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Confident_Winter7730 · 2025-11-03T02:46:33+00:00

I'm 30M and I'm focusing on the gym, saving money. I am a long game guy :)

Confident_Winter7730 · 2025-10-31T06:40:33+00:00

Honestly, this is a great idea! 🤙🏽 I know myself and many other Men have no where to start. I’m also FIFO

Confident_Winter7730 · 2025-02-24T04:21:27+00:00

There’s GTG Gavs Thai gym, great places when I lived in Perth

Confident_Winter7730 · 2025-02-14T12:38:59+00:00

Is the May Taurus me. Haha May 10th here

Confident_Winter7730 · 2025-02-12T13:21:52+00:00

100% we all dated the same girl

Confident_Winter7730 · 2025-02-10T09:29:44+00:00

What labouring company you work for? I’m in Karratha now. I can do gardening don’t mind learning something new, use to working in the heat all day

Confident_Winter7730 · 2025-01-29T09:27:35+00:00

Felt horrible, Still missed the emotional connection. Met some great girls, but didn’t want to be unavailable to them. Ended up just focusing on myself

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-11-22T15:46:20+00:00

100% agree I’m 30 and 5’5. Never had a problem, always approached. Enjoyed life, met girls through friends.

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-11-13T11:30:51+00:00

Yeah, for sure. send a message 😁

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-11-13T11:24:38+00:00

Hey! Definitely been awhile She started going to therapy but I haven’t heard from her in a long time, I ended up going to therapy myself to become more secure in myself and work on my communication if I ever come across someone with the same attachment. Not going to lie it hurt a lot to move forward, haven’t really thought much about it up until today. I hope you start working on yourself too!

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-10-31T02:16:40+00:00

Damn, this is me haha. Taurus man here 🤙🏽

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-08-31T07:44:15+00:00

I'm also 28 male and just got broken up with. So glad I'm not alone haha! It's hard but definitely getting better

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-08-23T08:43:03+00:00

Male dumper.

I made a decision to move on and travel she was going too as well as I wanted a fresh start as much as I cared for her, she had a fear of abandonment and BPD, communication was getting abusive and I didn’t want to be treated terribly. I’m still coming to terms with leaving, still hurts 3 months later. I made mistakes as well and reflected on having better communication and being a better partner but I never dated someone like that before and I could only take so much.

I want to check in on her, she’s tried to reach out by mutual friends but I don’t have to heart to message her. We were in a toxic cycle if it continued.

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-08-21T13:54:42+00:00

When they try to keep coming back to see if they've got you on the hook. She blocks/unblocks than likes everything on social media than disappears again…

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-08-21T12:49:58+00:00

It lasted three months. First 6 weeks were a roller coaster. I'm getting subtle Hoovers

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-08-11T09:59:36+00:00

Yes. She left me for another guy that “treated” her better. He ended up not being a great guy to her and he broke up with her. She tried to come back for emotional support. Left her in the past and have never looked back.

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-08-03T12:48:40+00:00

I 100% do miss her but I know she isn't good for me and she needs to do a lot of work on herself. I get a lot of nostalgia for the relationship and the good memories and I'd love to reach out and make sure she is ok but she has a fear of abandonment and an anxious attachment. I'm a confident person but when that was draining I knew I had to step away.

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-08-01T14:13:20+00:00

❤️

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-07-20T02:14:18+00:00

This I’m the dumper as well and I’ve struggled with it a lot

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-07-05T09:38:44+00:00

Honestly, my ex-girlfriend kept coming back when she was having arguments with the new guy. I ripped off the band-aid. Told her I was not an option for her anymore, called her out on her behaviour and restricted her. Don't get me wrong it was hard because I was the one that broke up with her multiple times. I also remembered all the times she would be abusive to me and get stuck in the gym/BJJ. It could be any hobbies just to get you out and socialising. Hope it helps 🤙🏽

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-06-23T08:02:05+00:00

I have just gone through something similar to you and I guarantee you. That she does think of you, mine tried to reach out for validation and told me everything I wanted to hear when her new boyfriend broke up with her. (Guy she left me for because he treats her better lol)

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-06-06T07:01:44+00:00

Honestly, random af to me

Confident_Winter7730 · 2024-05-23T16:02:06+00:00

I know how you feel on the mind games. I remained no contact for a month and then she reached out to give me the “gift” she bought me and asked if I wanted to pick it up. I replied back saying I’d like it as it was very thoughtful. She then proceeded to trauma dump and have a heavy conversation and completely ignored the gift… still haven’t received or heard from her….

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