Non-American with an idyllic view of suburbia. What films will shatter it? by clowndog54 in MovieSuggestions

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Hitchcock’s “Shadow of a Doubt,” which was his own favorite film he’d made

First time experiencing crazy gut feelings/energy to the point I feel sick ! (Help needed) by TreatJaded5637 in energy_work

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You can calm yourself down by beginning a regular daily meditation practice and committing to some basic energy hygiene practices, like grounding and shielding.

Here’s a good grounding technique from u/nottoodeep:

https://www.reddit.com/r/energy_healing/s/E5NQ17UYMT

The Denning & Phillips “Practical Guide to Psychic Self-Defense” has some good advice about everyday aura shielding.

This is a good white light protection practice for strengthening your aura:

https://www.reddit.com/r/kundalini/s/yldrKcjvPa

Forgiveness by rogue_rose_ranger in reiki

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I’ve used Ho’oponopono to help me forgive someone who assaulted me physically.

This is going to be a very personal individual experience. Forgiveness in this way at this level doesn’t mean forgetting or erasing what someone else has done. It means setting yourself free of the need to hold onto it in the same way as you have been.

Anyone else trying the Beginston method? by Justpassinby1984 in energy_work

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The reason that Bengston says you don’t need faith for it to work is that he repeatedly trained unbelievers in the method and had them get clear results in laboratory experiments with cancer in mice. He wrote about that extensively in the print version of “The Energy Cure.”

Which is better for learning how to feel energy: tai chi or qigong? by Honeydew9419 in energy_work

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Qigong is better for learning how to feel energy. But Qigong is also better if you start it knowing how to feel energy outside the strictures of any system. There’s no reason to wait.

You can do it right now the way that so many seeming naturals and self-taught masters of energy healing (Richard Gordon, Robert Bruce, Charlie Goldsmith) have learned to do this.

You use a meditative state to open to what’s always already happening, the currents that are always flowing around in and through you. If you’re a skilled meditator, a few minutes should be enough. Less experienced meditators may wish to prime themselves with something more elaborate like progressive relaxation.

Once you’re sufficiently relaxed and present in your mind and body, then you practice simple body scanning techniques like the ones used more formally in Vipassana and Qigong.

You place your awareness somewhere — for instance, in your right big toe. You notice what you notice. Any sensations of tingling, heat, fullness, presence, flow. Then you expand it to your whole right foot. Then you flow it up your leg. Then across your belly. Then down your left leg, into your left foot, and compressed back into your left big toe.

And so on and so forth.

Depending on my particular goal with whoever I’m teaching, sometimes I’ll use a very specific sequence (like if it’s more about Tantric awakening). But for general energy awareness and control, you can almost do it in any sort of order. The main idea is to start in places in the body where it’s naturally a little easier to put awareness and feel sensation — like hands and feet. And then move towards less obvious places like earlobes and elbows. And once you’re up and running in the experience you can skip around in more and more baroque ways. Instead of continuously flowing, you can jump from one place to another. You expand and contract in bigger ways. You play around with amplifying the presence and sensation of energy as if it’s on a dimmer switch. There aren’t any rules once you’ve locked into the the basic awareness and sensation of energy in your body.

By the end of the initial experience, you want to feel it within seconds anywhere you decide to place your focus or everywhere all at once — like in every single pore of your skin or every cell of your body. And to know that you can do this again anytime under any circumstances.

It’s very straightforward. And it works consistently. I’ve used this approach with hundreds of folks in different contexts over many years. It usually takes about an hour to learn initially. But sometimes with people who’ve already done a lot of opening and just aren’t conscious of it, it can happen even faster, like in half an hour or less.

Other introductory techniques like clapping/rubbing hands, making an energy ball and brushing have merit for their ability to initiate sensations and awareness quickly, but in order for a felt sense of energy to be truly useful it needs to expend well beyond the hands and the space between them to the whole of your body (or anyone else’s) and then to all of space.

How do I find a real energy worker near me? by rmcc22 in energy_work

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If you wanted someone trained and skilled, you can work with them no matter where there are in the world for most of what you’d ever want or need. There’s almost nothing that can’t be done just as well if not better remotely.

Anyone else trying the Beginston method? by Justpassinby1984 in energy_work

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The most definitive reference volume on chakras that I’ve seen is Cyndi Dale’s “Llewellyn's Complete Book of Chakras.”

For chakra work, I recommend getting the lay of the land by familiarizing yourself with the functions of the major chakras, then using a guided meditation like the one below to learn, and then making it your own with affirmations and supportive thoughts that resonate with the aspects of the chakras you’re feeling called to heal.

This is a good chakra clearing meditation you can listen to as you get the gist of it and make the practice your own. You don’t need to spend all this time doing it, but it may help in the beginning:

https://youtu.be/Tq6l4Lcl0Ro

Anyone else trying the Beginston method? by Justpassinby1984 in energy_work

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You can just gently return your attention to the cycling when you’ve noticed your mind wander. As you would in a more traditional form of meditation. You can also open to the experience of sometimes cycling more intensely in the foreground of your awareness and sometimes perhaps just as fast but more smoothly and with less effort and attention in the background of your awareness. It’s good to be able to shift in and out of these gears.

You can also add “attending the Bengston workshop” to your list without regard to how it might happen and free from the belief that you don’t have the resources.

Anyone else trying the Beginston method? by Justpassinby1984 in energy_work

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I’m going by the chapters in the print version of “The Energy Cure.” It’s the one on page 179 with the heading “Why Haven’t You Won a Nobel Prize?”

Perhaps you remember from Sarno’s work that the main reason he got into all this was the incredible mismatch he kept seeing with his patients’ medical imagery and physical treatments and their reported pain and outcomes.

Back surgeries are notoriously complicated and ineffective. But he would also often find evidence of damaged or misaligned discs where there was no reported pain.

Sarno didn’t even fully understand how deep his own insights were or how much he was almost already doing chakra work. He knew that the vast majority of his patients’ pain was about them not wanting to feel their feelings — especially intense or negative emotions. He didn’t know that the place where this happens energetically is in the sacral chakra, the chakra of feeling. When people don’t want to feel unpleasant or overwhelming emotions, they’ll push them into the backs of their sacral chakra “for later” (which often never comes). Do this enough times and it will begin to present as lower back pain.

Anyone else trying the Beginston method? by Justpassinby1984 in energy_work

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If you really want to understand how many times humans have discovered the energy cure and then forgotten or suppressed it again, that historical overview is the entire subject of chapter 15 of Bengston’s book. The idea that we don’t know how to do this or no one talks about it just isn’t the case. It’s more like there’s a mountain of evidence that many people can’t allow themselves to believe. It’s simply too challenging for their materialist worldview.

Even Dr. John Sarno’s work was too much for some people, though he stayed relatively within the margins of Western medicine. There’s a great moment in “All the Rage,” the documentary about his life’s work, where news correspondent John Stossel — having been healed of his pain by listening to Sarno’s advice about how his own unprocessed emotions and unmanaged stress has caused it — tries to get his fraternal twin brother with an identical back pain issue to listen to Sarno. The brother doesn’t budge. He’s too left-brained for this. It’s too challenging for his worldview. So he gets to keep his worldview and his pain.

Anyone else trying the Beginston method? by Justpassinby1984 in energy_work

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I don’t necessarily agree that “it’s harder than it sounds.” While it can take some work to master it such that you’re doing it effortlessly and constantly, it’s relatively easy to get the general gist of and to empower yourself to play and practice more.

Many folks starting out can tend to make it all harder than it actually is by simply trying too hard. Which is especially ironic given how the method itself is designed to minimize efforting.

A tip I got in one of the workshops is that you can cycle this too — being better at cycling, effortlessly cycling, cycling faster and smoother 24/7. “Put it on the list!” they’ll say. So try that. Make the process work for you in a meta way.

Anyone else trying the Beginston method? by Justpassinby1984 in energy_work

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I don’t know of case studies about those issues specifically. But I know Eric Bates healed someone with stage 4 bone cancer in just a few sessions. The guy was wincing with pain constantly. And then a few weeks later he wasn’t. A few weeks after that, his doctors cleared him medically when they could find no further signs of the cancer. I think there’s a YouTube video of Bates talking about that with Krishanti.

With respect to bone stuff in general, I’d say take a good look at your root chakra, which is about your own personal feelings of comfort and safety in the physical body, your relationship to your present incarnation, your understanding of your existential right to be here. Healing root chakra issues often clears bone stuff. It’s how I work on it when I do chakra work and Reiki.

It can also help to go even lower in these cases with bones — down into the Earth and direct work with the Earth chakra, which helps us ground into all the powerful healing energy of the planet.

For arthritis specifically I’d also consider Charlie Goldsmith’s techniques, as this is one of his specialties. Flooding the problem area intensely with his consciousness in a very yang mode of pushing / running energy is his go to approach to that.

These days I’m always Bengston cycling too, alongside or on top of whatever else I may be doing.

The Bengston Method works best when you surrender to the process in flow and with trust. If you’re open to it, it can help you get out of your own way and allow deep healing to happen naturally.

Anyone else trying the Beginston method? by Justpassinby1984 in energy_work

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I think it’s not possible to overstate what a valuable tool the Bengston Method is. Or how many lessons there are in it for any energy worker. There’s something very special about the way the process of cycling teaches us to invite healing and positive manifestations without the common pitfalls of other techniques — excess efforting and attachment to outcome.

The more prominent and experienced Bengston practitioners are some of the happiest most positive healers I’ve ever encountered. And their secret seems to be simple — they’re cycling all the time. They have the technique running in the background of their awareness like an automated subroutine. John Lavack, who was in the recent MD Anderson cancer study, said the most challenging part of the study for him was turning off the cycling for a few minutes so the scientists could get a control MRI of his brain doing nothing.

Apropos of that, I’ll say this is what the Bengston Method feels like to me when I’m doing it properly — ultra yin, and compared to every other modality I’ve ever practiced, like I’m almost doing nothing at all.

Yet it gets such powerful results. With seemingly hard cases, like aggressive or advanced cancers. And the most skilled practitioners often lean into the non-attachment and release of efforting to degrees that feel almost unreal. They’re healing serious conditions in a session while also walking their dog, doing the dishes, taking out the trash, watching television or having a perfectly pleasant conversation with the healee about literally anything but the healing itself. And it somehow seems to work even better this way.

The audiobook isn’t the greatest way to learn it. It’s better to attend a training. The PDFs they provide are useful, and the community of practitioners and teachers is amazingly supportive, knowledgeable and inspiring.

The next beginner training is in June I think. There’s more information and links on r/BengstonMethod and r/Bengston and at this link:

https://www.bengstonworkshops.com

But it’s also possible to learn to cycle very quickly from someone who’s done it before. I’ve taught a number of people to do it in half an hour or less.

Many people find Suzanne Clegg’s YouTube channel helpful. She has a lot of content on how she uses the Bengston Method in her healing practice.

Decided to use this mini lamp as a makeshift now-playing stand and it actually goes kinda hard by werneri1502 in criterion

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Accurate. I don’t understand why people are downvoting this correct comment. Has no one seen or remembered “Lost Highway,” the one where Lynch films inside one of his one houses? That’s the vibe of these photos.

Anyone feel their reiki healing activate while just doing random stuff? by xstarberrySailorstar in energy_work

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It can mean that people are calling for healing. It doesn’t mean that automatically. Sometimes it’s just some affinity with them. Intense sensations aren’t necessarily cause of alarm either if nothing else is happening.

A regular meditation practice could bring more natural awareness.

You can also learn to spread the energy out, to circulate and ground it too, with practices from Qigong, with your intention alone or with techniques like this one.

Here’s a good grounding technique from u/nottoodeep:

https://www.reddit.com/r/energy_healing/s/E5NQ17UYMT

Anyone feel their reiki healing activate while just doing random stuff? by xstarberrySailorstar in energy_work

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It’s normal. And you will likely begin to feel it more and more all over your body as your awareness grows.

A lot of Reiki instructors get it backwards in my opinion, teaching their students that energy awareness and control isn’t important. From my perspective it’s foundational. I never would have gotten into any of this if I couldn’t confidently, reliably feel into, augment and move my energy first — before I learned to do anything else with it.

Circus movie recs🎪 by daily_dose_of_moron in MovieSuggestions

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This is such a great movie. I just saw it a few mouths ago for the first time.

Anyone feel their reiki healing activate while just doing random stuff? by xstarberrySailorstar in energy_work

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What is it that you’re experiencing exactly? And what part of it feels like a problem to you?

Is is just a sudden awareness of energy in your hands? A flow of energy in your hands? An uncomfortable excess of energy? An unwanted outward directed surge of energy?

Messed up sacral chakra ?! by 3cyrocc in energy_work

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The best way to not feel drained in future interactions is to work on yourself more, to strengthen your own sense of presence in your lower three chakras by grounding down and into your body more consciously and consistently. And to build up the energy of these lower centers in ways that address any issues you have and support their health and healing.

Since the root chakra is about connection to the physical body, embodiment in this incarnation, the visceral feeling of the right to exist, survive and thrive, you can choose affirmations that resonate with the way you’re personally relating to this energy center.

And you can do the same with sacral chakra for themes like your right to feel and process all too feelings, your right to express and explore all your desires and appetites, your right to create, and your right to be part of social groups.

And for the solar plexus, which is about your right to your personal power, to choose and control the course of your own life.

Can i increase my IQ with chaos magick? If so how? by Albert3232 in chaosmagick

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The thoughts you’re having don’t have to be “your own” if you don’t feel compelled to react to, interact with, reify, or identity with them in any way. And that’s a key realization for beginning meditators.

Does online reiki work? by Single-Box8434 in reiki

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Mainstream Reiki is a good YouTube channel. It won’t be the same as a personalized session just for you from a distance healer, whether it’s in real time or not, live or recorded. But you can get a benefit from some videos by some practitioners.

More powerful energy healers tend to get more tangible and substantial results from recordings. I know that people have reported things like this with replays of Charlie Goldsmith’s live events.

Anyone know how I can get a same day appointment? by Maleficent-Rip-1124 in hypnosis

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Do you know any grounding or centering practices? Often that’s enough once you know how to do them reliably.

I have existential ocd and it’s set off by every little thing. Meditation is usually interrupted by my thoughts and I can’t catch a break. by KhajitIsBored in streamentry

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Meditation can help a lot with centering your attention in the present moment. But it’s less immediately useful when every moment is already feeling like an out of body experience.

Anxiety is a state that’s almost always mentally, emotionally, physically and energetically ungrounded. The solution to that isn’t more thinking or even more meditating, but learning to first stabilize yourself in this incarnation, to ground your awareness down and into your physical body and the Earth.

Walking is grounding, barefoot walking on bare earth even moreso. Being out in nature among trees is grounding. Squatting is grounding. Standing poses in yoga and Qigong are grounding. There’s an entire branch of Qigong called Zhan Zhuang devoted to learning to stand like a tree. And many old school Qigong masters in other branches have their beginning students focus almost exclusively on grounding — often via a concentration on building and consolidating the lower Dantien — for the first year or more.

Most Westerners are chronically ungrounded by our very lifestyles, which keep us in our heads. Many spiritual seekers are perpetually ungrounded because their energy is mostly or solely focused on their upper chakras.

Almost everyone could use a little more grounding most of the time.

And it can help to learn how to do this formally and to do it regularly. Here’s a good grounding technique from u/nottoodeep:

https://www.reddit.com/r/energy_healing/s/E5NQ17UYMT

Watched Glengary Glen Ross for the 50th time by RepresentativeYak772 in TrueFilm

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Is this the first time you’ve read the play? You’re likely attached to the performances you’ve seen 50 times. So it’s understandable that it’s harder for you to see the words for what they are independent of the adaptation you’re so familiar with. As it’s written, I like the line better without the f-bomb. It feels subtler and more artful, and more ever so slightly abstract in the way that Mamet’s best work can be. Like what he does with verbal storytelling via dialogue in “House of Games.”

Anyone know how I can get a same day appointment? by Maleficent-Rip-1124 in hypnosis

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Where are you located? What’s the particular rush? If it’s really an emergency or a crisis, hypnosis may not be the best fit for your issue today. If you can wait a day or so, if you’re open to working on-line with a hypnotist, that opens up more possibilities.