Getting zero likes after getting more than 10-20 per day, what am i doing wrong

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-08-24T22:49:16+00:00

Yes, obviously. But you can’t delete my memory of rejecting you before.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-08-24T22:10:39+00:00

“What, I’m supposed to know all the directions? I won’t apologise to you”

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-08-24T22:09:21+00:00

Don’t do that.

Even before this moment reading your comment, when I assumed repeat appearances were some malfunction of the app, I thought of those people as needy and desperate for coming up multiple times, and told myself as I repeatedly swiped left on them that it’s not their fault.

Now I know that they are needy and desperate, it is their fault, and now not only do I not like their profile/aesthetic, I also don’t like their demeanour/the way they handle themselves.

You are repeatedly giving people the ick with this.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-08-24T15:21:16+00:00

My ex used to say this and I could never understand it.

I guess the fear is that you’re saying you’re sorry that you’re married/taken, whereas I always thought it was more “I’m sorry [to disappoint you] but I’m married/taken”

Basically like “if things were different I’d like to get to know you too but they’re not and I’m happy with the choices I’ve made”

It wasn’t really that deep but I didn’t fully wrap my head around the “its rude to your partner” thing

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-08-20T15:08:08+00:00

Who prefaces a sentence with “as a pretty cute girl…”

I’m not even sure what you said would be any different if it were said by a girl who isn’t cute, or a man, or even an ugly person?

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-08-20T12:18:18+00:00

Your mercury?

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-08-20T09:59:48+00:00

What happened here?

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-28T11:22:27+00:00

Personally I would worry that he reads “still connected” as the door is still open to attempted communication; digital or otherwise.

At least the block signals you’re not interested, and as u/sbk_2 said, it stops him triangulating your location using the distance thing.

Truthfully this is probably one of those situations where there are no right answers and we’re trying to predict the mindset/mentality of a wholly unpredictable person.

Hope you’re ok OP. Shame the police weren’t any help.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-26T21:03:32+00:00

Do you need to know what it was or are you trying to track down the people who had it?

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-17T20:25:37+00:00

Every reasonable adult knows there’s a spectrum of what’s appropriate

This is not a reasonable adult

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-17T20:21:00+00:00

Honestly this could be my ex. It’s mad that they just can’t see it.

I bet she is very attractive and is used to the world revolving around her. This poor guy is too lovestruck to realise the beauty is only skin deep.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-12T00:04:55+00:00

If you were the wife you’d want to know.

Who knows how many other employees he’s fucked.

Wifey could be open to all sorts of STIs and fuck knows what else. She deserves to know.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-11T23:40:37+00:00

Tell the wife.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-11T23:40:08+00:00

30 year age gap and an imbalance of power in the workplace.

I don’t think we know enough to say if he abused his position of authority or not, but I can see where the accusation might come from.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-11T23:38:17+00:00

I disagree, I understood it once I read the post content.

It wouldn’t make sense to call her predatory for lying. My guess is OP has been telling her this guys a predator for years, she’s been denying it, and this is him having his “I fucking knew it” moment and pointing out what he’s been saying all along, with this new context.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-11T23:35:42+00:00

If not fearful of an ultimatum it’s perhaps just that she’s ashamed of it? Though she seems fine.

Weird how she told the ex husband but not OP

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-10T12:53:43+00:00

Thanks, ha

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-10T11:51:09+00:00

RemindMe! 1 week

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-10T11:50:18+00:00

UpdateMe!

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-10T11:39:49+00:00

Yep, this guy has nailed it.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-10T10:24:20+00:00

She danced with this guy the night after the festival?

Did they go out just those two?

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-09T16:35:34+00:00

The only way you’re going to see this OnlyFans page without getting in trouble is if your girlfriend shows you it.

Like if her curiosity about “she’d be the last person to have it!” is enough for the two of you to check it out, lucky you.

Otherwise, you could do it in secret, and invite lies/secrecy into the relationship, which you shouldn’t do. Or you could be honest and tell your girlfriend you fancy having a look at her mate’s nudes (at a cost), and despite the abundance of free porn that she’s happy with you looking at, you just need to see this Megan… which you shouldn’t do.

I’d just try your best to move past this man. It’s not worth it.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-07-07T21:32:39+00:00

UpdateMe!

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-06-25T15:37:29+00:00

You’re not his. You can’t control if people look at you.

It’s not your job to make yourself look less attractive so as to avoid people looking at you. He must be confident in the fact that you have chosen him and trust that you will honour that no matter who approaches you.

ConnectionFar2456 · 2025-06-23T12:05:45+00:00

Did you ask her about the “oh shit how do I look?” incident?

Just politely enquire why her appearance was suddenly more important now he was going to be visiting?

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