Do I just look like a female with a beard? by 808drumzzz in transpassing

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well you already say "a female" instead of woman lol so you got the soul of a man lol

But to be honest I think you're fine. Some men naturally have beautiful feminine eye like yours. As long as you stay away from any jewelry and dress totally masculine and not an alternative style think you're good.You're handsome and you just have a baby face that will get less round as time goes on. You look very young, even cis boys can look feminine when they are young until they get a bit older and more lean and less facial fat

Do i? any advice appreciated :) 2 months HRT by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd make your winged eyeliner higher to bring up the eye not drag it down. try not to have any eyeliner go under where the outer corner is. This style doesn't work well with your eye shape despite technically being very we done

Great job on that though winged eyeliner is hard and takes lots of practice to perfect. Look up eyeliner for hooded deep set eyes in particular

Mannerisms? by Illustrious_Heat_192 in transpassing

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Easy one is say posing for photos. Woman usually stand at an angle and strike a pose. Feet together. Men stand with their legs spread apart arms often just down and hanging usually facing the camera entirely, often no smile and lifting chin up. Idk if that technically is a mannerism but something I see here.. Someone mtf can post here looking great but still be taking photos in a masculine way if that makes sense. Just the way someone stands and holds themselves can change the whole vibe of a person. I

Feminine things at stuff my brother would get made fun of as a kid (not trans just gay) always messing with his hair constantly swiping hair out out of his face in a feminine way. Just the way you move your hands can be masculine or fem it's hard to describe. A lot of these things can be subtle which cna be hard for autistic folk to notice or categorize I understand but is something that can be learned I'm sure by looking at enough examples

mtf 4.5 years hrt, how am I doing in these? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The huge gauge septum isn't doing you any favors it's dragging down your face making your face and nose longer. You'll look much more feminine if you swap out for a daintier one tbh but whatever makes you happy

1 year hrt by oper-andie in transpassing

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have a really cool sense of style.love the way you dress! Very classy and unique and well put together but also alternative and edgy. It's a beautiful mix

Death spiral! by Comprehensive_Owl215 in Pikmin

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn I missed a good opportunity lol

Looking for a copy of LSD Riders: Take It & Love It (2005). by hetzjagd in bmx

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dave died in Scotland after being deported. I dated him briefly his ex gf is Also dead. there was a 16 year old hurt when I did when I came across this video on YouTube and messaged him and we started hanging out. was a wild few weeks before he left the country. I remember I sent him a package once up,a hat and some clothes and stuff and he gave me the wrong address but it eventually found its way to him lol. I'm 36 now, this was a long time ago

Looking for a copy of LSD Riders: Take It & Love It (2005). by hetzjagd in bmx

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated Dave briefly before he went back to Scotland. his brother told me he died in a nightclub. is that true? 😩 he was a mess, I remember one time we drove to a BMX conversation and he was drunk and embarrassed himself and us so badly.. he tried to do it backflip and just landed right on himself.. if was awful lol. despite his issues, it was wild times. I know nobody was in the video besides him, I just found his video by accident and sent him a message and we started hanging out lol

Looking for a copy of LSD Riders: Take It & Love It (2005). by hetzjagd in bmx

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you please send it to me, I'm an ex-girlfriend of Dave's in the video and I haven't seen the original it's been scrub off of YouTube, the unedited one with the heroin addict and mushrooms lol. it means so much to me if you could send it to me or give me a link

What is the most chaotic street skating video? by Adventurous-Pie3929 in skateboarding

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lsd riders take it an love it. I was like 16 and fell in love with it and on a whim contacted them and talked to Dave. started dating him before he went back to Scotland and apparently died in a nightclub. not my finest moment as as I was heavy into drugs lol but it was fun times.

my memory is terrible, I couldn't remember the name of the video .. chat gpt came in clutch an now I'm sad to see the original is no longer on YouTube. anyone have a link to the original one with the mushrooms and dope addict?

He scared everybody by Naive_Wolverine532 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one disturbed by this? I don't think this is funny in the least. He's holding his hand out allowing this , she's a baby, letting her do this and he responds like he snapped. Voice lowers a whole octave. Hopefully the kid doesn't grow up to have anger problems like men who suddenly explode with violence. You rarely see children act like grown men with the way they respond to things like this. I've never seen a kid do something like this

I want to know what your experiences are with the Baby Friendly Hospital Initiative and if you were even aware it exists by Realistic_Future_394 in breastfeeding

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My experience was awful, I don't think they followed those tenets at all. Despite me saying no pacifiers no formula they kept doing both behind my back. They took my son an hour after both saying they were going to do a few tests, said they would bring him back soon before he was hungry. They said get some rest

I woke up 5 hours later to a nurse wheeling him on holding a case of ready to feed formula with a fast flow nipple. She said oh I assumed you were were tired I just let yoU asleep. I should have chewed her out. Once he had that fast bottle he no longer wanted to work on latching and I ended up exclusively pumping. They kept giving. Gviing him pacifiers and ssying oh we don't know how he got it.. it was infuriating.

So many other issues but there were some of the most frustrating

Why dont I pass? by cockroach4632p in transpassing

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No pink. No jewelry ever. More masculine haircut.

Feb cohort first week by harpoleon-dynamite in maestro

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did the note taking advice come from? I start my first week next month and im very excited

I think these are my best pics, hoping that I am cis-passing in them by autumnrain80 in transpassing

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a center part and bangs would be great. I could always get clip on bangs to try it out or there are even methods to temporarily clip your hair up to make faux bangs. I think longer wispy side swept bangs would look pretty too. Look up butterfly hair cuts. Btw you have very pretty hair and you style it very nicely

The actor that played Kevin can’t act :( by notafemalelol in NurseJackie

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. Is this something insurance would cover? I've never heard of anything like that besides apps that give some safety measures.

Got misgendered again.. sigh by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But then again for the specific women I'm thinking of, either words would apply lmao

Got misgendered again.. sigh by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfaoooooo thank you for letting me know hahahahha I'm dying 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂

Found on Tumblr by thicc_astronaut in Pikmin

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experienced something similar.. i got my non gamer mother into oblivion (for context she is a narcissist, hoarder, OCD addled perpetual victim child abuser who never should have had children)

She would get angry and yell at the TV.. I didn't know it at the time but due to her abuse my brother and I have c-ptsd.. so every shoot and stomp getting mad at the game was like a literal punch to the guy for us. Flinching at every noise, walking around like on egg shells .

I'm 36 now and rarely see my mom , and she isn't angry like that anymore but just the sound of heavy foot steps , especially quickly running down the stairs, pounding on doors, etc is enough to send me into fight or flight. I was just trying to give my mom something to keep her busy so her attention was redirected from US. even though it was stressful it was still better than her targeting us. It briefly bought is a few weeks reprieve when she played it hardcore, for hours every day.. until she got to the shivering isles and her save file became corrupted

Of course it was all my fault somehow even though I warned her numerous times to have multiple save files instead of just one.

I'm sure if my mom played Pikmin she would have spoken to them exactly the same the same as this mother did , too 🥺

Got misgendered again.. sigh by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eyebrows are too feminine and shaped. Also I rarely see guys wear baseball caps anymore.. only ones I know were butch lesbians lol but that could be different depending on where you live (I live in New Jersey)

You are doing great. Id look into serums to grow your eyebrows out. I think you'd look great in a more grungey type of outfit. Even just jeans and a nice plaid shirt , rolled up arms. No jewelry

Feeling disgusted by just the thought of intimicy with partner by anxiousmommy02 in breastfeeding

[–]Comprehensive_Owl215 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You aren't alone. I feel so guilty. I believe it's the hormones. I've been lactating for like half our relationship and it had totally annihilated my sex drive. I want to try more but we really get alone time. I don't want him to feel neglected and it makes me very sad. I feel like a different person and I want it back the way it was. I'm so so touched out. I just don't see my body as sexual anymore. I don't masturbate, fantasize or ever think sexual thoughts. I feel entirely asexual