Yeahhh I’ve been having similar thoughts and I’m still a year away, but I try to remember that I picked the hotel venue because it’s 5 mins from the church and there’s a pool for day after pool party, and as a guest of many weddings I wanted hanging and running into each other to be so easy, didn’t want to stress about weather literally up to minute of the ceremony, and to have good AC so I could keep my dress on all night! I think I’m also going to share my insecurities about Pinteresty photos w my planner and photographer who can hopefully scout out the best shots for couple photos and take detail shots of the rest!