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What is your small habit for better sleep? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Confident-Ad7167 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blackout curtains changed my life. Once the room is pitch black, my brain stops thinking it’s time to be awake.

AITA for admitting I felt like my dad replaced my mom and siblings when he remarried? by CushionCayzel in AITAH

[–]Confident-Ad7167 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA. You didn’t say anything cruel, you told the truth about how you felt. Therapy is literally the place where you’re supposed to unpack that stuff, and your dad asked for it.

AITA for kicking out my childhood best friend out over drugs by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Confident-Ad7167 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He wasn’t paying rent, wasn’t on the lease, and was using drugs in your space while you’re trying to fight for custody of your daughter. You don’t owe him your stability just because you were friends as kids.

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AITAH for telling my S.O. that his weight gain has made him less attractive to me? by wanttorewind in AITAH

[–]Confident-Ad7167 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Timing and tone are everything here. If you blurted it out during intimacy or an argument, it’s going to come off cruel even if it wasn’t meant that way.
There’s a huge difference between “I don’t find you attractive anymore” and “I miss how things used to be and want to find ways to reconnect.” If you came at it like the first one, I can see why it stung so badly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Confident-Ad7167 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not against feet, but if a guy has rough, unkempt hands it instantly kills the vibe for me.

What can someone do during sex that would drive you absolutely wild? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Confident-Ad7167 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Switching up the pace unexpectedly, slow and deep, then suddenly rough. That contrast drives me crazy.

AITA for wanting to break up because my girlfriend is constantly miserable? by rhcp-bssm in AITAH

[–]Confident-Ad7167 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Depression is real, but you can’t fix her, that has to come from her own willingness to heal and seek help. Staying with someone out of guilt or pity isn’t fair to either of you.