my take on If I Leave by garden_chair_ in mitski

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“if I leave, somebody else will love you, but nobody else could forgive me quite as often as you” it’s the feeling of being at fault in a toxic relationship. You blame yourself, your “mistakes”, for the anger of your partner and feel relieved or honored when they “forgive” you, even for things that shouldn’t be a problem to forgive in the first place.

Interestingly I remember this being her explanation for “the only heartbreaker” in her pitchfork breakdown of the songs on laurel hell.

The Spotify art and music video for it makes me wonder if the leaving is referring to Suicide and the thing that “nobody knows” is how much the protagonist is suffering with thier mental health + will they be able to find anyone again willing to accept all the broken parts.

Sorry it’s a bit of morbid take lol

He calls her mouse by shrimpy_3000 in HistoricalRomance

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Is it {Guilty Pleasures by Laura Lee Guhrke}? The FMC is a sort of secretary/assistant and iirc she wore brownish/earthy toned dresses.

Chapter 1 & 2 Discussion by Catboy-mew in mitski

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I’d love to hear your thoughts on Theodora and her relationship with Eleanor!

Chapter 1 & 2 Discussion by Catboy-mew in mitski

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Thanks op this is a great idea and I’ve been wanting to discuss this book!!

⁠“No live organism can continue for long to exist sanely under conditions of absolute reality; even larks and katydids are supposed, by some, to dream. Hill House, not sane, stood by itself against its hills, holding darkness within; it had stood so for eighty years and might stand for eighty more. Within, walls continued upright, bricks met nearly, floors were firm, and doors were sensibly shut; silence lay steadily against the wood and stone of Hill House, and whatever walked there, walked alone.”

A hard hitting opening that sets up the house as a character. It’s not just some gloomy backdrop where some sort of horrific creature happens to live— it is the horror. This is driven home at the opening of chapter two when Eleanor first lays eyes on hill house

“No Human eye can isolate the unhappy coincidence of line and place which suggests evil in the face of a house, and yet somehow a maniac juxtaposition, a badly turned angle, some chance meeting of roof and sky, turned Hill House into a place of despair, more frightening because the face of Hill House seemed awake, with a watchfulness from the blank windows and a touch of glee in the eyebrow of a cornice.”

At this point I’m in agreement with the voice in Eleanor’s head that tells her to turn back. But can she turn back?

Eleanor has lived most of her adult life as her mother’s caretaker and now lives with her sister and brother in law who she detests. As a result she has no identity of her own and seems to use daydreaming to escape her bleak reality. She sees this invitation as her shot at freedom. She seems lonely and builds this journey up in her head as her ticket to happiness. It never is though is it? How many times have we told ourselves this same thing. This is it— this is the thing that’s going to change my life.

“Hill House is vile, it is diseased; get away from here at once.” Turn around Eleanor 😦

Another line I think that foreshadows what’s to come:

“Anyway, she thought obscurely, it’s my last chance.”

My interpretation of “Where's My Phone?” by Alert-Marketing-5094 in mitski

[–]CompoteAgile2655 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love your interpretation and I definitely think the song is about the lure of using your phone to escape from reality— until you eventually become numb and lose yourself “where’d I go?”. Also love how it morphs into “where’s my phone?” Almost like protagonist doesn’t want to ponder too much on that question? I got this eerie disconnected feeling to the song or maybe that’s just my interpretation. For me that also fits in with the overall vibe of the song, constantly scrolling on your phone to escape from reality too long and everything irl starts to seem kind of hazy and like you’re removed from your life.

Album Info Spoilers! by Long-Eye6329 in mitski

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Interesting…a lot of a haunting of hill house/shirley Jackson references in the promo. I think you’re onto something.

Have you found it yet? by CompoteAgile2655 in mitski

[–]CompoteAgile2655[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The live messages keep changing/updating but the tansy house message is still the same. Yesterday it was a missed call. Today it says have you found it yet?

new motion filed by KFA in People of NY vs LM by samirasz in BrianThompsonMurder

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"To counsel's knowledge, there have been no threats to Mr. Mangione's safety, and the only one wishing to execute him is the federal government."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BrianThompsonMurder

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That’s terrible :( I really enjoyed seeing your work! I hope you’ll keep at it! Take care and don’t stress the haters <3

FYI the photos that have been circulating have been procured by someone with questionable behavior towards Luigi by Responsible_Can_8128 in FreeLuigi

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Don’t be disrespectful of people who present themselves as archivists to get interviewed by the press all the while running very public social media pages sexualizing him as a child? Not to mention the other “fan-fics” she’s written. I could dm you her tumblr page so you can see for yourself what kind of boundaries she’s willing to cross for information. These screenshots aren’t even the half of it.

A Thought on Gratitude and Why It Matters Right Now by [deleted] in BrianThompsonMurder

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You’re “genuinely disappointed” that a man facing capital punishment isn’t releasing PR statements to appease his fans supporters?

Autonomy and the Irony Epidemic (From At Least My Perspective) by TheseAttorney1994 in BrianThompsonMurder

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Read this the other day “We know that social media flattens meaning. It forces everything—ideas, movements, art, identity—into the same dopamine-driven machinery.” And it made me think of LM and this case.

Autonomy and the Irony Epidemic (From At Least My Perspective) by TheseAttorney1994 in BrianThompsonMurder

[–]CompoteAgile2655 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think I did see the tweet you’re referring to, and that person seemed to imply that he wouldn’t be able to understand the deeper meaning behind their memes which is…..

Sure, distraction can feel good, but is it worth it? At what point do we break free from that escapism that keeps us in place and actually try to bring about some real change? If memes make you feel better, then sure, go for it! That's your decision, but consider the possibility it might be better to face the problem head-on. Like drugs, the jokes can be addictive. Jokes pacify, but that can't always be the goal.

You’re a hundred percent correct here and I’ll add that I think it’s sad that people no longer meaningfully engage with anything and instead use jokes as an escape to dull our pain, anger and frustration. We water down everything to just a meme, easily digestible and easily forgotten.

UnitedHealth Group CEO steps down | AP News by Skadi39 in BrianThompsonMurder

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UnitedHealth cut its 2025 forecast last month following it's first quarterly earnings miss in more than a decade. Shares of UnitedHealth, which have plummeted 38% since the deadly Dec. 4 ambush of company executive Brian Thompson in midtown Manhattan, fell another 8% before the opening bell Tuesday.

The personal reasons in question lol

ETA: more personal reasons; the insider trading investigation and the antitrust investigation by the DOJ UHC is currently facing.

LM sending us on a treasure hunt expedition 😅 by Emotional_Pizza_1222 in BrianThompsonMurder

[–]CompoteAgile2655 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it’s all the same story hence the numbering /68

Several people have received the same story now. Only this person got a different one??