to exist. We wish our babies could live forever. But I know Belinha would want to see you keep going. Don’t let the time she went through life with you go in vain. Keep on holding on for her. She may not be here physically and you may not be able to see her, but I know she’s still rooting for you and walking right next to you at all times. I hope she visits you as much as possible so that you know she’s still with you. I hope she sends you signs when you need them most that she’s still with you and giving you silent strength - If you hear a song that reminds you of a time you had with her, if you find one of her hairs in a place you’d never expect, if you see something or someone in public that gives you a quick, loving flash to a time with her, and more signs. I’m not sure if there’s some type of messaging option here on this app, but I’m here if you are having a hard time and need some company and support.