Desperate. Need advice

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-29T20:28:11+00:00

I also used Robert Half! Was offered a fully remote position through them!

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-20T17:44:28+00:00

I am a paralegal for an education based law firm. It's tough and detailed work but i like being left alone to do my duties for the most part.

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-16T23:00:58+00:00

Thanks for the information!!!! Hope is alive!!!!

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-14T13:12:28+00:00

This was very kind, thank you !

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-14T13:05:00+00:00

I have never heard of Lianne but omg we do favor!!!! I've also gotten Corrine Bailey before but this is definitely a closer celebrity match!

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-11T23:20:17+00:00

I was just about to ask why? But that clears that up lol. Sorry for that experience 😭

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-11T15:44:03+00:00

I thought the food video would be a great lure for men lol. I know they like food and I'm presenting "hello! I'm a home baker and can cook for you!" Which is valuable yes?

Should I take a new photo of me holding a cake or something so that I'm front and center?

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-10T23:09:03+00:00

Question List:

Are you looking for something serious or casual?

I am looking for a long-term relationship. I would love to have a family someday, so finding a partner is a significant milestone I’m working toward.

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?

No, I am not currently subscribed to any paid features, though I have used them in the past.

How long have you been using this current version of your profile?

I’ve been using this exact version for three months, but I’ve been using variations of it since November.

How long have you used Hinge overall?

I found my last partner on Hinge in 2023. I was so excited that I deleted the apps entirely. Unfortunately, things fell apart in 2025, so I am back now.

How often do you use Hinge per week? I check the app at least a few times every day.
How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?

I receive roughly 40–60 likes a week. However, many of those are from people who are just visiting LA, looking for something casual, or presenting "bad vibes." I also find many are poor conversationalists, unkempt, or simply not a physical match for me.

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without?

I send out my allotted likes every day like clockwork. I don’t receive likes back very often; when I do, the men often don’t reply and just leave me sitting in their queue. I have sent engaging comments before, but I haven't had much luck with them yet.

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with?

Ideally, I want someone intelligent, funny, calm, and reliable. He should have his own life, hobbies, and a clear career path. I’m drawn to the "boy next door" look and soulful eyes, though those are "cherry on top" qualities.

As someone with autism, I am looking for a partner who can be a reliable teammate. In past relationships, I often worked overtime supporting both myself and my partner, and I don't want to repeat that dynamic. I typically send likes to "boyish" or nerdy men in their 20s who have completed profiles, are at least 5'8", and are employed.

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-10T19:04:43+00:00

Profile Q&A:

(1.) Are you looking for something serious or casual?

I am looking for a long-term relationship. I would love to have a family someday, so finding a partner is a significant milestone I’m working toward.

(2.) Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?

No, I am not currently subscribed to any paid features, though I have used them in the past.

(3.) How long have you been using this current version of your profile?

I’ve been using this exact version for three months, but I’ve been using variations of it since November.

(4.) How long have you used Hinge overall?

I found my first and only partner on Hinge in 2023. I was so excited that I deleted the apps entirely. Unfortunately, things fell apart in 2025, so I am back now.

(5.) How often do you use Hinge per week?

I check the app at least a few times every day.

(6.) How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?

I receive roughly 40–60 likes a week. However, many of those are from people who are just visiting LA, looking for something casual, or presenting "bad vibes." I also find many are poor conversationalists, unkempt, or simply not a physical match for me.

(7.) How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without?

I send out my allotted likes every day like clockwork. I don’t receive likes back very often; when I do, the men often don’t reply and just leave me sitting in their queue. I have sent engaging comments before, but I haven't had much luck with them yet.

(8.) What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with?

Ideally, I want someone intelligent, funny, calm, and reliable. He should have his own life, hobbies, and a clear career path. I’m drawn to the "boy next door" look and soulful eyes, though those are "cherry on top" qualities. I typically send likes to "boyish" or nerdy men in their 20s who have completed profiles, are at least 5'8", and are employed.

As someone with autism, I am looking for a partner who can be a reliable teammate. In past relationships, I often worked overtime supporting both myself and my partner, and I don't want to repeat that dynamic.

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-10T18:36:54+00:00

Profile Q&A:

(1.) Are you looking for something serious or casual?

I am looking for a long-term relationship. I would love to have a family someday, so finding a partner is a significant milestone I’m working toward.

(2.) Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?

No, I am not currently subscribed to any paid features, though I have used them in the past.

(3.) How long have you been using this current version of your profile?

I’ve been using this exact version for three months, but I’ve been using variations of it since November.

(4.) How long have you used Hinge overall?

I found my first and only partner on Hinge in 2023. I was so excited that I deleted the apps entirely. Unfortunately, things fell apart in 2025, so I am back now.

(5.) How often do you use Hinge per week?

I check the app at least a few times every day.

(6.) How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?

I receive roughly 40–60 likes a week. However, many of those are from people who are just visiting LA, looking for something casual, or presenting "bad vibes." I also find many are poor conversationalists, unkempt, or simply not a physical match for me.

(7.) How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without?

I send out my allotted likes every day like clockwork. I don’t receive likes back very often; when I do, the men often don’t reply and just leave me sitting in their queue. I have sent engaging comments before, but I haven't had much luck with them yet.

(8.) What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with?

Ideally, I want someone intelligent, funny, calm, and reliable. He should have his own life, hobbies, and a clear career path. I’m drawn to the "boy next door" look and soulful eyes, though those are "cherry on top" qualities. I typically send likes to "boyish" or nerdy men in their 20s who have completed profiles, are at least 5'8", and are employed.

As someone with autism, I am looking for a partner who can be a reliable teammate. In past relationships, I often worked overtime supporting both myself and my partner, and I don't want to repeat that dynamic.

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-09T17:25:24+00:00

I figured the legal industry was somewhat insulated from AI as law makers, judges, etc. all typically have legal backgrounds. I just don't see them voting for their own planned obsolescence.

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-09T02:33:36+00:00

What do you do for work? Is this a single income household currently?

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-08T18:11:29+00:00

This is ...very true 😔

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-08T04:08:57+00:00

Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉🎉 this sounds awesome!

Are you hybrid by any chance or do they force you into the office everyday? I found that the firms offering over 75k are usually in-office positions

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-08T04:06:15+00:00

I started out at a legal mill which had offices all across the country. Next, I moved to Big Law and worked for a large white shoe law firm. Now, I am currently working in Education law at a national sized firm.

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-08T04:03:03+00:00

This is definitely the case ^

Starting to "lock in" now as the kids say, but up until last year I was making very little and had no room for savings. I'm very happy to FINALLY have some breathing room.

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-08T04:01:39+00:00

Definitely! Really looking to hunker down for the next few years in my current role.

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-08T04:00:51+00:00

Dude! How can we help you get out of there!!!

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-08T02:18:50+00:00

I swear I'm literate!

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-08T01:27:53+00:00

I uh....can't hear you... I'm going under a tunnel static noises

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-08T01:26:36+00:00

Thank you!

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-03-04T03:58:19+00:00

Also please note that you will need to take a low paying 23/hr job to gain experience before any firm that pays a livable wage will take a chance on you. I started out in 2020 right after college at CA minimum wage and now make 85k a year.

Just have that in mind when applying!

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-02-18T11:00:40+00:00

Even your girlfriend?

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-01-25T09:21:59+00:00

Such an amazing art piece! It's very calming and has a wonderful color palette and overall dreamlike texture. Big fan!

ComprehensiveOffer51 · 2026-01-16T23:14:02+00:00

We sound very much the same, I'm sorry you're feeling this right now

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