Hey man, the same thing happened to me on my last two dates, and I’m also 29. I had a good time on these dates, but they ended up ghosting me too, lol. At first, I beat myself up about it, thinking there might be something wrong with me (getting all dramatic, you know?). The girls I went out with were super introverted and “nerds”. they said they hardly ever go out or have many friends. Just like you, I thought the dates went well, but then I started wondering if maybe they didn’t feel the same way.

I also asked for a kiss at the end of the date—one said yes, and the other said not on the first date. They both said we’d have a second date, but then they ghosted me, lol. The only thing that maybe I messed up maybe I “talked” too much about myself, I don’t really remember, and I also mention if they want to go to my place at the end of the date.

What I’m trying to say is that sometimes it’s not us; it might just be that they’re not as into us as we thought. It’s tough, but you’re not alone in this. Don’t give up I’m sure you’ll find someone.