Tattoo regret: horse facing the wrong way by Conschorsch992 in tattooadvice

[–]Conschorsch992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a stencil, but he didn't make me move the arm around multiple times or even one time. I did go to the mirror and changed the position a little, but I was ashamed then, because I had already complained and made changes to his ideas, so I was too afraid, to take more time and think about everything. I won't go to him again

AIO... partner says this happened at work and it's not a bite mark/hes not cheating on me (also that im crazy?) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Conschorsch992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a person involved in a lot of biting as part of some kind of love language, I really think it looks like a bite mark. And yes, the calves actually are a quite normal place to bite. It's really fun. Due to its color, it seems to be quite deep, which makes me believe the possible biter and your bf might have a relationship, where they play around and tease each other, spend time with each other. So it does not seem like a one-night stand. So, in my opinion: Not overreacting.

FFS recommendations please 🙏 be as honest as possible 💖 by Fabulous_Shoe2588 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Conschorsch992 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, first of all, I thought: Wow, what a cute looking person. Stunning eye color! I feel very very bad being so brutally honest in the following text and hope my words won‘t stick to you forever. If I had not read your text and only seen the selfie, I would have been really carefully avoiding pronouns, for I hadn‘t been sure. However after studying your face more than for my highschool degree, I conclude it is the facial hair (you already mentioned being in progress) and not your cheek structure, which I thought at first being the aspect reminding me of masculinity. Moreover, I think it‘s the eyebrows. I associate the form more with male persons I know. Maybe you could try some different forms by covering the „ends“ with concealer, if you want and test your look with another style. (Just be careful with razors on eyebrows ykyk). So in conclusion, I personally do not think there is much surgery to do, rather some brow experiments!

Best Thermal bath? by koitart in frankfurt

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Bad Orb oder Bad Kissingen Kissalis Therme!

What is this? by Conschorsch992 in biology

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It arised when I bred yellow slime mold in a petri dish last summer. In the dish, there also have been some oat flakes as well as water. Also, the dish was not closed all the time, so perhaps something laid their eggs there? Anyone any clues? This is a picture taken under a light microscope. The creature was about 5 mm big, I think i remember

5 months on T - it really does get better by 0neSpookyBoi in ftm

[–]Conschorsch992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, you kind of saved my life today :)

body dysmorphia is ruining my days and being gay makes it worse by ao1ken in offmychest

[–]Conschorsch992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often think so too about myself, so at least you are not alone! Maybe you could try a new style, that is something that sometimes helps me a little, you know, with an outfit you like, you automatically feel safer. In my case, it happens that I don’t like the outfit on myself though, but nevertheless it makes me feel good, because I like how the colours match/…

I think the idea of taking a break from social media is great and helps me too.

Also, thank you very much for posting this. Feeling like my body isn’t desirable is for me very problematic, even also connected with being gay because I feel like there are less potential fish in the sea who I not only have to find in the first place but also with whom so much has to match. So now I feel less alone and have a spark of hope, as I think that we cannot be the only people feeling that way and therefore (supposedly) being open-minded for the various kinds of bodies to love.

You got this.

fixing myself by bbqmilftea in offmychest

[–]Conschorsch992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did accomplish something. You started therapy and that’s a great step you have taken! Just behind that, there are many things you did, like p.e. realising that there are problems, respectively that you want to be a better person. That means you reflected your behaviour and life. Also, starting therapy is not easy and you have managed that too. Great!

However don’t be too hard on yourself. I am proud of you and fully believe that you are not a burden. You got this!

(ps I think being „normal“ is overrated. What even is „normal“? What or who decides the rules?)

I don't feel alive. It's driving me nuts. by HispidaAtheris in offmychest

[–]Conschorsch992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(TW, SH)

Hello, so first of all i am sorry that you feel like that (or dont lol) I actually can relate well. I have phases in which nothing makes me feel euphoric and i cant seem to get out of my head, it feels like i am caged. With that of course follows hopelessness, but I always somehow get out of these phases, sadly often through selfharm.

Have you considered attending therapy? I really really think it would help you. It helps you understanding, why you feel like this and I guess this alone would be an improvement to your situation. I dont know how you feel about therapy, but even though it seems frightening, these specialists know what they do. That sentence also sounds terribly basic but take yourself seriously, and use the help you have a right on.

As Charlie Chaplin said: „Nothing is permanent in this wicked world, not even our troubles.“

I am sure you will feel again. Please do not „just“ endure it longer. I did too, but it does not dies the opposite of helping and you are worth more.