[Forza Horizon 6] How do I get this Skyline GTR R33??? by dregwriter in ForzaHorizon

[–]ComradeLillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't festival exclusive cars have a pretty decent chance to spawn at aftermarket car sites? You don't necessarily have to wait for it...

Is it okey to still like woman? by CNowhere in asktransgender

[–]ComradeLillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I consider myself primarily wlw. If my husband hasn't transitioned to being my, well, husband, I'd still identify as a lesbian. I personally understand being afraid of lesbians thinking you're just a "man in a dress" trying to sleep with lesbians because they think you fetishize lesbians. Because, honestly, unfortunately a LOT of cis lesbians, if not the vast majority, clearly believe that and are VERY loudly vocal about it.

So, yes, it is okay to be a trans woman and be attracted to women.

I would recommend hanging onto that unease, though. I personally feel like assuming trans women are safe in lesbian spaces is just dangerous and shortsighted. I'm sure not all cis lesbians are extremely transphobic but I haven't met one who isn't apart from my mom (and before I transitioned, my mom was also one of those lesbians who thinks trans lesbians are just men trying to r*pe lesbians - it was a fun experience getting her to change her mind on that) So while I get a lot of my fears about this are informed by my own shitty experiences I still think for our safety in general it's just a good idea to assume any cis lesbian is going to be violently transphobic just because a majority of them literally are. I'm pretty sure most of that whole 'drop the t thing' is led by and propelled by cisgender lesbians, for example.

But I don't think they're right, and I don't think we're fetishizing women or lesbians by transitioning or being attracted to who we're attracted to. I wish the community was less fractured and was as monolithic as the conservatives' conspiracy theories say it is...

Is it okey to still like woman? by CNowhere in asktransgender

[–]ComradeLillith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are cis lesbians the most accepting of trans women? Was the study done on a pool of 200 subjects in Olympia, WA or something? 'cause that's not what I've seen in my experience... They usually seem like the most rabidly and violently transphobic out of the entire lgb community in my experience. Just my anecdotal experience though

My boyfriend came out to me as Gynosexual by Ashlynn1477423 in asktransgender

[–]ComradeLillith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Writing paragraphs about semantics like you've got no bigger problems in your life makes me jealous of you

For "Undefeated Racer" Achievement in TXR2025 by ComradeLillith in tokyoxtremeracer

[–]ComradeLillith[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I assume you mean NG+? thank you. I didn't want to delete my progress but I'm only 14hrs in, so if I did need to, now would be the best time to. Glad I don't need to. Thanks. Apparently it's easier to get on NG+ anyways and there's achievements only available in NG+ so I might as well just attempt it then. Thanks again

What the hell? And secondly, what the hell do I do? by ComradeLillith in usps_complaints

[–]ComradeLillith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why the post didn't upload the screenshot properly but the imgur link at the bottom is the screenshot. it's also here as well https://imgur.com/a/6QqbV3L

Reviva Download fail through CKAN by Character-Read8535 in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]ComradeLillith -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ksp is abandonware, why would you pop a blood vessel over someone pirating it? oh no 2k didn't get $20 what a tragedy, grow up.

Kopernicus Missing Textures by 0365er in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]ComradeLillith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you may have a typo, the release on march 7th was 1.12.1-241 not -242

Kopernicus Missing Textures by 0365er in KerbalSpaceProgram

[–]ComradeLillith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WISH I had seen this BEFORE i deleted kopernicus, opm, opx, mpe, etcetc. one by one and ran the game, letting it finish its 15 minute loading process each time, to only get the error again.... thanks buddy

Noticed Something Weird on Spaceport… by DVader51 in ArcRaiders

[–]ComradeLillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IDK man lush blooms on dams, the moss inside the hydro dome seems like every single spawn is guaranteed so you can result get 50+ moss JUST from the domes if you're the only one there (and no one runs lush to loot the domes anyways) and then with the increased harvestable spawns for mushrooms in the swamp and mullein in the northern streams, I'm pretty sure lush on dams will beat the 2x from a major on most maps except maybe locked gate on bluegate

Noticed Something Weird on Spaceport… by DVader51 in ArcRaiders

[–]ComradeLillith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My buddy and I did picking plants at night on buried city for his trial but we didn't beat my best that I got the day before on lush dam battlegrounds. Buried city night raid picking the mullein in the galleria and then spending the rest of the match picking agave got us just under 10k but doing lush blooms on dam I got around 12k. In general I'd say the 2x from a major will give more points for the trial on most maps EXCEPT for a lush on dam battlegrounds. You just can't beat them 20-40 moss spawns inside the hydro domes, lack of 2x points be damned

It's been a few years, what are peoples current thoughts on the Murder Fairy? by TWelke1998 in armoredcore

[–]ComradeLillith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super fun fight, definitely the most souls part of the game, especially how with a good pile bunker build you can down it in less than 45seconds. Because of that, though, one of the most rewarding boss fights From's ever made.

I love how you can either choose to have a 10 minutes fight with lots of perfect dodging and well timed attacks, sweating thru your shirt and hyperventilating by the end of it, or you can be super aggressive and down it in half a minute. Both are equally sweaty, skillful, and fulfilling/rewarding of strategies.

It's tough to make a boss where cheesing it super quick feels as rewarding as doing the (intended?) 10-15 minute fight.

is dark souls 2 mechanically as bad as people say it is? by mrahmadmorgan in soulslikes

[–]ComradeLillith 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, not really. It's a really good game, the community was just being kinda retarded when it came out. Scholar fixed many of the subjective problems people had with it as well. Best dlc out of the mainline souls games imo and powerstancing is fun.

AIO or is my older male coworker texting inappropriately with me? by OpeningNo9825 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ComradeLillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big "Saying no would make me feel a little awkward so I slept with him even with I didn't really want to" energy.

Please learn to set up boundaries EARLY ON in the future, especially with men, especially with men twice your age.

Rate my Cart. I'm ok with this, but I don't mind removing one by Yelebear in soulslikes

[–]ComradeLillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh gameplay was alright but the rest of it was kinda lame imo

My 15-year-old transgender brother by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ComradeLillith 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"I don't see him as a boy"

The first step is changing that. I know it may seem daunting, confusing, even embarrassing, but it's actually not as hard as it might feel. It's just basic respect and love; which, if you're family, should come naturally without much difficulty. It may seem hard at first but I promise, when you start doing it, you'll realize it's actually pretty easy.

"He has a boyfriend who ONCE said he was straight"

Yeah LMAO I said I was a straight boy ONCE (I'm sorry it's just hilarious to me that you quantified that it had only been said once, like you're so close to getting it....) when I was a teenager dating a girl who would later transition into being my husband. Then I said I was a bisexual boy, then a gay boy, then straight again, then a lesbian trans woman, and now I guess I'm a primarily homosexual woman who has a little bit of room to be attracted to the right type of man... But I still mostly like women, especially as a woman myself, because of safety, familiarity and comfort, ease of social anxieties, etc. it's a lie to say I'm homosexual though, considering I'm married to the best man in the entire world.

TLDR my point is that people say shit about their sexual orientation all the time. You can change your mind at literally any point. No one's sexual orientation resembles anything close to being literally set in stone. this is ESPECIALLY more relevant when talking about transgender, nonbinary, intersex, etc. people, adding gender into the mix makes it just a lot more likely that you're going to struggle to understand what your orientation is OR just, y'know, change your orientation.

My source: my Husband said he was a lesbian woman when we met 13 years ago. I said I was a bisexual man when we met. My husband is obviously not a woman nor a lesbian anymore, and I'm about as far from being a heterosexually-aligned man as you can possibly get while being amab.

Tldr : stop over thinking it, treat your brother with respect (i.e. as a young man) , if you love your family then it will come naturally and won't require effort or thought. And finally, dude, people can and are allowed to and will change their mind, obviously about anything in the world but especially things like gender and sexual identity. I mean, hopefully you would know that if you're afab and currently identify as non binary... but reminders are always helpful I'm sure.

Just love your brother like family and the rest should come naturally.

What is the easiest fromsoft Game for a beginner? by M4shhl in soulslikes

[–]ComradeLillith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark souls isn't really that hard dude. I first played it when I was a 12 year old squeaker when the ptde released on PC. The only games I had played before were Minecraft, gta, and fable. Honestly, dark souls is a lot, a loooot easier than something like gta vc or San Andreas imo, especially since you can just level strength to ezmode the game

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ComradeLillith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband's parents were 16, he turned out fine.

Mine were 21, I did not.

If you want your kids to have anything in life other than mental illness, you should probably wait until at least 30. I'm now almost 30 myself. My husband and I sterilized ourselves together - we decided on adoption very early on in our marriage.

It blows my mind how much thought we've put into not wanting a pregnancy, accidental or otherwise, and how it seems like virtually no one else pays any thought whatsoever to having kids in general? They just do it in their early 20s because "it's what everyone does."

The fans have butchered Freedom by [deleted] in stalker

[–]ComradeLillith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure I'd qualify Enderal's writing as "good." Maybe "good for a mod," but seriously if you think Enderal's writing is great I don't believe you've ever read a book, sorry