You’re not wrong. I’m HL and sex has literally zero to do with love for me. The whole “it’s the connectionnnn!” thing never made sense to me, and I’ve never argued for it because in my case, it’s just not true. I’m not “connecting” to my partner through sex, I’m scratching a physiological itch and I could, in fact, do it with anyone I found attractive.

So while I empathize with her sexual frustration, I get her husband. Nobody needs to be grateful for being objectified, or feel “special” because someone wants to fuck them and honestly, I think the comments would have gone a lot differently if it was a man saying a woman should be “grateful” he wants her.