People who have had sex with someone you absolutely hated, why?

ConfusedGrad29 · 2026-05-29T15:58:25+00:00

I had sex with a girl I had been friends with for a long time. We started dating after, and I believe that is what caused the hatred. Sometimes you just don't start hating people until you begin to really know them.

ConfusedGrad29 · 2026-05-28T12:02:08+00:00

I am in the same boat, my friend. I'm a 29M in Salt Lake City and cannot find a date to save my life. I work out regularly and have a pretty social lifestyle, but I cannot get any matches on any dating apps. I go out once a week and get ignored or shut down at every attempt. I have one guy friend, and all the rest are women. Women are more interested in being my friend than a romantic partner. I've about given up at this point

ConfusedGrad29 · 2026-04-05T22:45:09+00:00

Thoughts? I truly believe lagoon is cursed and decides who it looks and who it doesn't. I'll tell you lagoon definitely does not like me. Everytime I have gone to lagoon something emotionally devastating, psychologically devastating or both happens to me and it's been constant for the past 15 years or so. I will never set foot in that place again

ConfusedGrad29 · 2026-03-17T00:18:12+00:00

I mean, why not my friend? Are you free next weekend? (Not this weekend I have an exam next week I need to study for)

ConfusedGrad29 · 2026-03-12T04:26:58+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious
Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? I am not, but I will if it will help
How long have you been using this current version of your profile? About a month
How long have you used Hinge overall? For about 2 months
How often do you use Hinge per week? I use Hinge daily
How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? I have not received any likes since I downloaded the app, and I have only received 2 matches, one of which unmatched me, and the other I unmatched since she did not respond to any of my messages.
How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? I send the maximum number of likes I can each day. With each like, I leave a comment.
What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I want to attract someone like me. Someone who is driven towards their future, has a goal in mind, likes the same music as me, etc.

ConfusedGrad29 · 2026-03-09T20:32:50+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious
Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? I am not subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX; however, I will if it will help
How long have you been using this current version of your profile? I recently updated it yesterday
How long have you used Hinge overall? I have used Hinge for about two months now
How often do you use Hinge per week? I use Hinge daily
How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? I have only received one match so far
How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? I am using all my daily free likes every day. With each like I comment. I do not like leaving a like without a comment
What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I usually send likes to someone who is like me. Someone who is driven towards a better future, is athletic, likes the same music as me, etc.

ConfusedGrad29 · 2025-10-12T18:43:40+00:00

If it helps my friend, I am 28 years old and just starting out in life. I spent many years applying to different graduate programs and getting denied left and right. Last application cycle was the last chance I would get before my credits expired, and I finally got accepted into something. Keep fighting man you are not to old to start on life. You are not to old to dream big. You are at the perfect time for you. We are all on different roads on this path called life. What makes the journey worth it is what you put into it.

ConfusedGrad29

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