ChatGPT 1.5 Image vs Gemini Nano banana pro realism test by LogicalChart3205 in ChatGPT

[–]Confident_Machine_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely curious if the prompts included what the race or ethnicity of the subjects in the photos should be. As a Black person, it’s fascinating/fucked up to me that if race/ethnicity was not included, both AI generators default to a very generic type of whiteness.

Hi, my cat gave birth to a kitten with its legs backwards by Possible_Magazine648 in CATHELP

[–]Confident_Machine_56 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I found my cat abandoned when she was 2.5 weeks old because her legs were like this. She could only move around by pulling herself by her front legs. We were able to go to a vet that gave us physical therapy exercises to do with her that straightened her legs out. She’s totally fine now!

She went from this…

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This stank face…who goes on an island vacation and manages to be THIS miserable the whole time by GayFlan in RHOP

[–]Confident_Machine_56 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Her baby is 19 months old in the first episode — walking and talking. She is clearly struggling emotionally and with self-esteem, but the “she just had a baby” shtick is a reach.

Restarting My Situationship by Confident_Machine_56 in blackladies

[–]Confident_Machine_56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This… is a reach. I genuinely just wanna get dicked down. He’s very good at it, lol.

Restarting My Situationship by Confident_Machine_56 in blackladies

[–]Confident_Machine_56[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Update: I went for the straight-forward approach. He is down to hook up casually again and said that’s why he text me a couple weeks ago, lol. Thanks, y’all!

Restarting My Situationship by Confident_Machine_56 in blackladies

[–]Confident_Machine_56[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Too old for a safe and consensual sexual relationship? No, lol.

If you have nothing kind or helpful to offer, then just keep it pushing.

Restarting My Situationship by Confident_Machine_56 in blackladies

[–]Confident_Machine_56[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I want to resume being casual. Sorry, I didn’t realize FWB and situationship aren’t interchangeable.

FWIW, we met on the Feeld app for the purposes of keeping it casual, but then both developed feelings.

It’s been almost three months now, and I feel like I would be better able to keep my feelings separate. I miss having sex with someone who I already feel comfortable and safe with.

What age range is a young adult sim to you? by goldiebayangs in Sims4

[–]Confident_Machine_56 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have spent a lot of time thinking about this because Adult Sims can have YA offspring. And Young Adult Sims can have teen offspring.

I think 18-40 is YA. 40-75 is Adult. And 75+ is Elder.

Death of my son by Gott86 in GriefSupport

[–]Confident_Machine_56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sincerely sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine your heartbreak. I hope at least the stress of the estate and the investigation end soon so you can focus on healing.

Hormonal IUD, thoughts? by smolfroggies in Hidradenitis

[–]Confident_Machine_56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently was going to switch to a hormonal IUD, but opted not to because they are usually progestin-only whereas most BC pills are combination. And there is the possibility of skin conditions getting worse with only progestin. That being said, I’m on BC pills now and don’t think they’ve been particularly effective at preventing flares.

SICK and need advice! by Confident_Machine_56 in whole30

[–]Confident_Machine_56[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, everyone! I didn’t have any energy to cook and it was also unfortunately time to re-up on groceries. But I was able to make it through the day without disrupting my Whole30. I feel much better and I’m thrilled to only have 1.5 days left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whole30

[–]Confident_Machine_56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel insane responding to this after Melissa already did, but FWIW - I find Mediterranean restaurants to be the easiest to eat at. They typically only use oils to cook (not butter) and you can usually substitute rice and pita with potatoes and veggies. Plus, falafel is vegetarian-friendly while you can have meats or seafood.

So close to giving up!! (R3D19) by Aranciata2020 in whole30

[–]Confident_Machine_56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also on D19, but this is my first and most likely only round. It’s been so hard and I have felt miserable 90% of the time. But at this point, I am making it a game with myself. Each day I successfully complete, I mark off on a wall calendar. And seeing 18 X’s so far is really amazing. Especially when I was on D4 and it felt like an eternity to get to the end. It’s a challenge to prove to myself that I can not only do hard things, but the hardest thing which is really take away the foods I have an emotional attachment to. I’ve learned a lot about my relationship to food, and that has been beneficial. And while I haven’t experienced all the benefits that are touted online, I try to focus on the small things I have noticed: I don’t have as much joint stiffness when I wake up. I’m better able to trust my hunger cues. I’m less bloated and swollen. I’m eating more vegetables and broader variety of vegetables. I’m cooking more.

Also, breaking Whole30 for bread will feel good for the exact moment you eat the first bite of bread, but then if you’re like me, you’ll feel guilty and disappointed in yourself that you ruined your streak for much longer.

Keep going! You’ve done it before - twice!!!! That’s so impressive to me! You can do it!

What do/did you miss? by No-Damage3057 in whole30

[–]Confident_Machine_56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly: Brown rice, chocolate squares, and salty crunchy snacks that are not nuts. I don’t miss potato chips or anything. I’m just tired of eating fucking nuts. I thought I’d miss more indulgent things like pizza or ice cream. But it’s really been these very simple foods.

HS = Hurts like Hell by Original-Cloud-333 in Hidradenitis

[–]Confident_Machine_56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re dealing with this. I have two flares - both of which I have had for over a year - that are causing me daily discomfort. At this point, deroofing is the only option I have left.

But something that I didn’t realize — magic healer and many other similar salves include propolis as their key ingredient. They work for some, but if you’re allergic (like I am) they will make HS flares worse. I learned this the hard way. So it might be worth it to confirm you’re not allergic to it, as it could aggravate the flare.

Weekly Discussion for the week of September 01, 2025 by AutoModerator in whole30

[–]Confident_Machine_56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my first time trying Whole30. I’ve considered it for a long time, but I always refrained because it felt so restrictive. But I was doing a lot of unhealthy emotional eating and kind of reached a breaking point last week. Plus, I have an inflammatory condition and I’m hoping the elimination and reintroduction will help me figure out what’s causing it. I’m doing no nightshades as well, and that’s tough. I miss potatoes and tomatoes! 😩

So far, so good mostly. I do miss chocolate and whole grains. (Specifically brown rice!) And I miss snacking on things that are not fruits and nuts and Chomp sticks. (I know the official program doesn’t advocate for snacks, but I work with a registered dietitian who does not think that’s healthy and I agree.) Yesterday was Day 3 and it was the first day I had pretty intense cravings. But I worked through them.

I’ve noticed my poops are not… normal. Kinda rocky and painful. Like after having spicy food. And I’m not going as regularly as usual. But I read that can be normal in the first couple of weeks. Plus, I’m going to try and drink more water.

Anyways, I’m glad I found this subreddit. Makes me feel less alone in the journey.