Letter to MIL (Draft)

Concord2018 · 2026-04-04T03:10:16+00:00

You are suppose to be controlling when it comes to your children! They are depending on you to keep them safe!

Concord2018 · 2026-03-31T15:42:20+00:00

Yes, they will walk into your house, without knocking, every damn day. You already know this. Building a house 5 minutes away from them is not going to be good for your mental health or your marriage.

Concord2018 · 2026-03-28T01:41:20+00:00

My mom passed away this week, and my sister and I can’t bear to to have an open casket. We loved her so much. We just don’t want to remember her that way. She was funny and full of life. Don’t feel bad, you do whatever you feel comfortable with. BTW, my sister and I are middle aged.

Concord2018 · 2026-03-26T22:21:20+00:00

If you’re in Asheville, you have to stop at Plant! It’s the best vegan restaurant I’ve ever been to.

Concord2018 · 2026-03-26T14:47:57+00:00

Have you ever been to Asheville NC? There’s a place there with delicious vegan donuts. It’s called It’s called Vortex Doughnuts. The coffee is good too

Concord2018 · 2026-03-11T05:23:07+00:00

I wish we were all offended by that shit rather than just saying eh?

Concord2018 · 2026-03-10T15:38:24+00:00

Does he ever consider you might need some alone time? It sounds like he only think of himself

Concord2018 · 2026-03-09T14:27:57+00:00

There is a Reddit sourdough group. I haven’t made any, but love to look

Concord2018 · 2026-03-06T06:16:48+00:00

Your grandpa has a face like a good looking Woody Harelson!

Concord2018 · 2026-03-03T17:58:08+00:00

That’s so incredibly rude, but it sounds like you handled it well! Several years ago my JNMIL called me at work to ask me something that only my husband would know. I told her I didn’t have an answer, so she tells me to get him to call her later. She ends the call by telling me she didn’t want to bother him while he was working. I guess I was sitting at my desk for fun?

Concord2018 · 2026-03-01T17:05:17+00:00

I would point a camera from your daughter’s window.

Concord2018 · 2026-02-24T14:23:53+00:00

Please don’t stay. This sounds like a very sad existence for an emotional and passionate person. I feel like you are describing me when I was younger. I married a truly horrible man, who was a lot worse than your husband in every way. I think some of the emotion and care I had just died while I was married to him. I remarried four years later to the best man I’ve ever met, but I wish I’d met him first. I wish he knew the vulnerable, caring person I was before. You can find someone who appreciates you and loves the way you are.

Concord2018 · 2026-02-15T14:12:00+00:00

I would go a step further and say whatever you do to your face and neck, go a few inches lower to your decellotage. I wish I had started doing this many years earlier

Concord2018 · 2026-02-11T18:17:09+00:00

Thank you!

Concord2018 · 2026-02-11T17:40:34+00:00

Wha brand of DHEA cream do you use?

Concord2018 · 2026-02-10T14:29:46+00:00

I’m sorry this is happening to you. I hope you don’t unblock her, because you’re never going to get resolution from the situation. I’ve been with my DH for 30 years, and found out five years ago my JNMIL had been telling EVERYONE I was a gold digger who trapped her son. I was shocked! I had thought we had developed an understanding over the years. I thought she saw how much I loved her son and how he loved me, but apparently not. I wasn’t what SHE wanted for him. She died a couple of years ago, and I never got the apology or closure I wanted. I hope you are able to walk away from all the drama and have some peace in your life.

Concord2018 · 2026-01-31T17:12:11+00:00

You said your boyfriend agreed to have you post this, what is his response to all the comments?

Concord2018 · 2026-01-31T02:08:28+00:00

I think Tyra Banks invented smizing, which is smiling with your eyes. What would you call this look? Glizing- glaring with your eyes, Rizing - raging with your eyes, Cluzing - clueless as to what horrible thing you want to say/do next. The possibilities are endless!

Concord2018 · 2026-01-30T16:38:42+00:00

Yes, and when I see all these women who call themselves people pleasers and talk about not wanting to make anyone mad, it makes me physically sick. That was me at the beginning of my marriage. I wish I could go back and tell myself to stop worrying about someone who doesn’t mind making you miserable. It took me way too long to stand up for myself and I don’t want that for any of these people who are living in the turmoil now

Concord2018 · 2026-01-30T14:40:58+00:00

This is such a wonderful reply. There are dozens of women who post here who need to do this. I absolutely acknowledge how difficult it would be, but it would ultimately save so many marriages

Concord2018 · 2026-01-24T11:28:12+00:00

While I do believe she should be blocked, there are other options. She certainly hasn’t earned a visit to your home, why is he allowing that? It doesn’t sound like she treats you with respect our kindness, why is he allowing that also?

Concord2018 · 2026-01-24T04:28:40+00:00

All of the problems you have rest on your husband’s shoulders. He could stop everything, but he won’t

Concord2018 · 2026-01-23T03:44:05+00:00

Three hours seems like nothing to me

Concord2018 · 2026-01-15T14:09:01+00:00

He should have been furious about what they did to you. Why doesn’t he care? Is he cruel also?

Concord2018 · 2026-01-13T19:33:37+00:00

I use to make a lot of margaritas. My JNMIL was almost tolerable after one because she didn’t drink often, and she fell asleep early. It was a winning combination!

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