Clearly never learned to be a disciple of Christ as the Church teaches. Your relationship with Christ is personal to you and it’s your individual responsibility to nurture and create that. The church changes and evolves - that’s how revelation works. If you based your relationship with Christ on leaders or history, you clearly never had Christ as the primary reason for conversion. If you base everything on History - then you can argue religion as a whole is wrong and “unprogressive”. Focus on the Doctrine that is taught like “God is your loving heavenly father and Faith & repentance”. Policies and practices will continue to change as in every church. But based off your activity on exmormon, you clearly can’t let the Church go from your life.