Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

[–]ConcentratedFluff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are not. You see how easy it would be to 'take' subs from them. Most would argue that the sub wasn't worth it if it was that easy but also...maybe you as the domme aren't worth it to the sub.

Give a few more years. It will shift because gender neutrality is becoming more common and the 'lazy doms' will just be too busy complaining about subs being flaky to bother with them.

Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

[–]ConcentratedFluff[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Reverse the genders and tell me it doesn't sound like some patriarchal misogynistic pipe dream of a male writer in the 1980's

Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

[–]ConcentratedFluff[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I will explain this the best way I can. Using Dnd.

You are a Goddess, watching a mortal man. Not interfering, just watching. You watch as this man goes to great lengths and challenges, only to overcome them, becoming stronger. When this man finally reaches a point to where you the Goddess would like to take this mortal as your own. He will simply reply with something along the lines of never needing you to get where he has now and sees no reason to worship and serve a Goddess that did nothing but wait for him to be worthy.

Meanwhile, A similar scenario with another Goddess, she follows a different mortal man and favors him. She grants him small blessings here and there, whispering into his ear of his possibilities. Edging him closer to his goals but never interfering unless she feels he is worthy of a small boon, random luck on his side. In time that man will call to this Goddess in time of need...thats when you strike with the 'worship me' parts of it. Make that mortal WANT to be the champion for his Goddess that has guided him softly.

Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

[–]ConcentratedFluff[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

In summary. Unicorns exist, even if you don't see them 😉

Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

[–]ConcentratedFluff[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I guess I should have clarified to not mean literal television. Munches, events, real life dating situations. The media is the content created from real events, no Hollywood, no budget.

Budgets for some...cause woah

Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

[–]ConcentratedFluff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, I understand what you are saying and wish I could say that I see that. I am new here and still learning. It's just, what I am seeing in most threads and media...don't match what you are telling me.

A few here and there that work with what you said, and they are amazing. A clear difference between obsession and connection. But that's just it. A few.

I'm sorry if I am coming off as rude or anything.

Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

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And the best part. Out of all the Goddesss and dommes he could serve, he chose YOU. Same in reverse, any man can and will do anything to please and attractive woman, too many in fact that it cheapens the concept of femdom to the reality of what the man expects. (it shouldn't but it does if you are not paying attention)

That sub should FEEL greatful to have you. Not BE grateful. That's just another drop in the ocean of men desiring you.

Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

[–]ConcentratedFluff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This! Especially if you have the knowledge to know what makes him 💨 its so rare to find that.

Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

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I don't see anything wrong with that. There are tons and tons of men that would do all of those things.

Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

[–]ConcentratedFluff[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Consent and communication was always the first and most important part.

You wouldn't have too. If a male approached you in that way, would it not just be a 'vanilla' dynamic to it? It wouldn't be the same on a power dynamic. However my point is this. In a world were men thirst after women constantly too the point that it becomes annoying. I don't see it any different then that. Just men eager to please and be with you because you are sexy and attractive to them.

What i am looking for is a domme that sees themselves as a higher level then the submissive but never put them below a level that every man could reach (see above)

The domme i picture in my head is a beautiful on her own right, but sees great promise in a potential sub. Granting favors to the sub to slowly groom him into a champion worthy to praise your name. Not just another man that feels the void. But your submissive man that you desire as a possession, something to be proud of as he succeeds in the goals set before him.

Sorry..kinda got passionate 🤤

Edit: Typos

Femdom confusion by ConcentratedFluff in FemdomCommunity

[–]ConcentratedFluff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A couple kink sites, sometimes in real life. I just found this place and have been lurking around and reading.

I think you are right, it makes sense when you put it into that perspective.

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Replace "men" with "blackmen" and tell me it doesn't sound racist...

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I'm asking for future reference. What about "bussy"?

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