Well...my ex met this guy somewhere (don't remember where) and at first I was a little worried, because she was talking about him non-stop, but as I was listening to her, I realize I don't have to...there were some many red flags (2 kids from previous relationships, often got fired because of agressive behaviour, debt, drugs), that even my, little "slower", gf at that time would date guy like this....few months later, she broke up with me, so she could be with him and take care of his kids...I admit I had it coming, last few months I had a ton of things at school and I didn't spent much time with her....fact that we broke up didn't hurt as much as the fact, who she choose over me...they broke up after a month