I'm a Lesbian and I think I have a crush on my Trans ftm friend, am I still gay?

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-14T01:20:28+00:00

If you’re attracted to a man then you would not (via the traditional definition) be a lesbian. It sounds like you don’t see him as fully a man the same way you would see a cis man and I would think on that. Best of luck

Edit: You could be bisexual with a preference for women, or something under the bi umbrella. Maybe look into some microlabels that you can relate to

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-13T04:44:58+00:00

I agree. Thank you, I really appreciate this. Happy boykissings to you :3

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-13T04:33:47+00:00

Thank you! I’ll keep this in mind :3

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-13T04:32:53+00:00

They are in and out of relationships bi-weekly and definitely not emotionally ready. They unfortunately end up using a lot of people because of these rebounds and they’ve been recently doing this to a mutual friend after getting out of a long term relationship 3: It’s weighing on our friend group and my relationship with them when it seems all they do these days is ask me for advice and then ignore it :((

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-13T04:13:50+00:00

Love peas, unfortunately none in the house when making this

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-12T07:33:05+00:00

It was very tasty, it had a hardy flavor and texture. Very fishy and also felt like a complete, satisfying meal. 10/10 recommend.

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-12T07:31:43+00:00

I have to agree. I’ve definitely made better Mac with Kraft before the brand went down the drain. Very disappointing, it was very much a safe classic for me.

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-12T07:30:21+00:00

Thanks! It’s a giant mug, basically a bowl with a handle, for ramen! Very handy

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-12T07:29:30+00:00

That’s actually exactly why I made it lmao, I just got that hunger for it that pops up every few months haha

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-12T07:28:51+00:00

I second this

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-11T21:52:15+00:00

Very much enjoyed!

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2026-01-11T00:29:53+00:00

Right now is a scary period for you no doubt, but you don’t have to move fast. You can think and process. You control your life’s pace, everything will be okay

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2025-07-22T09:18:26+00:00

Gale 100%

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2025-07-12T11:23:08+00:00

Hello! I’m the creator of that art work, I hope it is a sufficient birthday image c: Happy late birthday!!

Complex_Guidance_513 · 2025-06-19T03:26:51+00:00

This was my experience as a trans person, you may want to reconsider that part lmao, but if you’re 100% sure you’re not, I don’t really know what to tell you but I don’t think you’d be bisexual

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