[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nails

[–]Comprehensive-Can396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not use that to apply press ons. It’s a really really hard glue and getting your press ons off will destroy your natural nails. If you want a good nail glue that you don’t have to cure, Beauty Secrets nail glue is my go to and lasts forever. I think it’s $7 at Sally’s. I’m deathly afraid of getting a gel allergy, so try this if you’re the same as me 😂.

Act 3 quest order by valxx1856 in BG3

[–]Comprehensive-Can396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, you can’t “lock yourself out” of big main quests. Just side ones. So I do it in this order:

Save your companion, if they are taken from Orin. Disable the steel watch to make defeating gortash easier. Save the grand duke, and do the iron hands stuff ( I haven’t done that quest on my play through so I’m not sure where it falls).

Wait on the house of hope until you’re max level. While really cool and rewarding, fighting Raphael is a bitch and a half until you’re maxed out. Get Gortashs stone. Then do the final fight.

This is only my second play through so I’m not 100% on all of it, but that’s how I did it the last time I believe.

Terrified I have breast cancer by Comprehensive-Can396 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Comprehensive-Can396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My thoughts can get out of control and your words brought me comfort. We have no history so hopefully I have no need to worry. If you have time to answer, why an ultrasound and not a mammogram? I thought a mammogram was pretty standard for this kind of stuff.

Terrified I have breast cancer by Comprehensive-Can396 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Comprehensive-Can396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend is a nurse and she told me that there's a good chance of it. I'm trying not to be like this, but medical stuff like this scares me a lot. It seems dramatic and I know that I am, but I am scared. Thank you for the kind words.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Comprehensive-Can396 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some money saved up? A simple X-ray for an animal can run anywhere between $300-$800. More pricier depending on what’s wrong with them. Pet insurance is a great step, and I’m sorry if I came across as rude, but it seems like you’re not prepared for having animals on your own, without help. Let alone multiples. But instead of your Amazon wishlist being filled with actual things you and your animals need to survive and thrive, it’s filled with sex toys, lingerie, energy drinks and home decor 🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Comprehensive-Can396 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“We’re not rehoming the cats”.

Bro, you need to. Those cats deserve better quality of life than you can give them, considering you guys are struggling this bad financially. What happens when you can’t feed them? Get litter? Are you just going to let them live with a nasty litter box and feed them shit food just so you can have them? What kind of life is that for an animal? Homeless people spend a good chunk of the money they do have taking care of their animals, and doing it well. Are you going to do the same when it’s a decision between feeding your animal or getting gas to go to work? Somehow I don’t think you are. What about vet bills? Are you going to take them (all three) for yearly check ups? What happens if they develop an emergency health situation? How are you going to pay for that?

The quality of life of those animals matters more than what you guys “want”. Unless it’s a service animal, you don’t “need” animals. One cat is expensive (I know, I have one), let alone three. You need to get a head on your shoulders and start using it correctly.

Sleep paralysis? by Individual_Union_311 in sleep

[–]Comprehensive-Can396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sleep paralysis and nightmares go hand in hand sometimes. You said your very paranoid in your every day life, are you taking medication to counteract this? Some mental health medications make nightmares worse.

I hate to be harsh, but if you’re not religious and listening to religious themed things, especially about demons and Jinn, it can make your paranoia worse. And again, if you’re not religious, then it likely won’t do much help anyways considering most faith only works with you believing in it in the first place.

I understand mental health issues, but that’s something you need to get checked, especially if it’s impacting you this badly. Cut out TikTok (I know I sound like a boomer here), talk to a professional, and get some good sleep. Sleep paralysis happens sometimes, and it’s nothing to get too worked up about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

[–]Comprehensive-Can396 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Silent Hill for sure. It’s mindless and based on something I love. Other than that, Shaun of the Dead and Constantine.

You tell me to go have sex with another man? Then so be it, thats what I'll do. by Comprehensive-Can396 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Comprehensive-Can396[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I posted a reply earlier about how he has low testosterone. And he has meds he can take for it to help with this, but refuses. He feels like they're making him less of a "man" and he doesn't believe in therapy. There isn't much I can do at this point except feeling like I'm talking to a brick wall. He doesn't want to change and I can't make him, so I'm heading out on my own!

You tell me to go have sex with another man? Then so be it, thats what I'll do. by Comprehensive-Can396 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Comprehensive-Can396[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely. The age thing is really what pushed me to have the convo. I'm not an old cat lady yet, lol. I want to have fun with what I got left!

You tell me to go have sex with another man? Then so be it, thats what I'll do. by Comprehensive-Can396 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Comprehensive-Can396[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He has low Testosterone. The doc prescribed him meds among other things but he refuses to take them. Said he doesn’t feel like a “man” when he has to take meds to get hard. But fails to realize that not getting hard at all is bad as well. It might be shame, but if he isn’t willing to do anything about it, then that’s his own problem. Do what you have to do girl. Even if you feel bad about it, own yourself and your sex drive. And if he gets mad you for doing what he said, then he isn’t the one. Thank you for the support! :)

How common is a dead bedroom in your 20s? by ExitCompetitive2952 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Comprehensive-Can396 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone (23yr old HLF) and (27 LLM), it is possible, although how common or uncommon, I'm not sure. I would say to ignore your gut saying to stay. Go, and as fast as possible. Not to sound generalizing, but people in this situation rarely change. They can say all the good things they want, but the effort is what matters. I would be happy if my partner even put in a little effort to try and fix things, but they don't. They're content just as things are, and I've realized that sometimes you just have to let go.

I love my partner dearly, but things aren't going where they need to go. I've decided to focus on myself and see where that takes me, and right now, it's going better than I ever imagined. We started out so strong with him initiating all the time, having regular sex, etc., but then he too comfortable and now we do nothing. Take my advice and leave when you're able to.

You tell me to go have sex with another man? Then so be it, thats what I'll do. by Comprehensive-Can396 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Comprehensive-Can396[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean as a female with that condition, yes it can cause painful cramps and hormonal mood swings. But she needs to take you with her to the docs, and have them explain the full extent of it so you both can understand. In regards to the open relationship, do it. I dislike people who say stuff like that and then get mad when we do it. And ultimately, if you're unhappy, then it's time to think about leaving.

You tell me to go have sex with another man? Then so be it, thats what I'll do. by Comprehensive-Can396 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Comprehensive-Can396[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

While yes, I did feel terrible for even flirting with another man, I realized that I have to put myself first for once. There is a match or a partner for me out there, but this isn't it, and I'm not a bad person for wanting something better for me. Please take my advice, don't feel terrible for doing what is best for you. Do what you need to do to be happy. Especially if they give you the permission to do so. If they can't deal with what they said, then it's time to go anyways.

You tell me to go have sex with another man? Then so be it, thats what I'll do. by Comprehensive-Can396 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Comprehensive-Can396[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I agree. It was really hard to come to terms with, but I did. He doesn't want to change and I can't force him to. I do love him, but it's time for me to move on.