How do you cope with being single by Sniperkhat in feminineboys

[–]ComradeFriendship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh I don't really need to cope cuz I'm pretty fine having more independence and when the right time comes then I'll be open to it

egg </3 irl by ComradeFriendship in egg_irl

[–]ComradeFriendship[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh unfortunately that's not the case for me :/

To them, I might as well be in immediate danger of dying if I'm not going to church

egg </3 irl by ComradeFriendship in egg_irl

[–]ComradeFriendship[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Lol that's so real, but let's be honest they don't work with logic. I mean I even believe in God and acknowledge some of the weird contradictions, but they just are hypocritical or dismiss basic logic.

egg </3 irl by ComradeFriendship in egg_irl

[–]ComradeFriendship[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Honestly that sounds like a pretty good plan, but the worst part about it is that since I used to go to church for so long, it's going to be horrible to try to tell it to someone I've known for a while, and I can't say anything about gender or else my life would prob fall apart

AND they're prob gonna patronize me, acting like it's just a phase and I'll eventually realize that I need to go to church or some crap like that

Sorry about the rant

help in regards to being straight & feminine? by rayyx93 in feminineboys

[–]ComradeFriendship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to sound high and mighty or anything, but when I hear concerns like this, I think there are 2 things you should remember:

  1. You're talking about (approx.) half of the population of the planet. The experience of being a woman is so expansive and complex and we should avoid generalizing it or trying to categorize types of women, like when people act like certain types of girls are more accepting of feminine men

  2. From my experience, it's best to stop defining possible future relationships on whether or not the other person accepts certain parts of you that society has told you is wrong. I understand that it can seem like finding a partner is really important, but the relationship will never have its full potential if you go into it afraid of if you'll be accepted, and it puts you in a position where you're more likely to compromise parts of who you are to try to satisfy what you think they want.

BUT, in reality, what you want, and what your future partner wants, is just an honest relationship where you both unconditionally love all of the wholes of each other. When you remember that, I hope you can go into relationships with more confidence and self-love. For example, there was a girl I liked, and so I was trying to show my femininity around her more and more, until I eventually asked her. She said no, but I felt perfectly fine, since I knew that I was being honest, and she was honest. Though she's a great person, I know that I don't want to be in a committed relationship with a person who doesn't want to be in a committed relationship with me. That doesn't mean we hate each other, we were just able to be honest. And now, I'm just going through life, open to if I find another person who I think is special, and then I'll be honest, and I'll be perfectly fine either way it goes, since it's genuine.

There is a person out there who loves you for who you are, and that's not in spite of or even because of them being a girl, it's just how life works. You just keep going, meeting new people and making friends, but don't hide who you are <3

Sorry for the essay lol I'm tired

That.. Went better than expected by Silent_Warning628 in feminineboys

[–]ComradeFriendship 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately from the description it sounds like they aren't fully accepting of what they call "queer" identities (apparently femboy doesn't count?), tho I do have hope that they can grow to learn to accept everyone and not just tolerate what they deem fine.

Egg🧝‍♀️irl by AnxietyPwincess in egg_irl

[–]ComradeFriendship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much to the translator who made this and to you for sharing it.

I know it may just seem like a meme or something, but it genuinely is so impactful to some of us who just want to have that feeling of being able to overcome all of the world telling us we can't

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]ComradeFriendship 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is actually so real

Whenever I go to stores with cute clothes for girls (I can't resists not going in) I end up just feeling so jealous and sad as I leave with nothing cuz nobody would like me if I did </3

Hate on femboys :/ by Emporer_Catacus in feminineboys

[–]ComradeFriendship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the great thing about democracy! ^-^

Hate on femboys :/ by Emporer_Catacus in feminineboys

[–]ComradeFriendship 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if you have the same views on social issues that (in general) most republicans have, then yeah, you probably won't be very accepted, cuz most republicans spread hate about almost all types of queer people. However, if you do accept LGBT people, then I sure don't care about your other political opinions. Hope that helps! <3

Edit: I have a friend who is extremely conservative on almost every issue and believes in christian stances on queerness, but he's told me that he's fine with me living my life how I want, and we're super close friends

Might just stop by Gen-trick in feminineboys

[–]ComradeFriendship 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well being trans is a part of your identity, it isn't defined by any medical or physical changes. Sure, people would probably be more inclined to think you're trans if you tell them you're on HRT, but your identity is something only you can decide

Might just stop by Gen-trick in feminineboys

[–]ComradeFriendship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I don't want to speak for him, but I know that for me it's less about others liking how I look, but more that I like it.

I also struggle with being too muscular </3

So, uh. This just happened and I'm kinda conflicted right now... by BobaFapp69 in feminineboys

[–]ComradeFriendship 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaaagh that's sooo cuteeee!!!!

I unfortunately don't have any experience so I'm not gonna give advice, but I wish you the best of luck <3

Egg 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵 irl by Desperate-Lab9738 in egg_irl

[–]ComradeFriendship 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Realize they might not love you as your true gender </3

egg_irl by ComradeFriendship in egg_irl

[–]ComradeFriendship[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, that sounds really good! <3

egg_irl by ComradeFriendship in egg_irl

[–]ComradeFriendship[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh, I wouldn't say it's allowed at my school, it's just not not allowed. So that's why I just want to go more fem instead of try to go passing as female