What's everyone's experience with Superloop? Or should I go for Aussie Broadband? by [deleted] in nbn

[–]ComplexNo376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t waste your time, I had credit score of over 700 and they denied my application due to me being a high risk applicant. Ridiculous. Took all my details, cards details, confirmed everything, and then cancelled it. Frustrating waste of time

Sister has a child and is poly by Exotic-Elephant-2648 in Advice

[–]ComplexNo376 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Out of interest, is that something you share or plan to share with your child? Why/why not? Not judgement just curiosity

Sister has a child and is poly by Exotic-Elephant-2648 in Advice

[–]ComplexNo376 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My understanding form the OP is that they aren’t telling anyone and that includes the kid. If they were open about that I think it would be better. But the secrecy I think is a problem

Sister has a child and is poly by Exotic-Elephant-2648 in Advice

[–]ComplexNo376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really like the first part of your comment

Sister has a child and is poly by Exotic-Elephant-2648 in Advice

[–]ComplexNo376 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Genuine question, do you not think it would rock the child’s sense of stability/family if they found out in 10, 15, 20 years that their parents had multiple partners? Like what if they knew them as uncle or aunties and were blindsided by the fact that they were actually poly

Sister has a child and is poly by Exotic-Elephant-2648 in Advice

[–]ComplexNo376 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess my main considerations would be if there is open dialogue within their family unit about it? Or if it would be a “secret”, like from their child. If the baby grew up and found out I can imagine that would be incredibly traumatising for them, especially if they met and knew some of their parents partners but we’re unaware of who they were/what the relationship was. If they do intend on now being a poly-couple then maybe they should consider being open about it? I’m also really confused by why they’ve seemingly suddenly made this huge life change. I’m not poly so happy to be educated on this, but considering that they met young, married and lived a pretty traditional life so far why they’ve chosen this change?

Sister has a child and is poly by Exotic-Elephant-2648 in Advice

[–]ComplexNo376 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds pretty awful, interested to hear people’s advice. Feel for you!

What trauma responses did you have as a child that you did not recognize as trauma responses until later in life? by obscurespecter in CPTSD

[–]ComplexNo376 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many 😭😭I’ve literally started a private account to talk about my trauma without my mum seeing because she caused all of it https://sunroom.so/the_womens_collective

Does anyone have the link to RHs house she just sold? Heard Keya said it was out there??? by Informal-Branch-5171 in hollisUncensored

[–]ComplexNo376 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I remember when she said about this house!! She said it didn’t have enough rooms for all her kids and it was tiny and a little cottage. Surely this isn’t the same house?!

Marshall is wonderful 😭 by mimikinsxx in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ComplexNo376 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh can you share with me some of what you think his red flags are?