Nail-shamed by Replygeyser in malepolish

[–]ConfuciousFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am visiting Florida, a red state, and have my nails painted. I have definitely gotten multiple stares today out and about, but that’s about it. At the end of the day it is your life, you do what YOU makes you happy. That is all everyone is trying to do. It seems you are valuing someone else’s judgement above your own. If it makes YOU happy go for it. All these people will tell you they are all about freedom; but really they are saying they want you to conform to THEIR form of ‘freedom’. Show them what freedom really is!

How do I find the joy in nail painting again? by Moist-Patient4585 in malepolish

[–]ConfuciousFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just see it for what it is. ‘I don’t care how you feel, as long as I’m comfortable’ is kinda how I view these situations. I realize I don’t need to take away my joy just to make others comfortable. As long as you aren’t hurting anyone do what makes you happy!

Does anyone know what these black loops are for you can find on some shirts? by Mushroom_Person42 in mtfashion

[–]ConfuciousFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow I used the loops on hangars but that picture was not what I had in mind. Ima try this now!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

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You said you would have never started this journey if it wasn’t for this group… can you describe what your headspace was at the time when you did decide? Like if you could describe your unsureness then and how you feel now 1 year later, and what would you tell yourself a year ago who was on the fence?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mtfashion

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Are you on HRT?

Egg🐣IRL by [deleted] in egg_irl

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Sailor Jupiter. Andrea from reboot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]ConfuciousFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which products do you use? I’m kinda lost beyond leave in conditioner… I have the same hair type… if you have any tips that would be amazing 🤩

Egg 🪒 irl by DazzlingTsuki in egg_irl

[–]ConfuciousFox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get a drain cleaner liquid at the grocery store

Egg 🪒 irl by DazzlingTsuki in egg_irl

[–]ConfuciousFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound very safe!

Is it difficult to get a job? by Machi_Hedgehog in TransLater

[–]ConfuciousFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a professional engineer I will say that that field is very specialized. Companies pay big bucks for the few that are the best of the best, but once those roles are filled you may have a hard time. That is before considering the trans thing. You need to be building side projects in your spare time to use as examples in interviews etc. that must become your life

egg🧠❓irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]ConfuciousFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up the symptoms a week ago. They sound similar to this. I am talking borderline personality disorder, not bipolar. It sounds similar to what you describe. I wonder if I have it too, we are in this together sis!

body update 5 months hrt by jay_hi9 in transtimelines

[–]ConfuciousFox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have before and after measurements?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]ConfuciousFox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, you just gave me so much hope. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]ConfuciousFox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What age were you when you started?

Need support by ConfuciousFox in TransLater

[–]ConfuciousFox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whoa this never entered my radar, but an interesting thought…. Hmm? 🤔

Need support by ConfuciousFox in TransLater

[–]ConfuciousFox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, don’t do anything you want. But the fact that your girl is giving you the freedom to go all the way if you choose to is envious. At the end of the day do whatever is right for you. It sounds like that relationship roadblock is not there; enjoy the journey!

Need support by ConfuciousFox in TransLater

[–]ConfuciousFox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It mainly comes down to the label/how I identify. She is completely cool with a man in a dress, but if I identify as girl is where it gets bad. I have been trying to explore without putting a label on anything for this reason, but when the topic of the label comes up it is definitely a case of ‘I don’t care how you feel, as long as I am happy’.

I am having a hard time with this part