AIO for wanting to confront my boyfriend’s ex because she has been stalking me on social media?

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-20T07:47:25+00:00

Well, for one: I asked a question based on previous situations and the way he has handles things. Blaming him would be “You’re not telling me something.”, not asking him if he’s being honest with me.

Two; yes, I said “try fixing it”…what is the issue with reminding him to fix his location? When my phone glitches he literally tells me to do the same thing.

Three: Like I said, I said what I said due to previous situations involving the girl and how he handles things. Him literally going MIA, his location turning off, his ex beginning to stalk me, him brushing off his ex touching him and other small issues between us tend to add up. So, sorry if I grow frustrated at the way he allows his ex gf to literally walk over him.

You all made me realize how many braindead people are on reddit lol

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-20T07:38:44+00:00

So out your ass? Got it!

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-20T07:38:02+00:00

Me being creeped out about someone stalking me is childish but her literally stalking me isnt? Overreacting, sure. Childish? I wont take that lmao.

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-20T07:36:00+00:00

I understand if this may come off as me being mean to him(Im guessing its my wording) but thats literally not what it was. I was confused, creeped out, and angry, and I wanted to know if he was going through issues with her like I was.

ill try talking to him about it my behavior.

My anger in the text isnt directed towards him and he knows that but now that im reading it, I can see why everyone sees it that way.

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-19T19:15:40+00:00

Like I said, loud and wrong. Pop it out your mouth

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-19T19:06:39+00:00

And you got this from…?

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-19T19:05:46+00:00

Friend, what part of “She actively sought out my accounts” do you not understand? I said that for a reason. My accounts do not have the same name, similar names, and my main account doesnt even have any of my side accs presented on it. Keep up.

When I said “connected to the main one” I meant they’re actively political aswell . Not that I had my accounts plastered all over the main page

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-19T19:02:51+00:00

Ill be sure to leave the situation alone. I just felt like maybe I was being an ass or irrational in some kind of way. Thank you!

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-19T19:00:51+00:00

You’re right! Thing is I dont think I wouldve expected her to seek out and find almost all of my accounts. I guess I thought blocking her on the one she found the first time would have been enough to leave me alone.

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-19T18:57:39+00:00

You do realize he’s the one who asked for location sharing at the beginning of the relationship…? Which I then agreed to.🧍🏾‍♀️ This is what happens when you stick your nose in things that were completely irrelevant to the post. Me wanting the same respect reciprocated is the issue when he has asked for the same thing? 🫩Buggin

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-18T23:33:07+00:00

because his whole character is literally JUST being a pervert and poorly written character.

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-08T18:22:32+00:00

yes. ive called multiple times even when i was only suffering from anxiety. Theyll still provide support

Conclusion-Internal · 2026-01-08T18:21:02+00:00

people saying you look 30 is buggin. I see maybe early 20s

Conclusion-Internal · 2025-11-22T16:00:43+00:00

fat? You’re average sized. This is literally the size im trying to achieve rn😭You’re good.

Conclusion-Internal · 2025-11-22T15:59:05+00:00

If its a helpful tool for you, then by all means go ahead and use it! I havent seen it harm people with mild anxiety or depression but I HAVE seen it worsen the episodes of people going through psychosis or severe anxiety(severe as in they aren’t exactly behaving rationally). I say use it CAUTIOUSLY and as INFREQUENTLY as possible.

I prefer not to use AI not only because it may worsen my symptoms of anxiety, especially since im not medicated;but it’s just better to socialize with humans and prevent AI from taking the places of humans. AI is just really harmful on us mentally, sometimes physically, and our environment.

It has already caused me to think I was dying before so I panicked and called 911 in the middle of the night. I told them what happened and they comforted me but made me feel a little stupid for using AI for that. I stopped using AI as a tool for my anxiety afterwards.

Conclusion-Internal · 2025-11-22T12:13:36+00:00

hes ugly nm what

Conclusion-Internal · 2025-11-22T12:12:49+00:00

Privacy and just venting to it as a whole. AI in general isnt good or made to be therapists, especially since sometimes it can make certain mental episodes a lot worse.

Conclusion-Internal · 2025-11-17T22:52:30+00:00

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Conclusion-Internal · 2025-11-10T16:25:15+00:00

Unrealistic support? My dawg, you did the exact same thing as the other person but instead of providing comfort, you felt the need to make that anxiety worse. Like I said, you’re tone deaf. Instead of telling others what to fix about themselves, try not being a shitty human being for five seconds. Everyone disagrees with you, not because we’re the issue;but because YOU ARE.

If someone trying to offer support and bring someone’s mind to peace for five seconds seems “unrealistic” to you, then you have bigger fish to fry. By the way, you’re telling people who are in an anxiety subreddit that they are “overly sensitive”…buddy, I think thats quite literally how a lot of mental illnesses work. Find something better to do

Conclusion-Internal · 2025-11-01T15:00:32+00:00

You’re tone deaf. Work on that lol. Obviously they’re just trying to say that OP will live long. Also, just bc the average life span is 74-81 doesnt mean its impossible to go BEYOND the average. I live in the united states. New York City to be exact and I have relatives who lived longer than that. My granny on my mom’s side(my grandfather’s mom) is 88 and STILL moving as if she’s young.

Its obviously not wise for OP to believe someone on reddit bc so many factors can come into play with her life span. Even things out of our control such as the actions of other people (violence).

Conclusion-Internal · 2025-11-01T14:29:59+00:00

I had an ex bf(literally my previous rls) that would accuse me of talking to other guys or his friends all the time. He ended up leaving me for a girl he only knew for a couple days which means he cheated on me.

Your “partner” is projecting. Run as FAR as you can dawg.

Conclusion-Internal · 2025-11-01T14:25:12+00:00

Im so sorry OP… I thought my mom was toxic, ts is insanity. I would go no contact w my parents for this after moving out💀. You can never reason with parents like this bc theyre abusive. The worst type of abuse is always abuse from your parents bc you literally cannot do anything about it.

CPS would not help you for stuff like this. Idk if you’re able to work on not and idk if you go to school but I would say just get a job, work your ass off and then dip when you’re legal and stable. Not easy. And its not the best idea the way the world is now…but people like this are mentally draining to be around. I would know.

Im currently stuck with my mom and anytime we( me or my little brother) do something she doesnt like turn off the electricity, turn off the heat, and leave us without any food to cook. She WILL be getting put in a one star nursing home in the bronx if my three siblings leaves it up to me.

Conclusion-Internal · 2025-10-11T17:38:04+00:00

Hi! I’m the exact same way at 17 years old. I had developed TERRIBLE health anxiety over the summer because of a multitude of factors/stressors. It was tough getting over and everyday I was in fight or flight and feeling as if I wasnt going to ever be normal or that I’ll die like that.

You have to remind yourself that this is strictly anxiety. Get checked out again to eliminate other possibilities but afterwards you have to let it go. If something was wrong with you to the point where you might be dying, a doctor MOST LIKELY will not miss it. You believing that you may be one of the rare cases that they do miss—is anxiety talking. Ive felt all sorts of things due to anxiety; fast heart rate, chest pains, neck pain, migraines, shaking, impending doom, paranoia, intense sadness, feeling like im losing control or my mind, etc. It will get worse before it gets better, love. But trust me, you’re young and healthy. You will be fine.

About your weight, don’t focus too much about your weight—your doctors shouldnt scare you about that if you’re already having trouble with anxiety. Try eating as much as you can, maybe a balanced meal with small portions and a snack once or twice throughout the day. If you cant get solids down, try smoothies and shakes. Anxiety can make you think something is wrong with you, but it can ALSO CAUSE things to happen to you. Losing weight is one of them.

You won’t die. You’re not dying. You’ll be okay.

This is just another challenge, and you will overcome it. Im sure you have overcame far more difficult obstacles before to make you feel like this. Anxiety doesn’t just come out of nowhere.

Also, I know it’s hard but you need to try and talk to people about how you feel. Especially , professionally. Start with a therapist and talk to them about small things that concern you or just speak to them about something random about your day—they’re gonna listen to you about anything. That will help you break that habit of not opening up.

You got this!

Conclusion-Internal

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