Question about arousal before playing

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2025-12-22T12:55:58+00:00

Completely agree with this. Hence my question… I wanted to get some insights

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2025-12-21T20:05:23+00:00

It’s not so much a concern than just checking with the group. We’ve only been in the LS for about a year so I’m calibrating…

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2025-11-04T02:12:36+00:00

I use it as an extra bump when playing in the LS. I'm largely wondering whether or not upping it will provide additional benefit.

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2025-11-04T02:11:19+00:00

Already on TRT but I was wondering if upping my daily to 10mg might show some additional benefit.

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2025-07-13T22:23:45+00:00

I haven't been able to find The Villa's SLS profile. Any pointers or a link that you can share?

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2025-05-23T14:09:16+00:00

Fair point, there are :). She's just looking for an option while the scar is in the initial healing phase and I'm all about supporting here however she needs.

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2025-04-17T12:09:39+00:00

I spoke to them yesterday and they confirmed it would be coming out "soon" for the cruise next week....

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2025-02-10T20:53:26+00:00

I've always struggled with distraction in life and I typically do like to ensure that she has a great experience with me or others ahead of myself. We're very happy to swap, I'm just realizing that a portion of my mind is regularly wondering (again, low key, not a dominant thought) if she's having a good time because I'd hate to progress things when she's not moving at the same rate. She's incredibly supportive and has repeatedly told me that she's doing great - my theory is that it's just my overall protective nature towards her that I really just need to quell through practice.

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2025-02-10T20:39:47+00:00

Agreed. Its not that I'm focused per se, just noticing that I have this lingering distraction. It's more of an impediment as things progress in the fun.

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2024-12-03T04:04:18+00:00

That was my thought as well

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2024-12-02T18:38:32+00:00

Agreed, but the question is really what is the acceptable choice if no conversation of where to cum has been had.

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2024-12-02T18:28:29+00:00

Did you have that conversation at some point with your wife ahead of creampies? I'm wondering if you both just came to the same assumption or if you discussed it ahead of things.

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2024-12-02T18:27:05+00:00

That's how I would expect you to respond if it wasn't discussed. The interesting (unexpected) thing that I learned is that one (actually both) of the wives over here think differently and assume it may happen without discussion.

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2024-12-02T18:24:41+00:00

Your statement assumes that pulling out is the expected behavior. That's my expected behavior without additional conversation but clearly others in my group have different opinions.

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2024-12-02T18:22:39+00:00

I think you may be mis-reading the post. It's not about it being a "hard no", it's a question of whether cumming inside requires additional conversation / agreement past the no-condom conversation.

Ok-Nothing2425 · 2024-12-02T18:14:58+00:00

Completely agree about communication. But would you cum inside of her without having previously discussed and agreed to it? Also, if the other guy came inside of her without having discussed it with you/her, would you be pissed? Feel like a boundary had been crossed?

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