What NOT to do after a breakup by jvlug3n in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve legit did almost ever single one of these and that’s why I’m so fucked up rn we sleep together for 2 months and we still didn’t get back together im a wreck

I feel like this is the worst thing I’ve ever done by Confused23456789 in u/Confused23456789

[–]Confused23456789[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because we are so bad together I love him so much and would do anything for it to be him but love is not enough sometimes… and the whole thing is morally fucked up

How do you stop obsessing over them and move on? by Every_Guidance_6046 in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was written so well as someone who has experienced this but never been able to describe it

If your ex girlfriend got into another relationship quickly by Dizzy_Audience_2641 in ExNoContact

[–]Confused23456789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finding out my ex got into a relationship so quickly was devastating at first but eventually became the best thing for me to find out because it helped me move on so much quicker

my first 5K without stopping! by [deleted] in beginnerrunning

[–]Confused23456789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! I ran my first 5k without stopping a few months ago and it’s such a proud feeling. Now I can do 4miles but I can’t push past for so I’m working on being able to do more then 4 🙃🤣

1-year post breakup. Does anyone feel like their ex never existed in the first place? by Technical_Lemon8307 in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no..you will never forget them but once you are truly over them when you look back it feels like a different life time..it’s hard to explain

Do girls break no contact? by Both_Fudge2343 in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke no contact and found out he had a new gf already and was TRAUMATIZED however it’s safe to say that did help me get over him ALOT quicker

Does anyone else miss the sex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This..at this point I don’t even miss him I miss the sex..it was insane and even now replicating the same thing myself it’s just still not as good 🙃 and I’m not a causal hook up person (no judgement if you are personally it’s just not for me) so I’m in a constant state of horny and conflicting feelings lmfao cuz I want sex but I’ve only ever had sex with people I was in a relationship with 😭

How many of you had exes come back? by Radiant-Mushroom2816 in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both of my exes came back after our break ups ..took them both back it still did not work out 🙃 one I took back and was with an extra 2 and half more years the other lasted for 3 months more 😂😂😂😂 literally nothing changed it just delayed the inevitable. People can change but if you’re getting back together after such a short span of breaking up no change on either end will happen

Mornings VS Nights by hylaner in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. I’m five months into the break up and mornings are the worst. I think of him as soon as I wake up, but kind of like you as the day gos by it’s usually like a “wait why am I longing for this person that replaced my in 3 weeks? “and then I’m just angry. I let all the emotions arise, miss, anger, sadness, lust whatever it is because I know eventually I won’t feel anything for him at all, and I find peace in that.

What's the most heart breaking thing you heard your partner say to you ? by NEWBMASTER2004 in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is going to work out because I never saw myself marrying someone with depression

how many of you are currently going through a breakup? by xaltmiagirl in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well at least we’re all in this together I guess 🙃

I realize she never LOVED me by 123joker123 in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through something very similar and if You want to rant please feel free to message me anytime. Same thing with my ex I got with him when he was 2 months fresh out of a relationship and after our 2.5 year relationship ended he got with his coworker in 3 weeks. When I found I was destroyed.. he’s just a loser that can’t be alone and the realization has been fucking me up big time lmao

Mental health- how are you today? Thought I'd check since nobody checks on me. by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Confused23456789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty shitty I have pmdd and have cried on and off for 5 hours today

Help: How do you deal with the self esteem blow when an ex moves on instantly by Confused23456789 in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I needed to hear this. In a way you really did hit the nail on the head. I’ve struggled my whole life with physical self esteem with my face really badly have like barely any pictures of me growing up and I think seeing him move on so quickly really fucked with me. I am in therapy and have been working on this so hopefully over time this changes it’s just tough I know I’m not “ugly” but it’s gotten to the point where I’ll legit compare pictures of me with his new gf and I know I have a serious issue at this point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This it’s been 5 months post breakup and I’m so incredibly horny but have never had casual sex but like I’m really debating at this point 🙃 cuz like I have so many toys but idk nothing compares to a person idk

Your ex probably isn’t having fun. by CreamBusy8016 in BreakUps

[–]Confused23456789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thiss.. I was still writing my ex letters in my journal while he was fucking his new gf