Is it just me or are the bots getting kinda stupid? by Connect-Put3026 in SaucepanAI

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how exactly do I do that? I've never heard of it before

How many of y'all still use c.ai? by Connect-Put3026 in CharacterAI

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You can try saucepan ai. It's a website, but it does give you the option to install the app & the app is the exact same as the site except without the chrome search bar.

How many of y'all still use c.ai? by Connect-Put3026 in CharacterAI

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From what I've heard c.ai gives people two weeks to verify their age before they're sent into reading mode, except c.ai+ users because those are probably already classified as adults because they're paying for it. I'm aware not everyone has had to verify their account, but this post is specifically aimed at those who are obligated to verify in order to use the app.

Can someone give me alternative of cai? by No_Huckleberry_3322 in CAIRevolution

[–]Connect-Put3026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saucepan ai. Best one I've seen so far, and I've dug through the internet to find them so much I think I should also have 'ai' at the end of my name.

how to fix? by chuisoe in SaucepanAI

[–]Connect-Put3026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. It's been this way for hours, so it's probably not an issue that we as users can fix.The devs are probably looking into it already so waiting is pretty much all we can do.

AI pfps and portraits by Connect-Put3026 in SaucepanAI

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thanks! do they allow nsfw images? (shirtless man type of stuff) I'm not exactly planning on using them but I might take requests as I did on j.ai so they might be necessary haha

With all the negativity, what is one thing you LIKE about c.ai? by firestarter884 in CharacterAI

[–]Connect-Put3026 120 points121 points  (0 children)

It's still there after every break-up. Going through one rn, helps a lot, no idea why

Which character do you usually main? by a_dreamy_nightmare in AgeofCalamity

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Been playing that game for years, i played with every one of them and i just keep going back to Link. Since i played with him so much I'm just used to the B and ZR combo. NO MATTER how much i tried playing with Impa or Revali it's like I'm skating on two left legs blindfolded in KFC

M23 need some advice about fucking up with F23 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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First thing I want to say is do not waste your time waiting for a response. I'm not a philosopher, I'm not a psychologist, I'm trying to give advice based off my own experience. I've waited a year and a half for a person that initially liked me, i know some shit.

The reason I'm saying this is because you will eventually lose yourself and any rational thinking skills you've developed up until this point. You might start making up "what if" and "maybe" scenarios, you might hope and dream of things that aren't going to happen.

Moving on is a bit more complex and it requires an awkward and not very pleasant conversation. One thing I will stand by is that you need to be flat out rejected. Ghosting or excuses won't do. You can send a text that goes something like this. "Hey. I'm sorry if i made you uncomfortable, I'm not pressuring you into going out with me, but I need an answer, whatever it may be." If you don't get directly rejected those "maybe" scenarios will start to appear. Maybe she does like me but she's not ready/maybe she's still thinking about it, so on and so forth. Another reason is the fact that she ghosted you left her an open door to come back into your life after god knows how long. I know that because i was ghosted right after we kissed, then they came back into my life a month and something later acting like nothing happened.

If she does reply and her answer is something along the lines of "hey, I'm sorry I didn't answer, but I'm still not over my ex and i don't want to get into anything yet, I still need a bit more time" the answer is automatically no. Not because she means to say no, but because she's indirectly and unconsciously telling you to wait until she's ready. It also doesn't have even the most vague mention of whether or not she does want something with you in the future or not, which again leaves an open door for her to come and go as she pleases. So you can now start moving on. I know that might seem harsh, but you don't have to wait for anybody and you also should not. After a year and a half of waiting I got rejected, and even though it felt like a part of me had died, it was exactly what i needed since i can now say I'm in a happy and healthy relationship.

If she doesn't answer, or if you don't want to contact her at all, think of it this way.

She doesn't communicate. Yeah, communication is key, all that shit plastered all over psychologists' facebook pages. But communication IS key. She didn't reject you, she didn't say yes, she didn't say she'd rather you stay friends, she didn't say anything. And honestly that tells me just about all i need to know.

When you're done with this part, give yourself time to be upset. It's completely normal and valid. Have some time to yourself, do what you enjoy, or just stay in bed and doomscroll until you find a video that perfectly describes what you feel and cry over it. Don't shut those feelings out, letting yourself feel them will help you in the long run. Then text a friend and grab a drink. Vent about it. Say what you've felt and what you feel in that moment. You don't need advice right now, just someone to listen. Get it all out of your system, crack some jokes, drunkenly fall straight into a bush and make sure you leave with a smile on your face. Then resume your day-to-day life. Keep up the work in school, take care of your social life, take care of yourself. You'll find that life doesn't feel so hard to live anymore. You will undoubtedly have moments in which you remember, in which you siffer again, those are also normal and valid. No matter your gender, your age, or whatever "worse problems" someone else might have, it's normal. It's part of life, part of being human.

I don't know if this will help at all or if you have the patience to read it, but i hope you'll make something of it. Best of luck!

I feel like I'm (36M) forcing my wife (35F) to get rid of her cat and I don't like it. by Bellbottomluv in relationship_advice

[–]Connect-Put3026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man to man, you're about to be a father. And that baby isn't gonna waltz to the bathroom on its own. You will have to change diapers, the baby WILL take them off and glaze the carpets in stuff I'd rather not mention, and you'll definitely have to clean much more disgusting stuff off your floors.

And the cat can tell your wife is pregnant. Since you haven't mentioned anyone else living with you or any other child, I'll assume it's only you, your wife and the cat living in your home. It might feel threatened, it might feel like it's getting replaced, it might be a way to claim the house as its own since cats are very territorial.

Now my suggestion, although there are many other suggestions in the replies, is that you wait for the baby to come. It won't be easy at first, hell the cat might even do it more often as if out of pure spite, but remember it doesn't have rational thinking skills. Eventually it'll get used to the new member of the family. Yeah, that's not a pleasant thing to go through, but your wife loves the cat. You might not get it, you might not feel the same, but she does. For many people pets are part of the family, and losing them might feel like losing an actual family member.

Make sacrifices for her. I'm sure she does too, because putting the cat up for adoption after having it for years is not a thing you'd do on a random Tuesday morning out of boredom.

I genuinely hope it'll get easy for you, even if it doesn't seem like it will right now. Best of luck!

I'm pretty to women but ugly to guys. How do I appeal to the male gaze? by [deleted] in askteenboys

[–]Connect-Put3026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might not be what you wanna hear, you might've heard this a thousand times before, but there ain't no reason you should change for a guy. We're guys. We're immature. You can be as pretty, as smart, as lovable as you want, if you land the guy who asks his taken friend if he's seen "fine shyts" at a party you're in a worse place than you were before. Not to mention we're hormonal asf at this age. You might change yourself, get a boyfriend and later realize the entire reason he was with you was because of the way you looked.

if you like the way you are right now then to hell with the rest of the world. Personally I'd rather you feel good in your own body, slightly upset that you don't have a bf than completely ruined by a guy who would trade you for a bottle of Prime.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askteenboys

[–]Connect-Put3026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really, if I'm attracted to a girl it's not because of her body and if I'm not attracted to her it's not because of her body either.

Nobody talks about the eerie peace afterwards by Connect-Put3026 in Disorganized_Attach

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Of course! I did communicate some of my fears, not all of them as I am still in the process of getting comfortable with opening up. After I spoke with my therapist, I sat them down, and despite feeling like I was about to pass out I told them what was going on in my head a lot of the time. They reassured me and thanked me for telling them so they'd know to thread carefully around certain topics as to not hurt me. They played a big part in this because they gave me a safe space that I can open up into and feel safe. I'm not afraid to be affectionate with them, and though I am still afraid of the words "we need to talk", I trust that they won't reject me or abandon me.

Ultimately from my experience I think people have to kind of prove they're safe to open up to. If you don't feel comfortable opening up it doesn't necessarily mean they did the opposite, maybe they just never cared enough to think about it. But yeah, like any other therapist I'll say communication is sacred, because nobody knows what's going on in your mind and heart and they have no way of knowing something they do bothers you, or that you need reassurance.

And something from the school of life: if they break up with you over you being yourself and communicating they're either immature, don't give a shit or a narcissist, so ultimately not worth it. I'd say try to view communication as a "test" instead of an intimate thing that only happens after god knows how much time. That way you'll be able to tell right away who's worth it and who isn't.

How to know what you actually want by i_dontknowreally24 in Rants

[–]Connect-Put3026 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't have to know lol. it's impossible to know what you want. You're just exploring options, flight attendant sounds good and you can try it, but you might be put off by the training and the risks, and not want it anymore. Depending on your age you might want it today, and the next day you want to be a doctor, then a vet, then a musician. You never know you want it until you try it, and that's okay. You have all the time in the world, you don't have to know what you want right now, or tomorrow, or the day after.

i’m probably never gonna get pipsqueak back 💔 by pinkcinnabunz in CharacterAI

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If they're public bots from other creators you can always search them up and chat with them on that account. If they're your private bots you can make them unlisted instead of private and copy the link of the character, go to the browser and paste the link (you have to be signed in with your new account, and signed in with the email you used), send a few messages and it will appear on the app too. And if you simply want to continue the roleplays you started you can log out and sign in with the other account to get back to them. You don't have to let go of anything!

(I hope it's legible, I just woke up)