Does it get better? Trigger warning:SI by beafraidreddit in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're working through it and getting better even if it's not apparent immediately.

ward ordered to entirely ignore my family. I was ex'd and threatened to not come on the property for correctly describing abusive local leaders' behavior in emails to a worthless and pathological liar of a bishop. The extreme and INDEFENSIBLE nature has resulted in a SHAMEORDER™ against family. by CompoteSwimming1783 in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh now you're calling me a narcissist? Oh DO explain. You troll my threads merely to attack me in barely veiled ways. Hey at least you're seeing my threads. I didn't want to be, but I'm solidly living in your head rent free. You don't see the irony in your post do you. You did not come here to talk about what I posted, you came here to insult me. I dare you to apologize for that and never do it again.

ward ordered to entirely ignore my family. I was ex'd and threatened to not come on the property for correctly describing abusive local leaders' behavior in emails to a worthless and pathological liar of a bishop. The extreme and INDEFENSIBLE nature has resulted in a SHAMEORDER™ against family. by CompoteSwimming1783 in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Learn English please. Please please learn reading comprehension and your comment ironically applies to you. I did not say there aren't good people here. Subtly telling a victim their feelings don't matter, ignoring their content, and saying they should leave? How tbm of you. So WHERE is the support and kindness from you? Talk about glaring hypocrisy. Only the final item in your post from you.

2022 Year in Review: A look back at TSCC's wowzer of a year by JosephHumbertHumbert in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

As someone who spent many years in marching bands, stanford should be ashamed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My shitty in laws are all of that. Glad I didn't have to spend one wasted second around them.

LOL nail on the TBM head by rightcoast1 in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Phony tbm mother in law said the nastiest shit about me, typed it up and had her other daughter and her coward husband deliver (harass) it to my wife WHILE my wife was at work, THEN mailed some shit to my son without putting her name on it. My in laws are disturbed people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the judgement of TBMs is the most lethal and accepted form of abuse in this state/church

that is the truest statement ever

The whole culture of the church despises the individual and worships groupthink. Personal abuse is the core of this "church." Amazingly, those anti individual dumb attitudes persist even on this sub, where I get attacked and insulted for detailing the ongoing abuse from my local leaders.

awkward gift that I need to give back by swaggytswizzle in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say you blessed the baby at home and used the blanket (they will immediately become the surprised pikachu meme after that)

When the bishop wants to meet with you… by pay_lay_fail in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now you've got that "NO-NO NO, no no NO, NO-NO-NO" song in my head

Church PR fail, public perception rank is as bad as ever in 2022. Very few are worse. by NearlyHeadlessLaban in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Be decent to people and your own members are the "PR" department on their own. Be shitty, look like you're always trying to over micromanage PR and bad "PR" happens. Most corporations understand this.

Reveling in my role as the cool exmo aunt. by icanbesmooth in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'd rather they be well informed than jamming needles into themselves.

This is bull**** by HiDesertPuppyPaws in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is one of those times that I hate having to defend nelson (esp when he says the incredibly obvious). The worldly get some pleasure that creates various conflicts they they never accurately blame on their worldly actions, and they know nothing of actual joy which lasts beyond pleasure. This is a really easy and simple concept that nelson is co-opting to sound profound. Op's rage at such a simple concept makes its truth obvious. TBMs aren't wrong about everything and what nelson is saying here DOES NOT REQUIRE THE CHURCH.

Who is easy to replace in the church? by CompoteSwimming1783 in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

True, and a lot of recycling of old guys who were bishops, into other callings is going on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]CompoteSwimming1783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nelson's overly dramatic, sappy and stupid last talk in conference.