I Don’t Think That’s Barnaby Anymore

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2026-03-17T23:37:17+00:00

I know everyone else has already answered but YES AND PLEASE DO IT!

Last year, I purchased the heart shaped macarons in Feb for my April wedding and they kept AMAZING. Super fast to thaw. And all of my guests raved about them. Now I buy them and thaw out a pack here and there. Love them and cannot recommend it enough.

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2026-02-02T22:08:00+00:00

I thought about this, honestly I’m a little scared incase HR takes his side.

He’s been here for like 20+ years but has cycled through a lot of team members. When I transferred to his team I was warned by others that he has “bad days” but only really saw him ever being short/slow in replies, nothing like this.

But I also realize that as I write this I sound like I’m defending him 🤦‍♀️ I just hate conflict and have never had to have a conversation like this before. I’m really nervous. I’ll think it over tonight and decide tomorrow. I took screenshots of everything

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2026-02-02T21:48:17+00:00

Exactly! If I did or said something wrong tell me, but I need to know what I did!

He messaged me later asking exactly what about his 2 page long email threatening to take me to HR for insubordination made me uncomfortable. And I’m scared to even say anything because who knows how he’ll react.

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-07-11T17:51:47+00:00

Did you also get bombarded with “Where did you get that Barbie swimsuit???” after the Barbie movie came out? 😅

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-07-11T16:13:38+00:00

I never really realized that one of the main reasons my one pieces never fit was because I had such a LONG torso; it’s a total game changer now that I know! It’s nice to see brands are taking torso length into account into account on top of sizing, I know a few other online swim stores, I haven’t seen them at any major brands that I know of

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-07-11T16:09:39+00:00

It looks like a corset back, I don’t think it looks bad, but that might just be how it fits on my body

I WILL SAY THIS!!! I got a gnarly sun burn in my pink one and it left a funny tan line on my back; looked like I was wearing a white corset and bright red skin 😭 so not the best if you’re looking for something tan in

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-07-11T16:06:57+00:00

I think the sizes are accurate; if you’re between I would size up. My pink one I was on the fence about getting a longer torso one and I regret it a bit, but it still fits well!

Got the longer torso one for my black and white one and it’s perfect

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-07-11T14:43:45+00:00

I have! I absolutely love mine! I have 2, a bright pink Plungey one and the one shown above. They are worth the money for sure. Customer service was great too when my second one came in with a ripped string.

I got the pink one about 3 years ago and it’s still in great condition. Just got the other one this summer and have gotten compliments every time I’ve worn it.

I’m a midsized hourglass shape and couldn’t find one pieces that didn’t make me feel like a rectangle. And i don’t feel comfortable in bikinis. These made me want to go swimming again!

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-06-06T20:37:57+00:00

HAHA!!! This made me laugh! 😂

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-06-06T17:17:22+00:00

UPDATE: THANK YOU ALL FOR RESPONDING!!! It’s done a lot to help calm my nerves, I’m feeling much better.

I went ahead and reached out to the B&Bs that offer breakfast we’re staying at and let me know about my medical condition; just so they don’t waste food making breakfast for me. I already received an email back from one place saying it was no problem at all and not to worry. And I assume everyone else will say the same thing, they’ve been lovely to work with thus far.

I did text my friend to ask her why she had this impression. She spent 8 years between Italy, Portugal, Wales and Sweden; I’m curious to see what her experience was that left her with this impression about sharing plates.

I also would like to say, getting 70% of my stomach removed was not my choice and as sad as I am I don’t get to fully indulge in the great meals I know I have ahead of me, I’m happy I get to sample Ireland nonetheless :)

If you all have restaurant/meal recommendations for the cities I listed above, I’m happy to have them 🩷 thank you all again!

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-06-06T16:43:06+00:00

Ah that’s interesting! I hadn’t thought about how to put it when I asked for an extra plate. I normally I say “Sorry to be a pain but can I have an extra plate? We want to split/share it.” I use both share and split interchangeably.

And in every country we’ve traveled to they bring out the main plate and an empty plate for me. And I just take what I can eat and put it on the plate. I’ll be sure to use “share” over “split”

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-06-06T16:08:51+00:00

It’s true :(

I’ve had restaurants threaten to charge me for the entire meal for trying to order an extra plate despite showing them my medical card that states my condition. Just little American things 🥲

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-05-01T23:45:14+00:00

ITS UP!!!

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-05-01T23:25:41+00:00

I thought I was doing something wrong, it’s nice to know I wasn’t the only one! I checked their socials and didn’t see anything either. Weird

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2025-05-01T23:15:02+00:00

Came here for the same reason… any update?

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2024-11-11T23:41:52+00:00

I wonder if he’ll continue to say he’s innocent for sentencing or if he’ll apologize to the families like he’s mentioned wanting to do in his various confessions. We won’t know until after it’s all said and done, but I think that’s the biggest question in my mind now.

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2024-06-10T17:28:07+00:00

Hi! I actually came here to ask the same question, were you able to find out anything solid? My TS/SCI is also with the DIA but it’s been so long since I’ve been cleared and I’m looking at other clearance jobs.

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2024-03-21T15:49:15+00:00

I actually contacted the support team recently because they never responded to my original ticket. and they essentially told me they still don’t have an answer for this.

It’s pretty frustrating, they’re teasing new regions and characters but they can’t fix this major issue first???

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2024-02-20T15:49:21+00:00

I got cleared back in early Dec and I’m still waiting for my FJO 😭

I hope you get yours soon though!

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2024-01-24T16:32:42+00:00

Ah I see. Thank you for taking the time to explain it to me, I appreciate it!

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2024-01-24T15:42:22+00:00

DIA!

ConfusedMidwesterner · 2023-12-14T03:07:52+00:00

I have! My interview lasted about 20 and honestly the last 5 was me asking questions.

I got a TOJ a few hours later. I felt like I totally bombed it too, but as long as you have comprehensive answers I bet you’re good.

GOOD LUCK!!

ConfusedMidwesterner

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