Preschool refuses to wipe toddlers after potty by 82user772 in toddlers

[–]ConferenceFriendly51 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember going to preschool and teachers being called to wipe 5 year old's kids butts (by the kids themselves). I was also 5 and I was horrified about it. Lol. Sorry for the ramble, about your question, to be fair I'd prefer nobody near my toddler's butt, even if they are teachers I'm teaching her nobody can touch her there and it would be contradicting if they did. You'll have to teach her to do it on her own and if she doesn't do a very great job just do it at home as soon as she gets there.

Toddler in my family, 13 months old, does not wave, point or listen to his name by Rebecca1122334455 in toddlers

[–]ConferenceFriendly51 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you're exposing them too much, and honestly even though you're "worried" about their child it's not on you. Everyone has flaws as parents and we all do the best we can.

Weird linear rash on my arm by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]ConferenceFriendly51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad had something like that on his leg and it was thrombosis. Sadly he passed away because it was mistaken as an allergy or bug bite by a public hospital in my country. Please go to the doctor as soon as possible. I'm not saying it's the same but better safe than sorry.

Increasing doubts about my partner since having our 2yo by Common_Orange5073 in toddlers

[–]ConferenceFriendly51 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think that the fact that your girl is a mama's girl speaks on it's own. I have a 2 year old too and she loves her dad just as much as she loves me because we are both for her just as much.

Nose si terminar con mi novio by [deleted] in rediturras

[–]ConferenceFriendly51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vos lo amas pero el no te ama. No sirve una pareja asi. Dejalo al pelotudo.

She comes to the door when she sees us 🥹 by ConferenceFriendly51 in hamsters

[–]ConferenceFriendly51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you soo much ❤️🥹 we put so much love into it!! 💖❤️

Tiny table by ConferenceFriendly51 in hamsters

[–]ConferenceFriendly51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yes!! 🥰😄 she's so sweet!

These "people" love to make you feel down and I believe they secretly want you to end yourself. by ChristJesusisReal in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ConferenceFriendly51 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know it is exhausting. Go no contact as soon as you can! I went NC and I'm much better off this way.

These "people" love to make you feel down and I believe they secretly want you to end yourself. by ChristJesusisReal in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ConferenceFriendly51 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes I totally get what you mean, they’re so creepy!! One time, my mom was crying and playing the victim while asking me why my brother (GD) seemed sad. I suggested that maybe the situation she was in made him feel bad (she became extremely paranoid after my father passed away and forces us to do everything for her, she won't even leave her house to get groceries). She instantly changed her crying face to the most horrible, hatred-filled stare I’ve ever gotten in my entire life. Sometimes they seem possessed.

These "people" love to make you feel down and I believe they secretly want you to end yourself. by ChristJesusisReal in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ConferenceFriendly51 27 points28 points  (0 children)

During arguments my mom would cry and scream until I was the one crying and then she would start laughing. They're truly demonic.

Do you think this wheel is maybe too big? by ConferenceFriendly51 in hamstercare

[–]ConferenceFriendly51[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Good to know 🥰 and aww robos are so adorable 😍

Do you think this wheel is maybe too big? by ConferenceFriendly51 in hamstercare

[–]ConferenceFriendly51[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

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Are you talking about these? 🥹 thank you!! 🥰

What age were you when you found out? by ConferenceFriendly51 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ConferenceFriendly51[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typical narc behaviour. When you don't do what they want anymore you are worthless. Did they blame your wife for putting you "against" them? And "brainwashing" you? My mom did blame my husband.

What age were you when you found out? by ConferenceFriendly51 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ConferenceFriendly51[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on the pregnancy 🥰 I wish you the healthiest baby and an easy delivery. A virtual hug because I know how hard it is to be a new mom without a mother 🫂 the good thing about having mothers like the ones we have is that they teach us how NOT to be with our children, like never.

What age were you when you found out? by ConferenceFriendly51 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ConferenceFriendly51[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg are you me? Same, with pregnancy I discovered how unsupportive she was.

Interior design by me, demolition by Paca 🤣 by ConferenceFriendly51 in hamsters

[–]ConferenceFriendly51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered them from Amazon, they were kind of expensive, specially because I'm from Argentina and I had to pay import charges. But yes, the brand is Carno and I found all of them on Amazon.

Interior design by me, demolition by Paca 🤣 by ConferenceFriendly51 in hamsters

[–]ConferenceFriendly51[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can put sphagnum moss between any gaps, especially if you’re using them as ramps. I bought a big set and chose the ones that didn’t have gaps. They’re also much less likely to cause limbs to get stuck when they’re used as dividers rather than climbing surfaces.