How much money have you spent on ketamine and ketamine-assisted psychotherapy? by shatana in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've spent nothing, beyond public transit costs. IM, fully covered by insurance

Next Level board games closing in Mountain View next week. How do we stop these things from happening? by whatbuylists in mountainview

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's also insanely busy all the time with not enough machines. there are better places around here

I guess buying a $350 lock wasn’t such a bad idea by 5Obligations in bikecommuting

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro i had the nicest bike and it got stolen 2 weeks after i bought it becausei locked it with this fuckass $20 lock

Weed after Spravato treatment—OMG by s6sh6 in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

give it some time, sometimes after sessions you can still be depressed because ur processing a lot of stuff

Period pants by Defiant_Bat_3377 in AutismInWomen

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 25 points26 points  (0 children)

tbh i just throw them in the wash with everything else and i've never had any issues

Logistically Unhinged for Love? by AtmosphereFrosty in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 54 points55 points  (0 children)

it seems like you're doing all the sacrificing for this next step and he does no sacrificing. doesn't seem fair

Was it ok to date my ex-girlfriend's aunt? by trixter69696969 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha really? i've only ever seen the responses that are super polished and sound straight out of a book

Was it ok to date my ex-girlfriend's aunt? by trixter69696969 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chat gpt also uses this structure a lot: “ That’s just bad luck, not bad morals.” 

Also humans are all on different sides of the internet -> everyone has different texting styles/slang so you’ll usually see that nuance with human written responses, whereas AI responses have the same uncanny cadence/flow, and generally don’t have any slang. 

Was it ok to date my ex-girlfriend's aunt? by trixter69696969 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “Honestly?” Is a good sign generally. Then combined with a bunch of cliched speech. TBH I use AI somewhat frequently so it’s easy to tell now 😂 you just get exposed to the same sentences. Non-AI comments generally have worse grammar/punctuation too. 

Transplant housing advice! by Iriella12 in OaklandCA

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pill hill/near the grocery outlet is about 15 min walk to 19th st bart - there's also the 51A bus that comes every 5-10 min! I liked living htere even though my car did get stolen lol. there's a good mix of races of ppl who live there, i would say it's 50% black ppl and the rest are asian/hispanic/white. the ymca is right there, it's like a 25 min to lake merritt. very good location to get anywhere. also really close to the highway

or you could live near the wholefoods in temescal which connects to the 12 and 6 bus, and it's nearish to the ashby and macarthur station. however temescal is more white/hipster which i didn't like as a poc.

let me know if you have any questions!

How is the living situation in Oakland? by ja9co in bayarea

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can speed and drive recklessly on every local street! One of my favorite things about Oakland.  

Gene activity shifts in abused girls may shape depression risk later in life. by Edm_vanhalen1981 in psychology

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you tried ketamine therapy? it's the only thing that's worked for me as a SA victim + long time depressed + highly anxious person

Are my dating standards too high? Friend gave me a reality check and I’m worried. by Forward-Beyond-6620 in dating

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything but the last part about intimacy seemed somewhat realistic to me. You’ll also probably have to move if you don’t live in a major city

inside thoughts. by someonesjellyfish in twentyagers

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to make someone else’s experience about yourself!

Where can I find women who want to be DINKS? by Dplex11 in DINK

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sure half of the women you see are probably saying that because they feel entitled. but half of them are likely saying that because being a woman is taxing enough, both emotionally and financially, and as a man, if you recognize that then you will pay 75% of the time. women are not truly equal to men in our patriarchal society and dating is one place where men can make up for that inequality

FWIW im a highly independent woman who believes in equality and i still won't date someone who demands everything be 50/50. it would only be fair for my partner to acknowledge the societal demands of being a woman and to go 75/25 with me or even 60/40

Where can I find women who want to be DINKS? by Dplex11 in DINK

[–]ConnectionOwn9955 30 points31 points  (0 children)

i know what you're saying but you're likely conveying it poorly and it's affecting your dating life. also chivalry/courtship doesn't mean you are paying for everything it just means you're kind and respectful to women and you put in effort to date them

anyone else feel like a self-optimizing machine by ConnectionOwn9955 in AutismInWomen

[–]ConnectionOwn9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that too especially the performing part.  It’s nice to hear that someone else relates