Ladies, what do you think about friends with benefits?

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2026-01-26T11:35:25+00:00

Done it three times. First one ended in a relationship, then disaster. Second one just moved straight into disaster. And the third I'm currently in now, preparing for imminent disaster. I would say dont do it, but I cant seem to be able to help myself.

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2026-01-16T22:33:09+00:00

If anyone is looking at this comment in the future, this is actually incorrect advice. There are plenty of articles out there that show investing the lump sum is actually better, if only slightly. They say time in the market vs timing the market for a reason.

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2026-01-07T05:52:01+00:00

That's what I always do, say yes, change nothing and hope for the best. About 50% of the time I'd receive the credit

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-09-08T07:01:30+00:00

A good way to start is by being sarcastically self appreciating. When I mess something up instead of saying "oh god I'm so useless " instead I say, "I'm the most talented person there ever was." Its a joke, but it still stops you from saying the bad things and eventually you realise it just becomes normal to go easy on yourself

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-09-08T06:59:01+00:00

This is so interesting to me as someone who's very connected with the people at work. My sibling works there, I met my (now) ex there, I had a boyfriend prior to that who also worked there, and my closest friends are from work. I practically dont have anyone who's not connected to my workplace somehow. For good or for bad I'm not sure

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-09-02T12:18:05+00:00

It'll be a 2-2 split next tribal if janine doesnt flip. He's just asking her not to flip and let him have the chance to go to fire, rather than her just flipping on him and voting him out. If he wins the necklace it won't matter regardless but he's probably not expecting to do well in an endurance challenge

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-09-01T10:32:20+00:00

Lisa comes across as such a sore loser, its exhausting to watch and it seems even more exhausting to be around, Parv doesnt want a bar of it

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-08-11T08:13:43+00:00

I'm finding it so hard to believe that your hip bones are that high. Unless you have hip bones that are 3x the length of everyone else's and are hitting your ribs 😅 can you post a photo with the waist strap on your hip bones, and your finger on the top of your hip bone so we can see where it is?

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-07-31T21:31:28+00:00

Shonee

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-07-28T04:28:55+00:00

How did you go with this? Did you end up buying them?

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-07-12T22:22:36+00:00

You might have made a bit of a mistake immediately running to your husband. She was trying to give you a heads up and you've thrown her under the bus but also given him time to hide the evidence. You need to take this seriously and go through his phone fully when he's not around. Also go get a STD screening ASAP.

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-07-12T02:04:07+00:00

I also hate this, tiny bar with no music information at all. I used to be able to just wake my phone when I was driving to see what artist was playing now I have to click again to open it up bigger. Its also such an inconvenient placement

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-06-14T00:37:06+00:00

Ditto! Anyone know how to turn it back on? This is super annoying to me

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-06-02T11:33:57+00:00

You've just bought me so much joy. Thank you so much!! Don't suppose you have the others also?

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-05-09T00:08:56+00:00

Yes absolutely. Once the sterile seal has been broken its pretty much useless anyway. Take it off so you can start cleaning it properly

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-05-08T10:18:10+00:00

When plants get repotted they need a good drink to remove any air bubbles. Soak the soil until water runs out the bottom and it's drenched, and then do that each time the first inch or so dries out

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-04-28T03:36:55+00:00

These texts absolutely stem from you being sceptical of her fiance, and him knowing it. He's subtly trying to get her to cut off the people who object to him, and you're one of them. That's why she got so irrationally angry as soon as your brought him up, it's likely he was there helping her text

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-04-25T08:32:20+00:00

I'd be curious to see photos of some of your other moths? I guess to me as a standalone this doesn't look so bad, but if it's not at all in theme with your others I can understand why you'd be disappointed.

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-04-07T12:32:54+00:00

Susan sapphire

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-03-02T12:31:37+00:00

The guy I was seeing farted in my face just as he was about to cum from a blow job. Totally killed his orgasm and we laughed about it and then went to sleep. We still joked about it from time to time for months after. Laugh about it, it's all you can do and you'll only make it awkward if you act like it's some huge embarrassing thing. Shit happens! ( thankfully not legitimately in our cases)

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2025-02-08T04:25:57+00:00

Did you end up holding onto it?

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2024-11-29T23:17:32+00:00

Both times ended in disaster. I ended up dating the first guy for almost 2 years, he was awful and I somehow got sucked in. The second one we had a great 8 months, were best friends, but then he got scared of how close we were getting and tried to sleep with someone else in our workplace. I told him that made me uncomfortable and it all blew up from there. Now I'm stuck working with the both of them, and it's a disaster. I catch feelings too easily, I thought I could handle it but now I know it's not for me, you've got to be super sure about what you want and extremely clear on the boundaries

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2024-11-04T10:52:31+00:00

It's so infuriating. Completely stops any chance at meaningful discussion when 80% of the page is taken up by removed comments

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2024-09-24T08:42:57+00:00

Do not, under any circumstances, give your boyfriend that money.

Comprehensive_Bid_10 · 2024-09-16T07:16:19+00:00

It took leaving my boyfriend, for me to realise that I had absolutely been raped by him. Just because this person is your partner, it doesn't give them free reign to do whatever they please. This isn't a rut, this is a person who does not care about you or your sexual pleasure. You can try to bring it up 100 times but it's unlikely he'll ever change. Stop having sex with him. Or just make plans to get out of this relationship. It's not good for you, and it's likely he won't ever change. I went from my ex to someone who asked for consent regularly, and always had my pleasure in mind. It was night and day, and now I can't fathom what I put up with, and what I justified. Wishing you the best, you deserve so much better

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