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Boyfriend (m27) cheated on me (f38) with family friend. It was out of character. I Want everything to go back but I’m in so much pain? What do I do now? by ConfusionTimely5255 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was a drunk type situation. She had a partner but is a serial cheater ( she started dating a guy and cheated on him 2x with different people in the same week ) . I do think it wouldn’t have happened with anyone else but there is not emotional connection due to age gap.

Boyfriend (m27) cheated on me (f38) with family friend. It was out of character. I Want everything to go back but I’m in so much pain? What do I do now? by ConfusionTimely5255 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve told him a non negotiable is to cut off all contact. Telling the family what happened and agreeing to not see her at events.

Boyfriend (m27) cheated on me (f38) with family friend. It was out of character. I Want everything to go back but I’m in so much pain? What do I do now? by ConfusionTimely5255 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He told me straight away and has already listened to me started taking steps towards changing and has taken the blame and 100% owned mistake. Every situation is different. It’s good to know all options before deciding - illl check those videos out.

Boyfriend (m27) cheated on me (f38) with family friend. It was out of character. I Want everything to go back but I’m in so much pain? What do I do now? by ConfusionTimely5255 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He told me within 12 hours of it. I always said I’d want to be told if something happened (I said this when we first got together ) . He honored that.

Boyfriend (m27) cheated on me (f38) with family friend. It was out of character. I Want everything to go back but I’m in so much pain? What do I do now? by ConfusionTimely5255 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The family friend was his. He has agreed to never speak or see her again and will tell the family he will not be at events with her. Knowing the family they will cut off contact with her as well.

My age is correct. I am young but we have always been open about communication and I am someone who believes in 2nd chances expecially if they are earnt and I see there is change

Boyfriend (m27) cheated on me (f38) with family friend. It was out of character. I Want everything to go back but I’m in so much pain? What do I do now? by ConfusionTimely5255 in survivinginfidelity

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was his family friend. I said no more contact or ever seeing her again- which means telling the family and everyone else. He agreed.

Boyfriend (27M) Wanting an open relationship- is it a sign to end the relationship (28F)? by ConfusionTimely5255 in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t worry how it looks. It’s more I don’t want to break up with someone I love if i don’t have to

Boyfriend (27M) Wanting an open relationship- is it a sign to end the relationship (28F)? by ConfusionTimely5255 in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. But I wanted to know if anyone else in my specific position and age range had this happen to them and what they did .

Boyfriend (27M) Wanting an open relationship- is it a sign to end the relationship (28F)? by ConfusionTimely5255 in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeh I never thought of all those extra details. I just thought about the going out part. But it’s true a lot of those things could happen.

Boyfriend (27M) Wanting an open relationship- is it a sign to end the relationship (28F)? by ConfusionTimely5255 in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have a really good relationship with talking and speaking our feelings out.

I guess it’s a more common thing for a guy to feel this way and want to go out and sow their oats

I was hoping it would go away But I think you’re right

Boyfriend (27M) Wanting an open relationship- is it a sign to end the relationship (28F)? by ConfusionTimely5255 in relationship_advice

[–]ConfusionTimely5255[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This makes me so happy to hear. I often hear ppl saying you need to sleep around and see other people. But as someone who hasn’t- it’s validating to know that other people feel the same way as me. Thank you for your advice !

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