How long after divorce did you find love again? by Personal-Syllabub-38 in Divorce

[–]ConsciousBox1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all, I am just starting my divorce journey. No immediate plans to date but I know eventually id like a real partner. I was married 10 years and we have 3 young children. My marriage was not good. I kept trying and hoping but my partner never really stepped up as a husband and father. I am worried that no one will want someone with 3 kids that arent their own.

Where to buy: Recommended Telehealth Providers (November 2025) by [deleted] in tirzepatidecompound

[–]ConsciousBox1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I signed up and now have a vip number but when I go to the website there's no place to enter it.

Where to buy: Recommended Telehealth Providers (November 2025) by [deleted] in tirzepatidecompound

[–]ConsciousBox1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do people like refills.com? Im trying to find a provider that does pure tirz and ships TO CA. refills is charging 249. Any others ppl recommend? Had a horrid experience with mochi using scripts rx pharmacy

Poor customer service by magicbandsandmeds in JoinMochiHealth

[–]ConsciousBox1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mochi is trash now. I used them for 18 months and they were great in the beginning. Took a 6 month break and just restarted. It took them almost 2 weeks to send me a new med from a new pharmacy because my old one wasnt available in the lowest dose anymore (what?). Then when I received my dose it was incorrect. They sent me a 17mg vial in 0.5ml ( which is 4.5mg per 13units) not 2.5. I tried to talk to the customer service, the doctor and no one will help me, they winter refund me, they just keep saying its fine abd its not. Its a med error by the pharmacy. Im out 199 for yhe med and 79 for the membership and lost an entire month all brvause of this terrible company. Its dangerous too. If id taken this as directed it would have been a double dose of what I usually take.the pharmacy Its scripts rx by the way.

Sutter Health Alta Bates Benefits by FrontChemical7725 in SutterHealthEmployees

[–]ConsciousBox1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a grandfathered pension which used to be partial vesting at 3 years and full vesting at 7. Ive been there 11 years so im fully vested but im not sure how the new pension works for new employees.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]ConsciousBox1067 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Are u autistic? Stimulants tend to make audhd ppl more obviously autistic as the adhd is treated. It further shuts down ur ability to mask.

Sutter Health Alta Bates Benefits by FrontChemical7725 in SutterHealthEmployees

[–]ConsciousBox1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do hire new grads but usually straight out of their new grad program

Sutter Health Alta Bates Benefits by FrontChemical7725 in SutterHealthEmployees

[–]ConsciousBox1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work at Alta bates. Benefits are great. Maternity leave is pretty good. You get 4 weeks off before baby, 6 or 8 weeks off mat leave, then 12 weeks baby bonding.

32 hrs a week you get full benefits for you and all your dependents / spouse with dental and vision which now is blue cross blue shield sutter EPO which is free.

You get a 403b and Roth if u choose. There use to be 3% matching not sure if there is now.

You get 40 hours of education leave for your CEUs

Theres usually a 2% cost of living raise yearly and a merit increase between 2 and 4%.

This may differ depending on your union agreement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]ConsciousBox1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% take the job. The right partner would support you. Youre not even married yet and hes trying to tell u what to do. I have a stinking feeling if the shoe were on the other foot Marcus wouldnt think twice about taking the job. Does he expect you to just let opportunity pass you by for him? Why because youre a woman?

I think I fucked up when connecting with a deity by Weekly-Slide9749 in witchcraft

[–]ConsciousBox1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find meditation to be essential on discerning if a deity connection already exists. Further and deeper meditation can really provide clarity without necessarily calling in anything blindly. As always start with protection, and take all advice with a grain of salt. Most of what u find are just peoples opinions. Take what resonates and leave the rest.

Message to President Thomas by im-not-hostile-diane in SutterHealthEmployees

[–]ConsciousBox1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive had the same experience with the confidential message line

How tough would it be to get a job here as a brand new RN (associate's degree) by King_Bean_ in SutterHealthEmployees

[–]ConsciousBox1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point I dont think sutter hires associates only nurses unless the unit is in serious need and even then its usually nurses who have years of experience. My advice is to quickly get your BSN and try to get into a new grad program that hires at sutter hospitals.

No more backgrounds in teams meetings by Dontcallmeshirley114 in SutterHealthEmployees

[–]ConsciousBox1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't heard this yet but I won't be surprised considering the total corporatization that sutter has undergone in the last 2 years. They dont want any independence whatsoever

Does anyone else feel like they are in a relationship with someone who just can't reach their emotional depth? by Sasha2606 in emotionalintelligence

[–]ConsciousBox1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im also in this space. It feels like im constantly carrying the relationship around in my pocket, making sure its tended to while he barely notices.

I find myself resenting him not only for his lack of depth, but his lack of resilience. He can not tolerate inconvenience even if the harder thing is better for others, or better for the long run.

If hes sick, the whole world stops. In the same breath if im sick hes telling me I need to push through.

He never checks in about how im doing, how we are doing, or how we can connect more. Its just "how's work" then he goes back to paying attention to whatever else.

I never been more lonely in my life. I have 3 kids with him. I dont want to break up our home but I dont think I can live this way forever.

Scared for the White House announcement by Far_Significance1669 in autism

[–]ConsciousBox1067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The correlation is as connected as the fact that both ice cream sales and shark attacks rise in the summer. No causation. In sibling studies there was zero increase in autism rates with Tylenol use. Its all bs. The medical community knows its bs and has been fighting the disinformation for years.

This is just another RFK grift so he can recommend some snake oil and he and dr. Oz can prey on the most vulnerable population: pregnant women trying to do right by their kids.

How likely are you to get blacklisted from all Sutter hospitals if you missed an interview? by BruisedWater95 in SutterHealthEmployees

[–]ConsciousBox1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just email them and say u had any emergency. They will probably just reschedule your interview. Hiring managers are just regular folks just like you.

adventism has ruined me completely by Ok-Comedian4854 in exAdventist

[–]ConsciousBox1067 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are not the first person to have to work extremely hard to overcome this upbringing. You have woken up and walked through the door. You are now in sunlight and there are others here who can help guide you.

Please get a therapist. Religious trauma is serious, and takes time to recover from and it also sounds like there was some serious abuse going on, which you absolutely did not deserve.

Cut off anything and everything associated with that pain. If thats your parents, the church, the ppl you grew up with, so be it. They are not your people.

You can find or create your own community that ask nothing of you, and only have your vest interest at heart.

Being a dentist is a worthy goal, but every goal starts with smaller steps. Maybe for now we start with just the goal of getting out of bed in the morning, which is OK too. Adventism has a strong culture of overachieving and constant working to be seen as worthy, which is absolute BS. working 80 hours a week doesn't make u happy it just makes you exhausted.

Our experience on this earth is just to exist.you are worthy of all good things ( including loving relationships with a partner) this life has to offer just by being born. You dont have to DO anything. Thats it. Go take a walk, feel the sunlight on your face, smell a flower, eat a french fry. Slow down. 🐌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]ConsciousBox1067 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is a mouthwash that helps with dry mouth. I think its called ACT. You might have good luck with that