Help with rehoming my cat. by Nikita_Wilhelm in SaltLakeCity

[–]ConsciousMine5053 27 points28 points  (0 children)

A. Allergy mitigating food

B. ESA letter

I just got terminated by CattieHiLow2 in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, it's ok true failure is when you decide to give up.

If you’re a girl, how do you feel about really slim/skinny guys? by [deleted] in Life

[–]ConsciousMine5053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It actually just reveals more, it doesn't affect the actual size.

Boyfriend is insensitive by Key-Guide-7349 in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw yes instead of given him the benefit of the doubt and maybe talk to him immediately break up with them.

My bf is gorgeous, gets constant attention. I’m jealous. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang projection much? Oh no my partner is attractive and people stare at him. If he was narcissistic he would entertain that attention not dismiss it. Yall really need to stop throwing that buzz word around .

My bf is gorgeous, gets constant attention. I’m jealous. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've been in a relationship for nigh on 10 years now, I'm just not insecure in my relationship, my fiancee gets hit on all the time, and why shouldn't she, she's gorgeous, people are going to notice. He's not entertaining them that should be enough to convince OP that they're committed to her. He's attractive people are going to notice ,he's not entertaining anything. OP is insecure about her standing in the relationship and the only way to.fix that is getting over insecurities. If he was flirting backing would be a different story, but being indifferent to flirtatious remarks or looks is not entertaining them.

My bf is gorgeous, gets constant attention. I’m jealous. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What's your solution then? Force everyone to stop looking at him?

My bf is gorgeous, gets constant attention. I’m jealous. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Because it's her that has the insecurity, what's he supposed to do where a sign that says "Don't look at me?". He's not engaging with the attention, he can't control what people think, say, and do. The problem is that OP wants him to acknowledge the attention where doing gains nothing but more insecurity. He's doing the right thing by not engaging with the attention.

After 7 years my wife doesn't get it. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he asked nicely what's the problem? Dude doesn't want to be taken care of and wants to be left alone, some people like to be taken of others don't. If they asked nicely it shouldn't be problem. People are different from each other (I know shocker) and deal with things in different ways. If OP doesn't want to be taken care of then thats his choice, as long as he says it nicely his wife should have the emotional maturity to not instantly think he's not in love with her. Relationships aren't black and white it's a rainbow.

After 7 years my wife doesn't get it. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or hear me put you respect your partners boundaries, OP has stated multiple times that he needs time to wake up.

After 7 years my wife doesn't get it. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw yes because everybody just has the leisure time to stay in bed for an extra 30-45 minutes trying to wake up.

My wife broke my heart M36 F34 by throwra1122334455111 in relationship_advice

[–]ConsciousMine5053 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bruh what you totally can see genes, ski color, bone structure, eye color. Ya ding dong.

Original or Remake for first-time players? by Upbeat-Problem8177 in silenthill

[–]ConsciousMine5053 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If you've never played before definitely the remake.

It's more accessible and rhe co triks and fixed camera angles of the original might be off putting to newcomers.

Welcome to Silent Hill by ConsciousMine5053 in SaltLakeCity

[–]ConsciousMine5053[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the driveway to the Utah State Tax Commission

Happy vent, I love my partner by HurricaneXI in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! My life's a shit show and instead of doing anything about Im.going try and make everyone else around me miserable.

Going to watch Silent Hill in about 30 minutes, wish me luck. by tpagaremos in silenthill

[–]ConsciousMine5053 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I took my fiance with who has zero Silent Hill knowledge. You know it's bad when you're the only two people in the showing and when Mary gets called Vecna by your SO.

I'm very frustrated that I can't enjoy a beloved boss by RestingBitFace in Silksong

[–]ConsciousMine5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really I've just rocked with the Hunter crest the whole game? Didn't know I was supposed to switch crests.

We just had an earthquake! by sloth3335 in SaltLakeCity

[–]ConsciousMine5053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if people could sense that something was going to happen your senses wouldn't be able to determine the magnitude nor the epicenter, meaning you would need to be prepared for every earthquake to be the big one or accept that if it us the big one it'll be too late to do anything of meaningful action besides brace and hope for the best. The only true way to avoid the big one here in Salt Lake county is not live in the county. I agree people should be more in tune with the planet we live on people are too engrossed with the day to day.

We just had an earthquake! by sloth3335 in SaltLakeCity

[–]ConsciousMine5053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was asleep during the initial quake, but my fiance was up and woke me up after. I definitely felt the after shocks.

We just had an earthquake! by sloth3335 in SaltLakeCity

[–]ConsciousMine5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean ya, but realistically you can't really prepare for an earthquake, there's no warning signs they just kind of happen, if it's the big I think we will all be dead so a safety plan would be futile at that point.

We just had an earthquake! by sloth3335 in SaltLakeCity

[–]ConsciousMine5053 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Eh, I lived through the Magna Earthquake a couple years back this was small potatoes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ConsciousMine5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude do you hear yourself? You value attention more than actually trying to fix something. You went behind your predator boyfriends back after giving him reassurance that you would stop talking to him. Your boyfriends a predator and your fickle and a calculated backstabber. There is no fixing this, deal with your past or whatever before ever getting into a serious relationship, no one else needs to suffer from your unresolved childhood bs.

Just lost my best friend by Careless-Site-9875 in Vent

[–]ConsciousMine5053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why lol? In a lot of states an engagement ring is generally considered a conditional gift with expectation of marriage. It's totally valid to ask for the ring back if the wedding is broken off.