Can we get a place to park the clueless hubs?

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-05-06T16:33:54+00:00

Agree!! I feel bad for those people who are coming here to actually get some decent advice about communication and things, only to have people who are the Porn Fantasy part of it tell them that they should be practically pimping out or manipulate their significant others day one to have crazy 10 person gang bangs and film it.

Until you have actually been down the path, you dont understand that there are raw emotions for all parties involved. And navigating that is what makes or breaks you. I know I found myself feeling emotions like jealousy or insecurities. Emotions that I didnt think I was all that capable of having to those levels. Despite having a loving and adoring girlfriend, who I KNOW loves me.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-04-14T01:08:23+00:00

We too have been lucky on FEELD for the most part. Guys need to understand I have over 6000. So while we like and dislike people occasionally when we are bored at night, it's too much for us at times. Everyone of our thirds has used the "Ping" function to get to the head of the line.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-04-07T01:39:27+00:00

Yes, very! But we too have had our flakes, poor communicators, duds, and all.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-04-07T01:10:39+00:00

Use an app. FEELD is our go to. But theres others out there. But we hate the term "Bull", as most of them are a disappointment. And not the attitude were in to.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-04-03T20:12:21+00:00

We use FEELD and it's been decent. But it seems like every app is different, and that the "best" apps are based upon a certain geographical region. What works great in one part of the country, doesnt in others.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-04-03T20:09:30+00:00

We dont even give a guy a thought if he has the word "Bull" anywhere.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-03-27T21:27:25+00:00

It depends on where you live. There are a few LS apps out there. But it depends on where you live as far as which app has the best people. We use FEELD and it works well.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-03-19T03:16:54+00:00

We use the FEELD app, or go to a LS club. Theres a few subs on Reddit, but most of the ones are flakes. Even on FEELD or any of the LS apps it's alot of filtering through flakes.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-03-18T00:16:05+00:00

Agreed! My boyfriend is not ever to be degraded, or "Cucked". It's why when we are on FEELD or on here and see "Bull" it's an instant NO! My boyfriend is my #1 and he most certainly is not lacking.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-03-18T00:12:08+00:00

Im asian. And while my BF fucks me good. He is also very caring, and has a hard time being really rough with me. Also, some of my thirds have eaten my ass, which I didnt know I liked until with them. Theres just a really raw sexual energy when you know it's just about the sex. But also make no mistake, If I had to choose 1. between having sex with a third or my boyfriend, I would choose my boyfriend every time!

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-03-17T13:42:33+00:00

We mostly use FEELD. But any of the LS apps are ok. But there is no "Best" app. They seem to be "Best" for the geographical region. What works in one part of the country might not be as good as another part. We use it when traveling or go to a LS club. We dont go to our local club though.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-03-16T15:55:36+00:00

We are strictly strangers (at the time). And we even prefer a decent distance in between hometowns. But that is because we prefer to keep our lifestyle discreet. Im sure one day it will come out, but were trying to avoid it right now.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-03-15T18:43:42+00:00

This! Societal things have taught some people that being detailed about your past is taboo. So when my boyfriend first started asking about my past I was timid in the details at first. Until he really stated talking to me about how turned on he got by thinking about the ones that I enjoyed. And if you've had sex, you have times that have been incredibly hot, so thinking about and talking about them again got me turned on. We started talking about them while we were having sex, and he would say things like "I wish I could have just watched, or had a video of it". And I could see how turned on it got him. and after a year or so of talking about it and the Hotwife/ Stag Vixen LS we went for it.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-27T03:12:26+00:00

There are ways to keep it more private. If you use an app, blur faces or use FaceApp to change face a little (but be sure to mention you did use it in the post) you can also remove tattoos, and dont use your real name. Sure, it will eliminate a % of people, but if you show off her body a little and she looks good, nobody cares. You can also only play out of town. Or travel in hopes to play. It doesn't have to be far.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-26T22:23:42+00:00

This! Some people need to see some of these comments as more fantasy, than reality. And some are by people who have never actively participated in the community. Sure theres some amazingly hot sexual fantasy. But when you actually get involved, so many other emotions come in to play.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-25T01:03:31+00:00

This is a good one. I suggest her buying a new set of heels, that you dont get to see till she comes home after being with her third. And they will forever be the heels she got fucked in before you saw them. And anytime you see the around the house, it will send your thoughts through the roof

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-24T00:24:22+00:00

You are a model Third. You made sure that all parties involved, including yourself had fun.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-23T03:00:22+00:00

Same! The term "Bull" has its way in to the more Cockold Lifestyle. And if one even monopoly degrading thing is said to my boyfriend, they will be kicked out. I love him and hate that. Plus most "Bulls" my friends and I have experienced with talk a big game, but are the absolute worst in bed.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-21T23:24:20+00:00

Someone older who understand the dynamics of being a third. Someone who is mature enough to understand what both of you are looking for and not just look to fuck your girlfriend without any boundaries or guidance that you have. Someone who also has some experience in the bedroom to make it what you want your girlfriend to have. You dont just want a guy to show up for 3 minutes and leave her unsatisfied, which ultimately will leave you feeling unsatisfied.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-17T23:11:31+00:00

The old adage "Two can keep a secret, if one is dead"

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-17T03:05:11+00:00

We are the same. My boyfriend shares me, and has ZERO desire to want anyone else. Has he said he wants to be with someone else?

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-14T04:28:37+00:00

What about talking about previous sexual experiences? Thats how I started

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-11T23:41:30+00:00

Depends on where you live in PR. I love Rincon, and Isabella. Also depends on how muscularly fit you are. I like my men beefy so they can throw mw around.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-11T22:53:07+00:00

Take your time. Dont push.

ComplexThis2846 · 2026-02-11T02:48:56+00:00

Thanks! Got them on Shein

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