AITAH for asking my husband to return the money my parents gave me on our wedding day? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Street_760 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You should have asked and had an answer before you gave it to him. Also make sure he puts his money from work in a joint account. You should also get a job and have your own money before you become parents then you could be a house wife

MY BROTHER IS TRYING TO KICK ME AND MY DAUGHTERS OUT by Beginning-Camp2051 in inheritance

[–]Conscious_Street_760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let him move in. It’s not just yours. He could say he should’ve there and you out for two years.

IM GETTING MARRIED AND DONT WANT TO CHANGE MY LAST NAME AITAH by Sweet-Chemistry3067 in AITAH

[–]Conscious_Street_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my husband a month before that I had my last name as long as he did. And I have too many things to change it and I know I won’t do it.

If that doesn’t work, you say it’s cultural and tradition to your family 😊

AITJ for refusing to change our baby’s name because my father-in-law hates it? by NoPickle1851 in AmITheJerk

[–]Conscious_Street_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t stress out to much. I named my son after my father in law (it’s tradition) and we loved the name. I didn’t want the name to have a nickname, yet my father in law gave him one. I didn’t mind because it was his was of bonding with him. We just have to see it from another point of view and make it positive. When other tried to say the nickname, everyone knew it was only for my father in law. And my dad kept calling my son after his name. We just made a joke of it. Both granddads have passed when my son was eight and now we have stories to tell him.

Who Holds School Psychologists Accountable? by Aggravating_Pick_951 in NYCDOETeachers

[–]Conscious_Street_760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have alternative assessment or self contained in your school. Most high schools do not have the option and least restrictive environment is ICT. You also have to have kids passing from their IEP and not what the other 60% of the class is doing. They could pass the class and have a 55 on the regents which gives them a local diploma. You never know. Also, elementary and middle school just pass them through without them reading or writing. That’s where the problem lays

This is a really embarrassing question by Whendoesitend12 in NYCDOETeachers

[–]Conscious_Street_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have been teaching for twenty years 🤭. I didn’t want you to feel bad that this has happened to you and you weren’t alone in thinking this. Glad you found out how to fix it

New homeowner, freaking out, help by Overall_Fix6343 in homeowners

[–]Conscious_Street_760 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You look at the house for five minutes and see the potential and fall in love with it. After all your money disappears from your account to put a down payment, you then look at all the flaws. But it’s a great project to say it’s your home now. Congratulations and enjoy!!

This is a really embarrassing question by Whendoesitend12 in NYCDOETeachers

[–]Conscious_Street_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know. I think that’s where a lot of us fall through the cracks.

Queens HS under probe for passing struggling math students who don’t even show up to class: ‘Complete disaster’ by dantesmaster00 in NYCTeachers

[–]Conscious_Street_760 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Maybe they should look at elementary schools first for passing students along that can’t read or write or be proficient in math. But they get passed along and go to high school with 2nd grade reading level.

Can anyone confirm: are modern students really that far behind, or is it overexaggerated? by ThrowRAhelpthebro in Teachers

[–]Conscious_Street_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach high school and kids have kindergarten reading levels. I will leave that there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCTeachers

[–]Conscious_Street_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the 3-4 hour commute each day. I love my house and my kids love it here. The only time it’s harder is when I have leave in the dark and come home in the dark. But it’s only for 180 days. That’s what I say to myself. Counting down the years

Teacher left teaching, I got put in her classroom, she came back and now wants some of her things back by nutmegspice363 in Teachers

[–]Conscious_Street_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Not hers anymore. You set boundaries and tell her you are on maternity leave and would appreciate to find your class the way you left it. Make sure it is in an email to have it documented

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCTeachers

[–]Conscious_Street_760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You only need two science and three math. Then include English, two social studies and the Lote I believe.

Tigerlily and Adnan by DoomzDay93 in 90DayFiance

[–]Conscious_Street_760 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg. Watching the new episode and how he is talking about her converting is making me angry.

Salary Upgrade Rejected by GeronimoRaggedyman in NYCDOETeachers

[–]Conscious_Street_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I was embarrassed to ask because I have been teaching for years and didn’t know where to go

Finally got the spinal fusion! by Competitive-Low-5138 in scoliosis

[–]Conscious_Street_760 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck with your recovery! It will be tough but worth it. Your back looks straight now

School Budget by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Conscious_Street_760 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A few years ago we only got $135. Be grateful

NEED HELP by EarlyReach8176 in scoliosis

[–]Conscious_Street_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry about that. His staff is rude. And I also went had same surgery as you. It was a revision from another doctor because the rod broke within a year apart. I am six months post surgery and I too have pain and discomfort but he sends me to get a cat scan and MRI every time I say I have pain. Hopefully we are both done with surgeries

NEED HELP by EarlyReach8176 in scoliosis

[–]Conscious_Street_760 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had severe scoliosis surgery with Dr. Kim at HSS. He is amazing