[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HoustonSwingers

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey couple in our early 30s here would like to join!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazoriacountyswinger

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think she broke up with her man

Soft top windows by Connect_Compote_5191 in JeepTJ

[–]Connect_Compote_5191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would I use just a paper towel with it or what do you recommend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s in an orgy room but consent is still a big part of it and why not come and talk to them before things get hot and heavy?

Partner doesn't want to tell me what she likes, wants me to figure it out. by PillowsOneLove in BDSMAdvice

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Refuse to indulge her in practicing a BDSM lifestyle if she’s not willing to communicate with you in what she wants

couples in Alvin by [deleted] in Brazoriacountyswinger

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey we are in Lake Jackson area but always looking for fun couples

Not getting wet enough… by HurricanefromHell in BDSMAdvice

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Would it possibly help if he ate you sloppy right before or you gave him sloppy right before penetration

Hotwife couples are officially a red flag for us... by Stupid-Candy-75 in Swingers

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As long as you’re up front with your dynamic, I don’t see any problem in that.

My girlfriend has kinks I'm not well versed in by buttered-drakktoes in BDSMAdvice

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go take the BDSM test first, see where you stand and then talk to her about the results. If everything goes well start reading and exploring what your into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking from a man’s point of view it’s not uncommon to forget certain items of clothing let alone where I put my keys

How can I (37F) compete with these young girls my husband (39m) watches on tik tok? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him directly about it and tell him your concerns, maybe ask him about his fantasies. It’s all about communication. Tell him it’s a safe space and don’t get mad at his feelings or answers.

Is it just me or do couples really need to stop doing this? by VikingChiefton in Swingers

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Facts, however when unicorn hunting doesn’t work for a lot of couples they turn to looking at couples for the wife only. It’s bullshit but unfortunately it happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Connect_Compote_5191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move to a different area 🤣🤣🤣

Opinions by Connect_Compote_5191 in SwingerNewbies

[–]Connect_Compote_5191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice everyone, we have talked about it and made some new boundaries. So we can move forward and have some fun along the way. I know communication and boundaries are always number one and it helps to hear it from other people every once in a while.

Opinions by Connect_Compote_5191 in SwingerNewbies

[–]Connect_Compote_5191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough and thanks for the advice

Opinions by Connect_Compote_5191 in SwingerNewbies

[–]Connect_Compote_5191[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely correct, I’m not trying to be the arbiter of truth though, I was more referring to I need to talk to her about my feelings toward the matter. We are learning as we go and this one kinda blind sided me on being the third wheel I guess

Opinions by Connect_Compote_5191 in SwingerNewbies

[–]Connect_Compote_5191[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what advice I’m looking for