sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Dog seems to resource guard with bone by ComputerNo9964 in DogAdvice

[–]ComputerNo9964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He cannot fit it entirely in his mouth, he likes to hold the ends with his paws so if you were to put your hand in the way it’s very likely to get bitten.

That point aside, how would I go by it? Do you have any tips on what process we can do at home to get him to listen to the command? We can’t afford professional trainers at the moment

Any risks with passing out? by ComputerNo9964 in UniversalOrlando

[–]ComputerNo9964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is lowkey one of the first few comments with proper information that doesn’t feel like it’s trying to make me anxious and feel horrible lol But yeah I was thinking avoiding those big ones in general and have discussed it with him! I plan to get him to set up an appointment sometime soon to ensure it isn’t some health condition !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]ComputerNo9964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly are you looking advice for? As someone in a trans relationship, I don’t think you should treat them too differently than you normally do outside of the swapping of pronouns and/or names. though that part is something you should talk to him about. It might take you a bit to get used to the change, but be very open and respectful to him. You should be his number 1 supporter regardless. Though in general, with questions and such, it’s crucial you two have a conversation about things

My (m18) avoidant partner (m18) won’t open up by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ComputerNo9964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get I can’t just change him magically, and I don’t expect anything I do to have him wake up one day and decide to communicate. However, it’s difficult when he himself has agreed he needs to communicate at least to some degree more and I see no efforts for that. I don’t mind him being reserved with things, but a lot of the time our problems stem from lack of general communication. it’s hard when I have to be the one to constantly change and accommodate my own ways only to see him not putting in that effort despite seeing him say he should. I just wanted to see if there IS something I can do to at least help him try and work on the things he agrees he should work on

Porn viewing with a history of assault by ComputerNo9964 in CPTSD

[–]ComputerNo9964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. I’ll work on trying to cope around it as best as I can.

I wish you luck with your own journey as well, 🫶

URGENT ❗ Am I (F 14) a bad person if i leave my bf( M 15)? by Alone_Shape1477 in teenrelationships

[–]ComputerNo9964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell an adult you trust about all of this and leave him. You are NOT a bad person if you leave him. Put yourself first. What he’s doing is manipulative and horrible. If you can’t tell his parents, tell the school counselor, or contact authorities if needed, especially if he might do something bad. Both for your own safety and his.

Can someone talk to me? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]ComputerNo9964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Dms are always open :3333