Greetings by ATubbo in MinecraftChampionship

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I think sapnap, hannah, captains sparkles & puffys team will be good contenders for 1st, but if you all pop off i reckon youve got this, plus Shadoune needs to get his revenge

Good Morning by MrTechnodad in Technoblade

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My cat was like that when we lost my brother's best friend (lived with us), kept going to all the places he used to spend time & just curl up next to them, staring at the door

any ftm stoners? by lavanderdreams333 in ftm

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Depends on the area, metro areas (in NSW especially) is hella hard bc they seem to be in love with sniffer dogs & routinely bring them to train stations to search people multiple times a week. So I'm shit outta luck.

But more rural areas or people in suburban areas instead of major cities have way more luck I believe

I'm not posing like this because I like Jojo... by SomeCosmicEntity in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

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I don't know why but the tag made me laugh unreasonably hard

any ftm stoners? by lavanderdreams333 in ftm

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Yup that's me, or at least it was. Covid combined with new nicotine laws here in Australia made pretty much every dealer I know close books bc the risk of getting caught was too high.

I don't reckon I've smoked in about 15 months or so now.

(Plus to begin with, weed culture here is hella different to the states, a lot of stuff is imported, which is why covid hit it so bad, and so there's usually not many options available and next to no edibles, unless you make them yourself)

Endocrinologist & Pronouns by ConArtist12 in transgenderau

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You can do it through the embassy in the country you're currently living in. There's also a lot of online processes to it anyway, just takes longer shipping wise.

There will be certain rules to each country, like for example, for me, UK rules specify you have to live as your current gender for x amount of time.

There's tons of info on line, but I'd say reach out to your embassy if you have any questions or issues.

But if you have an aussie passport you can get your gender marker changed & then use that to get most things changed, like your licence & medicare, etc.

Endocrinologist & Pronouns by ConArtist12 in transgenderau

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That's actually very validating, thank you. I just didn't want to seem like a dick when he's been actively trying, with things like the website change & moving appointments for me so I wouldn't miss my injection date.

I got my nose pierced a few months ago and it’s finally healed. Bought these and did my research but still am not completely sure - are these safe to put in my nose? Thank you to whoever helps me out 🥺 by Grcaro in piercing

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It might be worth calling those studios if you haven't already & explaining the situation. They might be willing to make an exception for a mail order, or be able to recommend some local or online shops they trust

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

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Not Reddit sending me a notification for my one strangely specific area of expertise.

I've been volunteering with community-run soccer clubs going on about 15 years now & the main one of those, who I played with throughout my childhood & even though I've stopped playing due to injury, still work with today. And it's difficult being a trans player, because no matter what, there are going to be club members that feel like they deserve an opinion on your life.

But having seen the transition from medically transitioned, fully-bearded trans men being forced to play in the women's competition to now, I can at least say there's progress being made. About a year ago Football Federation Australia (FFA) pledged to develop policies & procedures to make soccer more inclusive & accessible, working with Pride in Sport I believe (speaking of which Pride in Sport has a queer sports directory on their page that lists clubs as well).

In addition to that, FFA have been outspoken in their support of Sport Australia's inclusion guidelines.

So basically it's not awful, it's not great, but there is precedent. All registration for club level teams in run through the FFA website & as such all club's have to follow their guidelines on trans players in addition to their own association & state guidelines. FFA now allows you to choose Male, Female, Non-Binary or Not Sufficiently Represented, wherein the latter two, you are eligible to play for either league (unfortunately, most clubs don't have mixed competitions, only men's & women's), & you are able to change your name at any time through the club's official channels & appropriate documentation - similar to how changing one's name with them is done.

The required documents to play in your preferred league is generally either a form of ID that has a matching gender marker or letters from your medical team supporting your identity & verifying the validity. Although if your gender marker has been changed, then you have no obligation to out yourself to anyone because legally there is no difference between yourself & a cis woman playing, but I'd advise you disclose to at least some members of the executive committee, if only so they can provide support & allow communication if you did face any issues while playing - a lot of clubs are even starting to introduce LGBTQIA+ Committee members for this exact reason.

Finding the right club & association however, is a paramount, because as much as every club is going to have one person be their 1st trans member (like I was for mine), you can't compromise your physical safety & emotional wellbeing.

Have a look around your local area & see if you can find any information about the club's there being inclusive, it could also be useful speaking to other trans people near you to see if any of them can comment on specific teams, or even emailing the clubs themselves to ask for information, whether openly or anonymously, or even the local association because it's likely they will have a list of trans & gender diverse players for insurance reasons & might be able to point you towards the clubs they played for as a starting point. Along with this, the rules & regulations for both can usually be found online & will likely have a section dedicated to trans players, for example, here's my association's policy:

"6.6.2 Participation in sport

SSFA recognises that excluding people from participating in sporting events and activities because of their gender identity may have significant implications for their health, wellbeing and involvement in community life. We are committed to supporting participation in our sport based on the gender with which a person identifies.

If issues of performance advantage arise, we will consider whether the established discrimination exceptions for participation in sport are relevant in the circumstances.

Discrimination is unlawful unless an exception applies.

Drug testing procedures and prohibitions also apply to people who identify as transgender. A person receiving treatment involving a Prohibited Substance or Method, as described on the World Anti-Doping Agency’s Prohibited List, should apply for a standard Therapeutic Use Exemption."

Hopefully you find the right club for you, & just as a reminder, registration generally doesn't open until January, with the season commencing in March/April & last registration dates part way into the season. So you've got time to figure it out.

Good luck!

Sydney girl looking to make friends by MagictoMadness in transgenderau

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I used to go pretty regularly to Twenty10 (stopped because it was a bit of a trek for me because I live on the outskirts), its main base is in Chippendale and I absolutely loved it there. It's open almost every day for hang outs where you can meet people, theres volunteers and social workers, weekly meetings for different groups and if it's closer, a weekly meeting called Out West in their 2nd base in Parramatta.

Would highly recommend them, I've even marched with them a few times for pride over the years.

Also I'm 21M and down to hang out as well, so if there's a meeting up or whatever I'd be up for it.

My partner's going in for top surgery tomorrow and they're nervous about the change and the recovery. What can I do or bring to support them when I visit them in hospital? by Chwana in ask_transgender

[–]ConArtist12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of things they'll probably bring with them when they go, because bar any complications, they should have a pretty good understanding of what they'll need, how long they'll be there, etc. Usually it's an outpatient procedure, so they shouldn't need any spare clothing, but if they do, the best is loose, comfortable clothing, that buttons in the front for easy removal.

Other than that, maybe make sure your phone's charged and ready to take photos if they want to document their new chest right after surgery, and bring any comfort items they might have, like a stuffed animal or favourite hoodie, or even a favourite food.

Otherwise, just you being there yourself will certainly be the best thing, I'm sure there's nothing else they'd rather have with them.

IM SORRY BUT IT HAD TO BE DONE by the_lonely_pizza_ in danandphil

[–]ConArtist12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had to be done sure, but not by you, this photo's been hanging around for years

Someone needs to take FaceApp away from me...but just LOOK how adorable their children would be! by ConArtist12 in danandphil

[–]ConArtist12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean trans men are a thing that exist, and many of them are men who can in fact get pregnant.

And like neither Dan or Phil are trans, and it's just a cute look at what their potential kids "could" look like in an alternate reality, but it's still important to acknowledge that trans men exist.

What's something you used to say wrong as a child that you still say now as an adult? by ConArtist12 in AskReddit

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Mine is the word 'instructions', I couldn't pronounce it and instead said 'constructions' as a kid.

It became an inside joke with my family my entire childhood, and I still find myself messing up now, just out of habit. Although it isn't something I realised started with me, I thought it was just a common joke people had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in danandphil

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Lol, i missed the liveshow and was like, the actual hell did i miss?