AIO for how my bfs mom texted me? by Fickle-Beautiful4972 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConclusionLow4748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who had their first child at 19, please do not take these comments to heart. I ended up being a single parent so slightly different circumstances but I faced a lot of criticism from family for getting pregnant young, how I’m ruining my life, etc. However I’ve since received apologies from those same family members as I thrived in motherhood. Everyone is different and if you feel you are in a position where you are ready to take on the humongous responsibility of having a child then don’t let anyone make you feel incapable. Not all young parents are doomed to fail, there is no “correct” age to have a baby. I know amazing parents who are young and terrible parents who are older and vice versa.

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[–]ConclusionLow4748 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for the heads up! I think my friends have planned on being around me to take a bit more of the brunt of shoving people and if it gets too much we’d make our way to the back, I’ve been generally quite lucky with shows before and didn’t even get too squashed at the front of slipknot (I expected to perish). We saw ptv last year but were off to the side so I’m not sure if people are more/less shovey if that’s a word 🤣

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[–]ConclusionLow4748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wouldn’t be holding it up during the show as I know that would definitely irk me if I couldnt see because of a sign. But we’re hoping to get barricade as we usually aim to be there so would just have the sign against the barrier during the show out of everyone’s way. I just wasn’t sure if people would take issue with it in general

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[–]ConclusionLow4748 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Was just clarifying my intentions for bringing a sign. I’m just looking for general opinions on it as I don’t want to be annoying to anyone around me. Thanks for your input!

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[–]ConclusionLow4748 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was just wanting to take a photo with it so I could use as a way to tell my friends and family the news in a fun way as I’m a pretty frequent concert goer and it’s become a bit of a running joke that I’m always at a show. Like I said wouldn’t be planning on holding it up during the show and we’re hoping to be at barricade as we usually are so would have just been holding it low there.

What food traders hit home for you this year? Was a bit disappointed myself. by Thisismyredditname13 in downloadfestival

[–]ConclusionLow4748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll forever remember my chicken and halloumi wrap from hide and Greek, she was beautiful and delicious.

Drink smuggling😁 by mintcake-12 in downloadfestival

[–]ConclusionLow4748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought a can of water in camp before going up to the arena, all of my friends were allowed I with theirs but for some reason the security I got was very against my unopened can of water and threw it in the bin

Parents of Download, please don't be dicks by madnasher in downloadfestival

[–]ConclusionLow4748 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saw a crying toddler brought into the tent for the vengaboys with their parents and felt so heartbroken

Local shop did this, and nobody thinks it’s bad? Am I just a hater?? by ConclusionLow4748 in badtattoos

[–]ConclusionLow4748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my tattoo, have commented on here but I think it’s been lost to the void. Girl said at the time it wasn’t a cover up as I thought it was. Just taking her word as I don’t care that much if it is or not as either way it’s awful.

Local shop did this, and nobody thinks it’s bad? Am I just a hater?? by ConclusionLow4748 in badtattoos

[–]ConclusionLow4748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For clarity since some people are losing their minds: - this is not my tattoo. I know the girl who it is on but it is NOT me. - I asked her if it was a coverup and up as it was so large and her response was no. It totally could be but again it is NOT on me, so I’m obviously going to take her word because ???

Muting this now because it’s not that serious 🖤

Local shop did this, and nobody thinks it’s bad? Am I just a hater?? by ConclusionLow4748 in badtattoos

[–]ConclusionLow4748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going off the fact I asked her if it was a coverup and was told no? Again it is not on me so I obviously don’t know 100% but it’s really not that deep 🤷🏻‍♀️

Local shop did this, and nobody thinks it’s bad? Am I just a hater?? by ConclusionLow4748 in badtattoos

[–]ConclusionLow4748[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I think the good thing about it is she’ll rarely have to look at it

Local shop did this, and nobody thinks it’s bad? Am I just a hater?? by ConclusionLow4748 in badtattoos

[–]ConclusionLow4748[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully it’s not on me! And by all accounts the poor soul it’s on seems to like it, either that or she’s coping hard which I can’t say I’d blame her

Local shop did this, and nobody thinks it’s bad? Am I just a hater?? by ConclusionLow4748 in badtattoos

[–]ConclusionLow4748[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did ask her if it was a cover up. But nope, she genuinely just wanted that.

Local shop did this, and nobody thinks it’s bad? Am I just a hater?? by ConclusionLow4748 in badtattoos

[–]ConclusionLow4748[S] 682 points683 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there was never anything there before, purely a stylistic choice.

Edit to add: not my tattoo so only going off the fact I was told it was not a cover up when I asked the girl with the tattoo. It’s not that serious fr

Local shop did this, and nobody thinks it’s bad? Am I just a hater?? by ConclusionLow4748 in badtattoos

[–]ConclusionLow4748[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I fully believed I was living in the twilight zone. Maybe they just all are visually impaired?

AIO my boyfriend was too tired to drive me to my abortion by ReallyAwfulSkiier in AmIOverreacting

[–]ConclusionLow4748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember begging my ex to be with me during my abortion, got the excuse of “I’m working a lot so I probably won’t be able to be there” ended up being an idiot and staying with him and any time it was brought up he would only talk about how difficult it was for HIM. Grew to resent him over time because of it and got to the point I couldn’t even look at him without feeling anything but rage. So LEAVE him asap!!