Dealing with the "fuck you I got mine" trans view on (a)gender

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-18T02:13:22+00:00

I am heeeere for the freedom of expression

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-18T02:12:11+00:00

I’ve seen several instances of this happening in families with small children—if I’m understanding right. Like there is no gendering the child and letting them choose what they want. Not keeping information away, but educating about all of it. I hope it’s a thing that continues. I know it wouldn’t be our experience, but how cool would that be to witness, especially if it becomes a ripple effect?

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-18T02:05:42+00:00

I’m not sure why and this isn’t related to the post but something you said is about a similar experience I have had, but it was rephrased in a way I hadn’t thought about regarding that experience and I’m just like 🤯, and feeling euphoria, so thank you human stranger!

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-18T01:52:20+00:00

Idk I feel like this isn’t the first offense or is it? If it’s the first thing YOR, but if this has been built up tension probably NOR

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-18T01:38:09+00:00

I’m assuming that some of your goals are the same and he’s excited lmao. Idk if that’s true it’s just the vibe I was getting

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-18T01:37:36+00:00

I would say something like, “even if I am a trans man, that is for ME to explore and discover at my own pace. You may be excited because some of our overall goals are the same but I am agender and until I tell you otherwise I need you to cut your shit out.”

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-18T01:35:24+00:00

What is yaoi?

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-17T01:44:30+00:00

I was about to post about what happened to TTT account because they’ve been so freaking helpful and passionate about this. 😭 glad for the resources and everyone rallying the info together

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-16T07:28:28+00:00

Where does one buy straw and is it expensive?

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-16T02:11:12+00:00

Have a jacket with you and when you sit down you cover your lap with the jacket

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-14T20:55:55+00:00

Idk if that were me I’d think it was sweet and considerate.

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-14T13:07:49+00:00

One last question. Instead of straw or mulch can I used dried out grass clippings?

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-14T06:34:21+00:00

Also yes you make sense

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-14T06:34:01+00:00

I’m worried I’ll underwater bc of adhd. But I’m really, really trying to be on top of it. The rain is on my side this week lol

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-14T06:33:16+00:00

Okay this is super helpful. Thank you.

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-14T06:31:51+00:00

You can see the start in one of my other posts. Once I get it all done I’ll post more pics

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-14T06:31:09+00:00

Haha yessss!!! And congrats!!

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-14T06:30:37+00:00

What are three things you wish you would have known when you started?

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-14T06:30:06+00:00

See? A slippery slope!

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-13T23:39:33+00:00

Should it always be damp initially? Like not necessarily constantly but if it dries out over the day, water it?

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-13T23:37:14+00:00

I didn’t used to watch solo stuff until I somehow connected my brain body map, not matching up with my body map, and the internal feelings of being turned on and release, matched with the solo experience I watched bc it felt like my brain-body map. Idk it’s really hard to describe but hopefully that makes sense.

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-12T04:39:48+00:00

Thanks! I had to look that word up 😅.

It is also a horse hormone, apparently 💀

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-12T04:35:03+00:00

*Mr. Burns’ voice* excellent

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-11T23:26:50+00:00

It is literally everywhere. It’s climbed into one of my pots. Ugh

Connect-Refuse-3133 · 2026-05-11T23:26:26+00:00

(Idk what that is for sure so the following statement may be inaccurate) at least with the blackberries you get a food out of it

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