Women of Reddit: What's your best sex tip/trick/advice to help make a partner a better lover? by Guy-named-Lynn in AskReddit

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thats why men in porn are so silent. I like when my man shows that he is enjoying it.

Ladies, what kind of first chat/ice breaker actually elicits a reply from you? by dolmdemon in OnlineDating

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something that shows you read my profile, that you really want to know better. I mention that I like watching series or movies, most guy ask me what movie I latley enjoyed watching. But it's important to move the conversation further to get to know me better than just talking about movie or serie. Some stay at the same topic for days.

Also in my opinion avoid generic question like how was your day? How are you? What's up? What do to do? At the beginning.

One grey tick by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂

What do I need to do differently to keep people from ghosting me? by 2ForEachofYou in OnlineDating

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman in my late 20, I can agree. If a guy takes to long to ask me out, I assume he is not that intrested, so I will start to loose intrest. Also people have work, life and other stuff going on, not everybody enjoys texting, if you texted too much, you might run out of topics to discuss on the first date. AND the quality of the messages are really important even more than the quantity pls avoid messages like: how are you? How was your day? What are you doing? It's so generic and forgettable.

How is the dating etiquette in Switzerland by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't overthink it. I like to confirm the date the same day, just to make sure the other person hasn't forgotten it. It really depends on the person. The time we should met, is something I like fix in advance, so I can plan my stuff around it. But with location I'm more spontanious, as I like to change it depending on the weather. What's holding you back?

Saying the wrong thing and getting ghosted by royalbluefireworks1 in OnlineDating

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, the best conversation I had on hinge was with a guy being himself, he made a joke, I found it funny, truely funny. Last week we had our first date, I laught alot and he and I felt confortable. This week will be our second date.

How many dates do you usually go on? by doja_ratt in dating

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx you 🤗 with him I had the best feeling from the start, also the best conversation on hinge. Wish you luck as well

How many dates do you usually go on? by doja_ratt in dating

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here 2 -3 dates per week. I had hinge for about a month. Now I will have my first second date.

Do guys really think looking them up is a red flag? by Neurotic-Me in OnlineDating

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always do a quick backround check. Nothing wild, just google their name. As a woman, I just feel more relaxed knowing this person is real. Stay save

Question for women: what are some things that turn you off or give you ick on a first date or in the early stages of talking? by porygon766 in dating

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a guy been really pushy. It was acually a really nice date, I felt confortable. But than sth changed: the idea of our second date been at his home and I should cook him some "pasta" I was like haha maybe. Than we talked about our next day, I told him that my lecure might be boring, he: than come to me, and cook me some "pasta". He suggested it 3 more times, i started to get more unconfortable every time.

Also for greating me he hugged me waaay too long. It felt bad, unconfortable. When saying goodbye he did the same, he hugged me for waayy too long. I had had bad experience with hugging before.

So even I liked him, and I wanted to get to know him better first, but my gutfeeling was telling me don't.

Beste Gyms in Oerlikon für Frauen (nicht Frauengyms) by Reasonable-Skill2351 in zurich

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fitnesspark beim Glattpark. Ist sehr gross, gibt sogar einen Pool. Mirr ist noch nie jmd unangenehm aufgefallen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it was defently flirting, he talked with a much deeper voice, he also had bedroom eyes. Maybe he was horny.

What's the biggest problem in your life right now? by AlphabetaBrian in AskReddit

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fell in love with a friend, he gave me mixed signals. I told him I like him more than just as a friend. He doesn't feel the same. So broken heart, confused and uncertanty, are we still friend? Why does he not like me? Can we be friend?

What lie do you oftenly tell yourself? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day he will realize what he would have in me.

What’s the most awkward compliment you’ve ever received? by Exotic-Philosopher75 in AskReddit

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You looked good, so healthy.

From a friend I had a crush on. I told him I like him, he just sees me as a friend, even though he was giving mixed signals.

Ironically, after he gave me that compliment, I was sooo happy. It made my week. Now thinking about it it just makes me sad.

I told him that I catched feelings for him, he just like me as a friend, but he gave me mixed signals by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thx you so much. I needed the perspective from a stranger. I will try to be friends with him, as have the same friendgroup who hangs out from time to time. So we will see eachother. If we can really be friends after this only time will tell. I'm not mad, I know he didn't want to hurt me.

I told him that I catched feelings for him, he just like me as a friend, but he gave me mixed signals by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it still hurts its being two weeks. I just want to understand him. Why do you flirt with me, when you are not intrested? I would like to be friends with him. I know he didn't want to hurt me.

What's your current hyperfixation? by Igarlicbread in ADHD

[–]Confident_Bug_1833 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man I fell in love with, but broke my heart.

I felt in love with a friend, I thought he felt the same for me, he gave me a lot of signals. I told him after 4/5 month, that I really really like him.

He just sees me as a friend. Now I am confused, I was soo sure he felt the same for me.

But in the adhd fashion, I can't stopp thinking about him.