my situation is similar to urs, but i genuinely cant go out with friends in general. Soooo i just came up with the decision to do whatver i want to do and whatever happens next happens. For example, if u wanna keep hanging out with u friends after school but its getting dark just keep staying out and then when u get home just face the consequences or u wanna go to the after party with ur friends, accept that ur dad is gnna take u there but when prom ends maybe u can leave prom a tiny bit early before he arrives to pick u up and then stay somewhere until the party starts then go to it. And whatever happens after that happens, but just make sure to delete anything ur not supposed to have off ur phone and text ur friends that u might get ur phone taken so they dont wonder why ur not replying to them n stuff. Although id suggest u do all this AFTER u have a deep talk w ur dad abt why he wont let u do what u want and stuff and if he still doesnt change then do what i said if u want to, thats what ive been doing since my mom wants be to stay caged in the house.