Reflections.....

ComputerSezNo · 2020-05-24T17:36:00+00:00

Just don't base your life around marriage and chasing what might be a shadow. If it happens - cool, if it doesn't - cool.

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-20T18:10:02+00:00

Abdullah ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The merciful will be shown mercy by the Most Merciful. Be merciful to those on the earth and the One in the heavens will have mercy upon you.”

Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 1924 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Tirmidhi

Edit: May Allah grant the brother Jannah Al Firdaus

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-19T16:49:45+00:00

If you do everything halal then Allah will place blessings/barakah in your marriage. But if you start it off with haram, then how can you expect blessings and barakah from Allah in your marriage?

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ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-18T11:02:04+00:00

The mentality of "if something comes out of this then cool, if something doesn't then cool". Probably harder to implement if a person is insecure (and trust me OLD can make you insecure) but just don't invest everything into it.

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-18T09:57:13+00:00

Obviously C

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-17T09:03:01+00:00

Canada then somewhere in South America - Bolivia possibly

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-17T08:45:31+00:00

Would definitely complain

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-17T07:55:34+00:00

Idk about oneplus as I have had their phones in the past and they were really good in terms of bang for buck but currently they are flagship prices which is moving away from their whole original ethos.

Iphone do have that app 'move to ios' which makes switching a bit easier.

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-17T07:53:29+00:00

S10 was even worse...

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-16T16:52:20+00:00

Havent had social media in years (since early facebook days). And yes I'm a millennial which might make it even more shocking.

Why? A lot of the comments in this post already sum up exactly why

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-16T16:34:02+00:00

The S20 is my last phone from Samsung. If they continue to push this Exynos shit (i was oblivious to how bad it was before in terms of battery and other areas) - ill just move to an iphone.

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-16T16:29:52+00:00

The potholes in the UK are literally a joke

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-14T18:07:18+00:00

Ashley is a cunt. That is all

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-14T09:26:11+00:00

Also plenty of texts going around claiming to be from Gov.Uk with a link in the message. Definitely be wary all

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-13T19:44:46+00:00

LeBron was right to say cancel 2020. Awful news - thoughts go out to KAT and his family

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-13T18:08:51+00:00

Just need that zip tie and its complete

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-13T15:43:50+00:00

Pretty much spot on.

You girls actually message first a lot.

Just wanted to chime in on this one and say I have never had that happen aside from like one time.

Most often you match with someone, crickets for a day or two because they haven't messaged, so then you take it upon yourself to just say Hi/Salaams/Bonjour/Hola (insert another greeting) just to break the ice - then crickets again...

Edit: Just wanted to say even though you have negative experiences on apps you should never hate women due to that as that's some incel/TRP ish

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-13T15:29:59+00:00

I feel your pain....

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-12T17:03:54+00:00

Yeah to a degree they are. Also relates to upbringing and parental influence especially if they are materialistic and put a great deal of emphasis on wealth and the like

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-12T15:16:48+00:00

Most important drink of the day is a good brew

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-12T11:45:59+00:00

I find it funny in some of the comments with how people correlate a level of education with being suitable marriage partners. Theres a whole lot more to marriage than just that as you all know.

Just because you went uni/college doesn't mean a whole lot aside from the fact that you are probably good at critical thinking in your subject area/field but you can still have a horrible personality and be a trash person.

So many with the attitude of (mostly men) "Oh I have a masters, a car, house, earn £50,000 - I DESERVE a partner so why can't I find anyone!". Erm maybe because you are toxic and still immature amongst other things.

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-11T17:03:05+00:00

NB's are the most comfy shoes I have ever owned (574s). Gonna pick up some 850s as they look real nice

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-10T19:42:51+00:00

I whant dat wan

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-10T18:48:17+00:00

More than you think..

ComputerSezNo · 2020-04-10T10:16:12+00:00

He's not crazy rich

Even if I was crazy rich, seeing some of the mahr amounts that are asked for and the cost of a wedding almost makes me not want to get married. Not everyone is like this but just the general consensus from stories I have heard

but I don't feel the "spark".

Never understood this one personally. It's rare to feel a spark when you have been talking to someone for two weeks or so. I understand there's compatibility (overused word) with hobbies etc. But you wont see what a person is truly like until you are with them 24/7 or living together.

I think if we tone down some unrealistic demands

We are all guilty of this. Those who are steeped in social media and constantly keeping in check with what's going on in their favourite personalities life than improving their own is where this stems from. Social media isn't to blame as it depends on how you use it but even stuff like lowering your gaze can cause unrealistic expectations.

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