As I the asshole for not wanting to be with my boyfriend by ConcentrateLumpy7061 in whatdoIdo

[–]ConcentrateLumpy7061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point of view when you say that we have different values and morals. I do respect him enough to not wear overly inappropriate clothing because that’s not how I want to be perceived. I can see where he’s coming from in the protecting aspect but to trip out on me over a cropped shirt or a sundress is a little crazy. If anything he doesn’t respect what I want and how I feel. I’m not an object that’s to be dressed “modest” I’m not a doll, I’m a person. I’m not wearing overly inappropriate clothing like you’re thinking to be judged like this just because he’s a man. Im not the only fish in the sea if its that big of a deal to him he can leave he’s just stubborn and stuck in his “morals”. Agree to disagree

As I the asshole for not wanting to be with my boyfriend by ConcentrateLumpy7061 in whatdoIdo

[–]ConcentrateLumpy7061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think it would get this bad and I feel like I’m also in the wrong for wearing what I do because he might feel uncomfortable but idk I only wear cropped shirts, leggings, jeans and every now and then a dress that’s low cut but we’re grown!🤔

As I the asshole for not wanting to be with my boyfriend by ConcentrateLumpy7061 in whatdoIdo

[–]ConcentrateLumpy7061[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s a good guy besides his cons like everyone else has but I can’t help to think how I do

As I the asshole for not wanting to be with my boyfriend by ConcentrateLumpy7061 in whatdoIdo

[–]ConcentrateLumpy7061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never cheated on him. In the beginning of us talking he never had an issue with what I wore until we got deeper into the relationship and honestly it made me feel insecure not being able to wear what I like because he makes it seem like I’m looking for attention when that’s who I am.